Cat piss martini
Veteran
i'm about to finish this chicken.
women get emotionally attached QUICKLY but...
- Thread starter Huellz Santana
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And when a man breaks up with a woman hes in the shower clutching his knees talkin bout "why you make me do that girl"? Stop it, its disgusting. Its the same both ways. When people dump their sig other, for reasons outside of getting caught cheating they've checked out emotionally.
Its silly to talk about these things in generalizations, of course, but my experience, both myself and with friends and such, is that men aren't as well thought out when they break it off.
They may be unhappy, and have been for a while, but they haven't checked out the same way women have.
The_King_of_Everything
Yeah.
Moral of the story.......don't ever get attached 
Moral of the story.......don't ever get attached
easier said than done, unfortunately
The_King_of_Everything
Yeah.
Shameonyou
All Star
in order to succeed with women every man should practice having the emotional depth of a hot woman in her 20's with alot of options......
im not saying change who you are, but add that dimension to your arsenal of emotional variety when dealing with a woman.
give them a taste of their own medicine.
im not saying change who you are, but add that dimension to your arsenal of emotional variety when dealing with a woman.
give them a taste of their own medicine.
DaRealness
I think very deeply
It's all good though. It just makes the man stronger and wiser in future.
Zapp Brannigan
Captain of the Nimbus
When they're younger they get over it quickly because they have lots of options. They don't really worry about finding someone else really great because the sexual marketplace favors attractive, thin, socially presentable women in their 20's. It's nothing to really worry about. In fact, you'll probably have the last laugh once you get your money right and your education game on point while they wither away like dried up pieces of fruit.
Then they look back. They look back at all the amazing, motivated, good looking, ambition-in-his-eyes type of guys that they turned down in their 20's. They look at themselves and see a body that's beginning to sag. They're starting to see streaks of gray where they had told themselves before that the stray grays were coming from stress. They remember the look of hurt in the man's eyes that they turned down, they cracking of his voice as he asked why she didn't love him, the bitter spiral he may have gone down once it was over... and now she looks at the options that she has currently.
The limited options that she has now: guys that are willing to take a woman who is very much past her prime, has a kid at this point probably, and is showing distinct signs of aging. She'll say that she's "had her fun" now, but in reality she knows that her options are quickly dwindling and that she has to cash out as quickly as possible before she's doomed to never having kids, ever. She'll more than likely find herself forcing the word "yes" out through clenched teeth to a man's marriage proposal who is inferior to the five guys that she turned down in her 20's.
And then there's you. What kind of man are you? Do you want to be the guy who was completely sunk and ruined by a pretty girl that got to your head? Or do you want your life to be centered around you? I know that we're young and dumb and the first time that we fall in love we fall hard, but it's not as if it's something that we can't recover from. I've made stupid decisions over a woman before, but it's not the end of the world if it ends. You just gotta keep on "keepin' on."
Does a part of me still love the woman who did me really dirty? Yeah, I can admit that. But I don't let it consume me in a negative way. I use it to remind myself of where I went wrong, where not to let people wrong me, and to remind myself that love is real and that if I maintain an open heart and mind, it can happen again.
Then they look back. They look back at all the amazing, motivated, good looking, ambition-in-his-eyes type of guys that they turned down in their 20's. They look at themselves and see a body that's beginning to sag. They're starting to see streaks of gray where they had told themselves before that the stray grays were coming from stress. They remember the look of hurt in the man's eyes that they turned down, they cracking of his voice as he asked why she didn't love him, the bitter spiral he may have gone down once it was over... and now she looks at the options that she has currently.
The limited options that she has now: guys that are willing to take a woman who is very much past her prime, has a kid at this point probably, and is showing distinct signs of aging. She'll say that she's "had her fun" now, but in reality she knows that her options are quickly dwindling and that she has to cash out as quickly as possible before she's doomed to never having kids, ever. She'll more than likely find herself forcing the word "yes" out through clenched teeth to a man's marriage proposal who is inferior to the five guys that she turned down in her 20's.
And then there's you. What kind of man are you? Do you want to be the guy who was completely sunk and ruined by a pretty girl that got to your head? Or do you want your life to be centered around you? I know that we're young and dumb and the first time that we fall in love we fall hard, but it's not as if it's something that we can't recover from. I've made stupid decisions over a woman before, but it's not the end of the world if it ends. You just gotta keep on "keepin' on."
Does a part of me still love the woman who did me really dirty? Yeah, I can admit that. But I don't let it consume me in a negative way. I use it to remind myself of where I went wrong, where not to let people wrong me, and to remind myself that love is real and that if I maintain an open heart and mind, it can happen again.
devizelle
Pro
And when a man breaks up with a woman hes in the shower clutching his knees talkin bout "why you make me do that girl"
This.
I think that women tend to do so IN the relationship though. So many of us put up with a lot of stuff that we don't wanna deal with in the hopes that things will change... but during that time we're inevitably "checking out" bc our needs aren't being met. And usually the guy doesn't know there's anything wrong.
aka Bitter.
R.E.N. Spells Ren
Veteran
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Someone who becomes bitter is probably not being honest with themselves... if you become like homie said, wise, learning and owning up to your own mistakes too, that shyt is far from bitter.
Sierra Mist
Banned
You silly boys. Only men need to be loved. Women need to be wanted.
