El_Mero_Mero
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Women...How do you feel about "Dating Down"?
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As women's choices and eggs dry up they unsurprisingly become more open to it
As women's choices and eggs dry up they unsurprisingly become more open to it
El_Mero_Mero
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You are right on all three counts
They body they choice. I don’t give a fukk what these hoes do. I’m gon eat regardless. And a bytch gon do what’s in they best interest at the end of the day, as these hoes should.
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UWasntThere
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There is no such thing as dating down, you attract what you qualify for.
Some one that wants a Lamborghini Gallardo but can only afford a Honda Accord isn't settling, that's all they can afford. 
Some one that wants a Lamborghini Gallardo but can only afford a Honda Accord isn't settling, that's all they can afford. 
That’s how I would be if I ever become a single man again.
I know all group of women say this bullshyt
but sisters stay with this whole dating down or dating someone on my level.. which 90% of it comes from the salary they earn
it’s funny because listening to Kevin Samuels the other week when he broke down the average salary a black woman make is $36,000 a year and majority of sisters make less than $60,000 a year .. so all this dating down or on my level bullshyt, is something to make them feel good about themselves and to let white people and Oprah types think black men isn’t doing shyt..
u got chicks that are social workers or customers service reps making $45,000 a year still talking about they need a man on they level educational and financial wise
but sisters stay with this whole dating down or dating someone on my level.. which 90% of it comes from the salary they earn
it’s funny because listening to Kevin Samuels the other week when he broke down the average salary a black woman make is $36,000 a year and majority of sisters make less than $60,000 a year .. so all this dating down or on my level bullshyt, is something to make them feel good about themselves and to let white people and Oprah types think black men isn’t doing shyt..
u got chicks that are social workers or customers service reps making $45,000 a year still talking about they need a man on they level educational and financial wise
Treblemaka
President, BYNKRadio.com (Retired)
I can't blame women who don't want to date down. I certainly don't anymore.
Been there, done that.
Who wants to be with someone that aint got they shxt together? I don't want to be introducing someone to a lifestyle she can't maintain herself, or waiting for her to save up for a vacation so we can go together, or having to inspire her so she can achieve more in life.
Some guys are okay with pulling a woman up to their level, I'm not on that wave anymore. I'm not on that fixer upper shxt, she needs to come ready made.
Been there, done that.
Who wants to be with someone that aint got they shxt together? I don't want to be introducing someone to a lifestyle she can't maintain herself, or waiting for her to save up for a vacation so we can go together, or having to inspire her so she can achieve more in life.
Some guys are okay with pulling a woman up to their level, I'm not on that wave anymore. I'm not on that fixer upper shxt, she needs to come ready made.
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Im torn.
chauvinistically I grew up and like it when the male is just on a higher level than the female, she can fall in line, no ego and the family wins......but then again that can get boring, and can feel like wasted potential. With a stronger partner you can reach higher heights so it would seem.....thats where im at now...wondering if i should try and level up
on the flip side, a high level male and female couple can be fun and each faces less pressure financially but also can be a bad look. Too much competition. Its no good when there is 2 bosses runnin thangs. Ships have 1 captain. You end up not having harmony. egos clash. it gets rough. i been there.
guess its best to try and get the best of both somehow
Treblemaka
President, BYNKRadio.com (Retired)
See the way I look at is even if we are at a comparable earning level I'm still on a higher level and that's because I'm more rare. Getting a pretty woman that makes good money and has her shxt together aint difficult, but getting a man that brings everything I bring to the table beyond just my wallet is. She's aware of that even without me saying it.
I mean, a lot of brehs are looking for a woman that is basically a domestic employee they can fuk, but those guys are often also too broke to cover all the bills.
I dont want a basic bxtch just because she can cook and clean, I can literally do that myself or hire someone to do it on a weekly basis. It doesn't take much for me to fukk so I don't put pu$$y on a pedestal and sex isn't really bringing shxt to the table. A girl being pretty doesn't really move me because there are literally millions of pretty women out there.
Most guys are just looking to get by when it comes to a woman. I want more than that.
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