Women express their hatred for nice men

[BigMoneyGrip]

 

[Crude]

The game has changed though, and the bolded proves my point. It's not 2005, and that's not an Internet or social media era. You found your wife right before shyt went to another level. Enjoy that but it's different now.

I was dabbling until right until the time I met my wife in 2011.

FB and IG was around and prevalent then too.

This is nothing more than fellas getting in their own feelings when they can’t pull the type of woman they want.

Women were attention whoring even prior to social media. That shyt has not changed. Your power comes from not giving a fukk and knowing there is always a better option around the corner.

 

[semicko82]

Y'all have to stop assuming this shyt about men punching above their weight class.

I assume most guys are chasing after Instagram models according to some of post in this thread.

 

[Yinny]

Men who are only nice to women they want to fukk or date are not “nice men.”

 

[Sonic Boom of the South]

When u handsome
U good regardless

Im not nice to mafukkas at all
Women love me at all times

 

[semicko82]

I was dabbling until right until the time I met my wife in 2011.

FB and IG was around and prevalent then too.

This is nothing more than fellas getting in their own feelings when they can’t pull the type of woman they want.

Women were attention whoring even prior to social media. That shyt has not changed. Your power comes from not giving a fukk and knowing there is always a better option around the corner.

I feel what you are saying, but tik tok dude was responding to what the woman was talking about
Did he tell any lies in his response?

 

[Nicole0416_718_929_646212]

@CarmelBarbie @RehReh @Nicole0416_646NYC can yous add your perspectives, tired of brehs always wasting bandwidth on this subject without some female POV's

I’m actually tired of extending the bandwidth of my brain to discuss repetitive shyt that doesn’t apply to real life offline, to participate in yet another gender war bait thread online. Wtf do I care about males and females’ opinions who I never interacted with in the OP have to do with my representation as a woman who actually appreciates positive interaction and constructive dialogue with black men? I’m 36+ years old, why should I care about the unbalanced and unhinged insecure twitter bitters who always mouth off, talking with the wrong set of lips who can’t take responsibility for their own decisions and lack personal accountability so they run to social media for emotional empathy or validation ?? Some people need to get offline, stop whining, complaining, indirectly fishing for compliments online and attention whoring, while demanding respect that they don’t deserve; and spend that time getting their own shyt together then maybe they’ll find a man who actually has a reason to take a relationship seriously. Can’t relate. I sit back and laugh at the dumb hos talking all of their shyt; calling me a pick me for years and fast forward to that same segment who are now crying online about never being picked or picked up from the bottom of the stash in permanent recycle bin status because they thought serving up ass would get them extended passes to “good men”. I refuse to read through 21 pages of this.


Besides that- I’m sure @RehReh and @CarmelBarbie among the two most level headed female posters not excluding (Booksn and HHottie) on this forum said all that needed to be said. We’re good with our options - can’t talk about a struggle that’s not there.

 

[Nicole0416_718_929_646212]

I feel what you are saying, but tik tok dude was responding to what the woman was talking about
Did he tell any lies in his response?

This is what the game is reduced to “Tik tok dudes and IG chicks” dispensing advice and people acting like that chatter is gospel.

If that’s your concept of valid interaction, you lost already.

 

[I'm Blackman]

As a man you don't chase toxic women and then complain that they are toxic . Just leave them alone and go after the women who want peace and good vibez just like you.

Also ditch the "nice guy" persona, and just be nice cause that is who you are. Don't be nice just to pick up women, that shyt is shameful. Also don't turn into a toxic man just because you feel that is what women are going for too.

Be respectful, considerate, nice, while also being assertive when the situation arises for you to be. If a woman wants drama, just leave.

Another great post here.

Well said.

 

[Spiritual Stratocaster]

The guy that posted that is likely in his own feelings, because he can’t get the type of woman he wants.

He should upgrade his swagger, learn not to give shyt about what women think, make them earn his respect, and don’t give away validation and compliments unless it’s reciprocated and deserved.

A lot of men see an attractive woman and lose their damn mind. Women can sense that thirsty energy in a man and they despise it. When you approach a woman establish to her in the very beginning that you are the prize she is going to play by your rules and if she isn’t willing to deal with you on those terms be a man and walk away from her. I promise it will be a badder one out there that is interested in you eventually.

Word...most of these broads is too damn insecure to be put on a pedal stool anyway.

You're absolutely right how they despise you for it when they get put on pedal stool.

Also it reeks of low confidence in a man and them broads hate low confident men because women want the MANS CONFIDENCE to rub off on them..

 

[Nicole0416_718_929_646212]

Word...most of these broads is too damn insecure to be put on a pedal stool anyway.

You're absolutely right how they despise you for it when they get put on pedal stool.

Also it reeks of low confidence in a man and them broads hate low confident men because women want the MANS CONFIDENCE to rub off on them..

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

Men who are only nice to women they want to fukk or date are not “nice men.”

So i should not be nice to the women im trying to fukk?

Make it make sense

Fred

 

[Shadow King]

I was dabbling until right until the time I met my wife in 2011.

FB and IG was around and prevalent then too.

This is nothing more than fellas getting in their own feelings when they can’t pull the type of woman they want.

Women were attention whoring even prior to social media. That shyt has not changed. Your power comes from not giving a fukk and knowing there is always a better option around the corner.

Instagram was not popping like that in 2011, and really is the medium that changed everything for the worse along with apps. Like I said, you got out before it ramped up. Enjoy and stop projecting issues or delusion onto men.

 

[I'm Blackman]

Instagram was not popping like that in 2011, and really is the medium that changed everything for the worse along with apps. Like I said, you got out before it ramped up. Enjoy and stop projecting issues or delusion onto men.

I agree with you and @Crude to certain extents. I'm 38 and have been happily married since 2006. IG has infiltrated the minds of a lot of women to where it presents a warped reality. IG has changed that...so I feel you. From what I understand women ask dudes for their IG versus exchanging numbers....so the means do change over time.

Where I agree with Crude is that I'm the same nikka before and after IG. It doesn't change how I move about my life. Also the quality of women I would date or pursue aren't on IG like that. My wife never had a IG or Twitter account. I do background checks for my job and a LOT of these young black women have wholesome pages with their families and what not. So it's always been hoes and quality women. If anything social media made it easier to spot the headaches and avoid them.

Edit: like @Booksnrain said a lot nikkas just pick and pursue trash women. That's the main problem and social media is damn near the cheat code to spotting them. But a Lotta people for a lot of reasons say red flags be dammed and move forth.

 

[Scustin Bieburr]

Lol @ people saying he should go for women like him.

His whole point is that women like him aren't interested in men like him. They wanna try the toxic men too and they have easy access to them.

What do yall have for men like him when he sets his sights way low and still gets curved

Most dont think that far ahead when they wanna offer that played out advice that men like him done heard a thousand times.

Its funny to roast him but by doing so those women are proving his point. They're making fun of a man whose aim is to commit instead of throwing yall on a roster. Hes a nerd because he wants a woman to be loyal to him. Make it make sense