You should always try, work hard and risk failure , I'm not against that at all. Just saying, if you're 5'5, constantly throwing bricks despite you're best effort, couldn't make varsity team, is NBA really in your cards?At some point you're lying to them by saying they're gonna make it. It's the same with dating.
It's not really about what I would say to them ..
Or what u would say to them.
It's about how they feel about themselves.
If he's 5'5, never made varsity...
But just had that confidence like "I know I can be in the NBA"
That is worth more than gold.
That kind of confidence and mentality moves mountains.
But again... The real important part of what I'm saying is... If that 5'5 nikka doesn't try to make what he wants come true...
His life will be full of "what ifs"...
And being happy with whatever he had to settle with.
And that is torture to a 5'5 nikka who thinks he should be in the NBA
It's torture for a chick looking at her big ass, good guy husband, thinking about that one dude she use to like... That was in the streets
It's torture to a guy out at dinner with his wife, who is a 6 on a good day... But he always wanted to fukk with that badd bytches...
As soon as they life changes...
They when the lottery .. or go get a bbl..
They gonna go try to get what they really want
. The world will move on.