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@CarmelBarbie @RehReh @Nicole0416_646NYC can yous add your perspectives, tired of brehs always wasting bandwidth on this subject without some female POV's
Women express their hatred for nice men
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I’m a nice guy and I’m a bit simpish but I get all the b*tches… Women love nice guys
How old are you and how long have you been married? At a certain point I don't think some of y'all are truly qualified to speak on modern dating.
It’s always a very disingenuous conversation. These dudes are NEVER honest about the types of women they want. Never. In our culture, you know the women who get the most attention: toxic, big booty, trifling chicks that screw a lot, are argumentative, stuck up. Why? Because they look good and a lot of men revel in dysfunction.
Dudes will skip over normal blk chicks to put effort into whining about thug/IG hoes/strippers/pornstars trifling chicks and what they are attracted to. Will literally skip a peaceful blk chick to argue with a hood rat. And that’s actually fine. Because you like what you like.
But when these chicks pay these dudes dust or they can’t reform those chicks, these dudes project that onto #allblkwomen or skip straight to non-Blk women who are oftentimes worse!
To be honest, a lotta blk guys literally take nice women for granted because they don’t have enough drama or dysfunction to give them the validation they need to feel good about themselves. I’ve even heard dudes call happy blk women goofy or dingy. Boring. What some don’t wanna talk about is the fact that a lot of these dudes are drama-driven and trying to tame “bad Bs”.
Why? Because they want brownie points or validation for being the one to wrangle in Megan Thee Stallion. That will somehow help them recapture the popularity they didnt have in k-12.
They aren’t looking for women compatible to themselves. They are looking for the same opportunity to smut out dymes that highly attractive dudes have. But they cover this up with the excuse that women don’t like “nice” dudes.
CORRECTION: The toxic hoes YOU like don’t like nice men. The bum hoes YOU like can’t appreciate an average blue collar working man. The trifling, mentally ill chicks YOU are willing to entertain for easy p*ssy only like toxic men. I mean some of ya’ll literally go cyber loitering for these women online to get angry at ignorant hot takes.
When are we gonna have an honest conversation about why these dudes stay worried about chicks that ain’t about nothing anyway. That they are trying to get validation and worth through the women they desire. There are blk men who love bad women. Wanna save strippers. They ADORE a broken chick because they entertain fantasies of exerting their masculinity over them thinking they can save them.
You don’t know how many professional blk men I know with baby mama drama from legit AWFUL women. Oh and it’s not like you can blame black women for this. Because the main ones trying to use PAWGs as a quick fix, literally will pick the SAME EXACT type of woman no matter WHAT her race is.
Some just palate swap chicks interracially and be having the same exact outcomes or worse with non-Blk women who are allegedly more feminine and submissive.
Whose IG page got more followers, some tatted out hoe twerking with her baby and a dirty floor mattress in the background or them wholesome blk chicks talking about rainforests?
Oh I forgot, ya’ll got a built-in lie to excuse overlooking the wholesome types of black women. Apparently they only like white men.
The sheer amount of excuses these men got to avoid personal accountability for what they are drawn to is ridiculous.
The myth of blk women only liking “thugs” is just that…a myth.
Black women date all KINDS of blk men. Rich/broke/dark/light/short/tall/average/big dikk/little dikk/smedium dikk/musty free love dudes/rappers/FedEx workers/teachers/construction workers.
And literally have the most flexible standards of ANY race of women on Earth. If you don’t want a black woman, then that’s fine. But stop lying on them like they are Satan in the flesh. Go get what you want and KIM. And stop thinking niceness means you are entitled to a date. Because there are plenty of nice fugly chicks out there your dikk won’t even get hard for. Does her “remarkable” ability to hold doors open for the elderly make you wanna screw, marry, hold hands with her in public if she look like Shrek?
Then why the hell do you think that should be the case for women?!
Even regular dudes getting tired of hearing this narrative.
And as always, if you triggered by anything in this post, it’s probably about you.Be nice because that’s who you are. Not to get p*ssy because ironically that makes you fake and not nice.
