Sir, most of us didnt turn down amazing, motivated good looking guys in our youth. Thats not what youthful men are. Ever think that some ladies left their young, unstable, needy man for a more respectful, progressive and fitter man instead?
Realest sh!t I ever read on The Coli
I'm glad I survived this "love" bug with no kids and no long term financial commitments.
This only applies if the guy who was dumped hasn't achieved a certain level of success and has a lead a pretty mediocre life. If said dumped bf turns out to be multi-millionaire entrepreneur, there are a good number of these so called classy, pleasant looking, kind and self sufficient women who will try and rekindle an old flame.
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Or, it only applies to gold diggers, who I don't consider classy. Ain't no coli future multi millionaire here sir
Women are like nice cars they depreciate in value overtime.
That's why I started leasing them instead of buying so I can trade them in for a newer model annually.
I'm not a sociopath at all I just know not to let emotions dictate my actions.
this thread is dedicated to my nikka in the cubicle catty corner to me that's been sniffling the past week. eyes bloodshot red from crying, facial hair unkempt, just looking like a sad sack of shyt.
he loved that girl.
stay strong brother
Sir, most of us didnt turn down amazing, motivated good looking guys in our youth. Thats not what youthful men are. Ever think that some ladies left their young, unstable, needy man for a more respectful, progressive and fitter man instead?
I know this concept of a regretful, aging woman helps some of you ease your heartache, but to be honest, most classy, pleasant looking, kind and self sufficient women don't have limited options, even as they age. I'm in my late 20s and I still don't regret breaking up with any ex or turning down some of the guys I did in my early 20s. I've looked at the wedding pics of some of the guys that tried to pursue and think "damn, somebody actually fell for this dudes corny-ness?" Hoping that your ex girl regrets dumping you and has turned sloppy now shows that you still have some healing and self love to work on.
Y'all will also be going grey the same time we are, some of you are already balding, already have kids, etc. The rate of divorce and online dating has created very active, vivid social lives for middle aged people (I'm talking 40s) and from hearing my moms friends discussions, those women aren't feeling all that limited in their dating options either.
When you finally mature and get your life right, you will no longer look at women's looks as the only way of measuring their prime. Hopefully, you'll become worthy of women who also have your level of success and maturity.
The most powerful realization a man can have in this arena of dating is that there is nothing a woman can provide for you that you actually need in life. The kinda shyt many women dream of (being a wife, having children and a family) requires a man. The type of shyt most men dream of (money and success) doesn't require a woman.
This has to be the dumbest and most hypocritical response I've ever read to one of my posts, ever.
I'm not sure what kind of groups you're running around in, but if you're finding a lack of motivated, fire-in-his-eyes type of man in your late 20's, then you are hanging around the wrong places, and that's more your problem than anyone else's. Women in their 20's are really flippant about what they look for in a man and the type of men that they date. The last thing that they do is apply genuine logic to who they're with. You can try to lie to yourself about this, but it won't make it untrue.
Women do get older, but a man's worth will appreciate exponentially if he plays his cards right. Women are always looking for a man to do this or that for them, while men are out doing things. I know that you might try to convince yourself that age affects men and women the same way, but let's face it - a woman's attractiveness peaks in her mid 20's while a man's peaks much later on. It's being distinguished vs being viable and energetic. Two very different things. Trying to assert that I have "healing to do" doesn't change the veracity of what I wrote. The tired ass hoes from my past are now with loser ass dudes and I'm one semester away from graduating law school with no debt.
The advent of dating sites and divorce just means that you're just going to have shytty asocial people available to you. You're going to be confined to men that have shytty jobs or kids of their own - you know, the guys you used to reject?
Maybe you're trying to say that I'm immature because I hit a nerve? I don't need a woman because I am going to be completely self-sustaining and I don't want kids. What else could a woman ever give me? Sex? Sure, but that's not hard to get. It's probably most amusing that you bristled at my pointing out that women's worth depreciates as she gets older, but tried to assert the same thing about men. Nope. Women go on to clog the human resource departments while men climb that ladder.
Women are like nice cars they depreciate in value overtime.
That's why I started leasing them instead of buying so I can trade them in for a newer model annually.
Women have hurt y'all so bad, y'all are actually in here excited about someone only wanting you as a bank account as if it's something to be proud of. 
Breh, I dont think you thought this one through here. The only way this comment would make sense, is if you are a gay, shallow man. If you are --- cool, and even then speak for yourself, because you are speaking for two different genders here. If you're not gay, then you really need to rethink what you wrote.
Studies show that married men tend to be more successful than unmarried ones.
Also, unless you plan on jacking off everyday for the rest of your life.... you probably do though.
Y'all need to stop repeating this BS. Men only get more "attractive" as they get older because they make more money, and by then their just pretty much getting the left overs of everyone else's scraps.
I guarantee you, there is no young woman with good things going for her turning down a young dude for an old dude, unless old dude is shelling cash (which coli brehs don't believe in doing). You all are gonna get yourselves straight up played when you get older on some Mr. Biggs "Contagious" shyt. Simpin' in one stage of life and then doing the same in the next.
Dudes in here happy women want them as power tricks and EBT cards.
I suppose the character building, life experience, and maturity don't add up to anything? 
