Women, No Fap, and Sex

Are Women Becoming Desensitized?

  • Yes, they need to chill out

  • No, it's not effecting anything


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I thought about something based on a thread in which a woman claiming her vibrator damn near exploded on Twitter.

So here it is

Women's mxsturbation is looked at as something completely normal and standard among women, to the point there is a $10 Billion industry around tools for women to enhance mxsturbation. Women even host parties around tools they can use to stimulate themselves. However, men have developed no fap for themselves and any man who's bought a mxsturbation tool is immediately viewed as a loser to other men.

In western society a woman is not responsible for her own orgasm during sex. Her pleasure is supposed to be his responsibility. At the same time his pleasure is also supposed to be his responsibility. Societally if a woman can't get "sufficiently stimulated" that is the man's fault. However, if a man can't get it up that is still his fault. It is known that with some men chronic and prolonged mxsturbation can cause ED, especially when paired with too much p0rn. That's part of why No Fap was developed.

My question is this: what are the long term effects of mxsturbation for women? Men can't replicate the the rpms or motions made by many of these machines and many men can't replicate the size (:dame:) of these items. Are women becoming desensitized over time because they are being stimulated my machines that aren't a realistic replication of sex? Women also consume p0rn at an increasing rate and are responsible for some of the more taboo genres (stepmom stuff) becoming more popular.

Tldr: Are Women getting desensitized by using tools on themselves and is it effecting the bedroom experience?

What do you guys think?

Edit: this is only meant to be a discussion, not an indictment, it came across my brain as a possibility and im curious as to what everyone thinks.
 
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First and foremost, pause, :dame:

Secondly, I don’t think there is a straight woman out here that would prefer a sex toy over a real penis. They are not the same. Stop comparing male and female behavioral traits, because we are not the same.

Male and female orgasms are not the same either. Most of the time when a woman can’t get off…it’s because the man isn’t doing something right, or she is just not attracted to you like that. I don’t know this for a fact, but I don’t think women suffer from the same overstimulation from p0rn & toys the way those things can effect a man.

Once again, stop comparing the 2 genders people, we are not the same.
 

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All things being normalized... women in general experience faaaaaaaar fewer orgasms than men in their lifetime, tool-assist or otherwise.

There are some grown ass women who will straight up to tell you they dont even know what an orgasm feels like, and they aint interested in buying toys.

And then there are men who were having 10 orgasms a day at age 15.

Im sure there are a few women out there who are having so many orgasms with their toys that maybe they are desensitized...

But the vast majority of women do not have anywhere near the number of orgasm as the average porn watching male. Its not even remotely close, so i dont think desensitization is even a factor for then.... these women aint cumming like that
 

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And to add, just like the poster above me said... i dont think this is necessarily a bad or good thing for women. Women are just different, so its best not to compare.

There are women who can go years without an orgasm. There are men who refuse to go a day without one.
 

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I don't think many women are desensitized huge dildos, maybe the old style vibrators, but many of the newer style vibrators are not real vibes at all, they use suction to simulate oral sex . I don't think women are the main consumers of step mom porn, women watch lesbian and gangbang. Maybe lesbian stepmom? I guess if you were a large consumer of those types of porn, but of course you're sex life doesn't include those activities(heterosexual monogamous) that could have a negative impact. But unlike male porn addicts a women could actually do the things she watches in porn, maybe she should try that

Secondly, I don’t think there is a straight woman out here that would prefer a sex toy over a real penis.
This is incorrect
 

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I have work with chicks probably I say 2 who said they haven’t had sex in about 1 or 2 years and they was decent looking broads at that

I didn’t get into details but I was like:dwillhuh: no way with bodies like that.. they was in their late 30s

Exactly. Alot of women aint cumming everyday watching porn, or playing with their vibrator everyday. Some.might be, most aint.

However, most men discovered puberty and beat their dikks relentlessly for decades ever since.

Men and women dont do sex the same.... men and women dont do masturbation the same
 

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YOU TRYING TO PUT THE SQUARE PEG IN THE CIRCLE HOLE BREH. OUR BODIES AREN'T THE SAME. SOME WOMEN CAN FIRE OFF 3 OR 4 ORGASMS IN 20 MINS. GUYS CAN'T.

THAT VAG IS A DURABLE, SHAPESHIFTING MONSTER. IT CAN HANDLE THE BUZZING. THERE IS AN ASPECT YOUR MISSING. THOSE TOYS ARE NO REPLACEMENT FOR A BODY. THERE IS SOME OTHER STUFF GOING ON DURING SEX THAT 2 D BATTERIES CAN'T DUPLICATE.
 

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Pound for pound, the man meat wins. Meaning if the playing field is equal, and the man can make her cum with his meat. The toy doesn’t have the same reactions to stimulus and warmth, and movements that a penis can provide.

But in reality she knows most men can't induce an orgasm with their penis, she knows a vibrator can 100% of the time.
 

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I have work with chicks probably I say 2 who said they haven’t had sex in about 1 or 2 years and they was decent looking broads at that

I didn’t get into details but I was like:dwillhuh: no way with bodies like that.. they was in their late 30s


No shade to you but this way of thinking has always confused me. As if having a nice body/being attractive means someone's sex life is popping. Being sexually desirable and not wanting to have sex can co-exist.
 

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I don’t think women who masturbate with toys too much are desensitized I just think many of them are just lazy and bad at sex

Many of my female friends are definitely bad lays. all they do is lie there and wait for a machine to get them off

and then wonder why dudes don’t wife them up :russ:
 

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Pound for pound, the man meat wins. Meaning if the playing field is equal, and the man can make her cum with his meat. The toy doesn’t have the same reactions to stimulus and warmth, and movements that a penis can provide.


Unless she just wants to cum quick without a lot of fanfare, the toy will always win. It's like an oven vs a microwave. Both can get the job done but one saves hella time. :mjgrin:
 

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But in reality she knows most men can't induce an orgasm with their penis, she knows a vibrator can 100% of the time.

Unless she just wants to cum quick without a lot of fanfare, the toy will always win. It's like an oven vs a microwave. Both can get the job done but one saves hella time. :mjgrin:
Respect :ehh:
 
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