There’s so much more I could say about this stuff but I think Imma start a podcast or something because it’s too many people lost on these matters.
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The game really doesn’t change much only the players in it.
A lot of stuff my own father was using in the 60s and 70s in his heyday that he taught me worked for me later on in the late 90s and early to late 2000s era during an Internet and social media era.
I’ll be 37 in a couple of months and I’ve been married 8 years. If my wife and I parted ways today, I guarantee you I could still pull women tomorrow, so what is it again that makes me NOT qualified in your mind to speak on modern dating?
Y'all have to stop assuming this shyt about men punching above their weight class.100% truth here.
We can sit and makejokes but, what I always found ironic from “incels” (not saying this man is one) is that when they go with this whole “choose better why u always picking toxic men” it’s never them saying it to their female equivalent… and u can correct me when I’m wrong but it’s always average brehs saying that shyt to knock off city girls types.
It’s ironic because they don’t realize they are then doing the same thing they claim they hate in women - desiring a mate on sexual appeal and nothing else.
& tbh the whole “choose better someone who love and cherish you” is really them just hoping to get picked… and the funny thing is they probably don’t even want to wife women like that - they realize they just don’t have the “dating capital” to smash and run like other brehs do on these hoes.
The breh in the video could find everything he looking for in a homely nerdy women, and at the same time the video comments wouldn’t be filled with “incels” if it was a homely nerdy girl making the video - cause incels don’t care for them.
The game has changed though, and the bolded proves my point. It's not 2005, and that's not an Internet or social media era. You found your wife right before shyt went to another level. Enjoy that but it's different now.
RARI_Godwind
St. BAWGustine - DarkSkxxxn
Lmao he do look and sound damn near exactly how I thought the meme would
This is an actual example of a breh who could get rid of that yee yee ass hair cut and maybe he’ll have some btches in his dck
This is an actual example of a breh who could get rid of that yee yee ass hair cut and maybe he’ll have some btches in his dck
The homely looking woman can be on that toxic shyt too. It's just the IG, stripper, thot woman tend to be more honest about being toxic
It’s always a very disingenuous conversation. These dudes are NEVER honest about the types of women they want. Never. In our culture, you know the women who get the most attention: toxic, big booty, trifling chicks that screw a lot, are argumentative, stuck up. Why? Because they look good and a lot of men revel in dysfunction.
Dudes will skip over normal blk chicks to put effort into whining about thug/IG hoes/strippers/pornstars trifling chicks and what they are attracted to. Will literally skip a peaceful blk chick to argue with a hood rat. And that’s actually fine. Because you like what you like.
But when these chicks pay these dudes dust or they can’t reform those chicks, these dudes project that onto #allblkwomen or skip straight to non-Blk women who are oftentimes worse!
To be honest, a lotta blk guys literally take nice women for granted because they don’t have enough drama or dysfunction to give them the validation they need to feel good about themselves. I’ve even heard dudes call happy blk women goofy or dingy. Boring. What some don’t wanna talk about is the fact that a lot of these dudes are drama-driven and trying to tame “bad Bs”.
Why? Because they want brownie points or validation for being the one to wrangle in Megan Thee Stallion. That will somehow help them recapture the popularity they didnt have in k-12.
They aren’t looking for women compatible to themselves. They are looking for the same opportunity to smut out dymes that highly attractive dudes have. But they cover this up with the excuse that women don’t like “nice” dudes.
CORRECTION: The toxic hoes YOU like don’t like nice men. The bum hoes YOU like can’t appreciate an average blue collar working man. The trifling, mentally ill chicks YOU are willing to entertain for easy p*ssy only like toxic men. I mean some of ya’ll literally go cyber loitering for these women online to get angry at ignorant hot takes.
When are we gonna have an honest conversation about why these dudes stay worried about chicks that ain’t about nothing anyway. That they are trying to get validation and worth through the women they desire. There are blk men who love bad women. Wanna save strippers. They ADORE a broken chick because they entertain fantasies of exerting their masculinity over them thinking they can save them.
