I suppose the character building, life experience, and maturity don't add up to anything?
Trust, if your an old guy trying to marry someone significantly younger than you,
This is how I know you're just pulling shyt out if your ass though: if you really believed young women valued those traits, why don't you have that chick you are planning on getting at +30 now? Outaude of life experience (which is subjective) do you not have character? You're not mature but you're grown enough to be in law school?
Keep on simpin' playa. Don't be mad about gold diggers when the only thing you have to speak for yourself is a law degree. That's what you want.
I just wanna know what women did this to yall.
I guess my post went entirely over your head so you set up a bunch of straw-man arguments based on assumptions about me that are entirely untrue. Can't say I blame you. I guess if you're losing an argument you can make up some new ones and fight those, and post a bunch of smilies to shore it up. Fact of the matter is that I am getting women now, I'm just not letting them get me. That's what this conversation is about.
@ you for saying "all you have to say for yourself is a law degree" as if it's something easy. Or as if it's the only thing that I have going for me.
However, despite all of this, I'm working toward making the situation even better for myself. I know that if I keep working on myself my stock is going to continue to go up. A man's value doesn't exist on a binary scale, it is a progression. Getting dumped by one girl doesn't mean that someone is entirely unattractive, it just means that there's a road to recovery and that the girl who did the dumping is going to be hitting her peak really, really soon.
Dawg, you keep a journaled diary of getting women in a thread online. It's not that u don't think you don't get women, just more than likely not something you're accustomed to and something you have to put in a lot if work/nerve for.
Your first and second paragraph doesn't really touch on anything. I never said anything about getting dumped, just that someone has played you emotionally to the point where you think things you have materially acquired can make up for the personality deficiencies you have. At first your main point of women wanting you would be the perceived "status" that comes with a law degree. When I pointed out you were setting yourself up for trickdom, suddenly young chicks began to value maturity or whatever (which if true, is you just admitting you don't have those things or in reality they aren't valued) There's an excuse for everything I'm sure.
If you aren't at a t-14 or elite school, you're law degree doesn't really mean that much or symbolize something of rigor and prospective job opportunities look pretty bleek for you
I'm pretty sure that it's better than showing up to the game empty handed.
it's cold out here brehs.
Human beings out here being compared to leftovers now
I think the whole, "men are more attractive as they get older" and "married men are more successful" things are more correlation than causation. Nothing to live your life by or get your hopes up for.
At the end of the day, you're probably best off forgetting about crap like this and working on being the best person that you can be.
My girl is my best friend, if she left me I'd be devastated, not because I can't get another woman but because she's truly everything I'd want in a partner which is why she's getting a ring
I think she'd move on quicker than me to be honest, not ashamed to admit it either.
do those studies factor in something called risk? meaning are they only taking into account successful marriages or do they factor in the fact that many marriages fail and in that failure leave the husband if he's the bread winner saddled with debt, potentially paying child support, potentially losing half their assets, potentially paying spousal support?Studies show that married men tend to be more successful than unmarried ones.
Also, unless you plan on jacking off everyday for the rest of your life.... you probably do though.
there's a third option here. you're indifferent about sex. to me personally it doesn't matter if i do or don't have sex ever again. to me sex is like any other activity. if i never went to the movies again in my life i'd be fine, never went to a restaurant again i'd be fine, never had sex again i'd be fine.Breh, I dont think you thought this one through here. The only way this comment would make sense, is if you are a gay, shallow man. If you are --- cool, and even then speak for yourself, because you are speaking for two different genders here. If you're not gay, then you really need to rethink what you wrote.