You don’t know how many professional blk men I know with baby mama drama from legit AWFUL women. Oh and it’s not like you can blame black women for this. Because the main ones trying to use PAWGs as a quick fix, literally will pick the SAME EXACT type of woman no matter WHAT her race is.
Some just palate swap chicks interracially and be having the same exact outcomes or worse with non-Blk women who are allegedly more feminine and submissive.
Whose IG page got more followers, some tatted out hoe twerking with her baby and a dirty floor mattress in the background or them wholesome blk chicks talking about rainforests?
Oh I forgot, ya’ll got a built-in lie to excuse overlooking the wholesome types of black women. Apparently they only like white men.
The sheer amount of excuses these men got to avoid personal accountability for what they are drawn to is ridiculous.
The myth of blk women only liking “thugs” is just that…a myth.
Black women date all KINDS of blk men. Rich/broke/dark/light/short/tall/average/big dikk/little dikk/smedium dikk/musty free love dudes/rappers/FedEx workers/teachers/construction workers.
And literally have the most flexible standards of ANY race of women on Earth. If you don’t want a black woman, then that’s fine. But stop lying on them like they are Satan in the flesh. Go get what you want and KIM. And stop thinking niceness means you are entitled to a date. Because there are plenty of nice fugly chicks out there your dikk won’t even get hard for. Does her “remarkable” ability to hold doors open for the elderly make you wanna screw, marry, hold hands with her in public if she look like Shrek?
Then why the hell do you think that should be the case for women?!
Even regular dudes getting tired of hearing this narrative.
Be nice because that’s who you are. Not to get p*ssy because ironically that makes you fake and not nice.
Treblemaka
President, BYNKRadio.com (Retired)
- Men who are pulling quality women don't complain about toxic women
- Men who don't want toxic women don't complain about toxic women
- Men who have real shxt to focus on (career, wealth building, network, business building) don't complain about toxic women
- Men who are living in their purpose first aren't really complaining about toxic women
- Men who understand that most people are mediocre don't complain about toxic women
- Men who've unpacked trauma and let go of bad relationships don't complain about toxic women
- Men who understand the role Men are supposed to take in society as confident leaders don't complain about toxic women
- Men who don't feel entitled don't complain about toxic women
- Men who don't want toxic women don't complain about toxic women
- Men who have real shxt to focus on (career, wealth building, network, business building) don't complain about toxic women
- Men who are living in their purpose first aren't really complaining about toxic women
- Men who understand that most people are mediocre don't complain about toxic women
- Men who've unpacked trauma and let go of bad relationships don't complain about toxic women
- Men who understand the role Men are supposed to take in society as confident leaders don't complain about toxic women
- Men who don't feel entitled don't complain about toxic women
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Are they though? I know for a fact i am not putting up with dry conversations with Sarah plain and fukkin tall
I dont try to simplify and box people in to these social categories that have become way more pronounced with social media.
I learned not to judge a person by who they introduce or present themselves as, and observe their actions and interactions wisely.
I feel that by improving my own self I will be in alignment with someone exhibiting similar values. And at least have better discernment
I learned not to judge a person by who they introduce or present themselves as, and observe their actions and interactions wisely.
I feel that by improving my own self I will be in alignment with someone exhibiting similar values. And at least have better discernment
I don’t understand this thread… the video only had two females and only one of them (the one in the beginning) alluded to wanting a bad boy before that guy responded and brought up the nice guy/bad boy argument. I didn’t read through the other pages of this thread but I agree with @RehReh@CarmelBarbie @RehReh @Nicole0416_646NYC can yous add your perspectives, tired of brehs always wasting bandwidth on this subject without some female POV's
I also want to add that I don’t believe that people are as simple as just being bad or nice, they have a variety of traits and engage in “bad” behaviors and good behaviors… they have good to them and bad. It just is what it is. no one is just one or the other.
That being said when it comes to vetting a man, once I get pass attraction and if there’s a connection and chemistry, i look at a man’s character, what he stands for, how he treats people, his principles and values, and how he treats me and how I feel when I’m with him. I like men with integrity and with a good strong character.
