Women Say Men Not Showing Up to the Single Events

[blues_funk_reggae]

Some of y'all have mentioned the 'transactional' behavior that has crept its way into relationships, I also blame some of it on club culture.

Years ago before social media popped off I went to Starlets, we got there and hoes was already asking for tips and bottles....we still had our jackets on.

One dude in our group tells one of the bartenders " you beautiful " and shorty him him with " say it with a tip " and pointed at the tip jar.

Years later, I see these hoes on social media with the same behavior, " don't say good morning, send me a cashapp instead "

Any woman on that transactional sh*t is immediately bushed.

Beyond goofy.

 

[Dreamchaser]

Crazy that these girls can't read the room. Ain't no dude wanna go to these event when you got people filming and blaming dudes. There is a reason why dudes ain't going.

Social media has really screwed a lot of women. Its quite sad.

I'm sure if these women were easy going, nice and not trying to fukk around they would have an easier time finding a man.

I think women need to reset and get off of social media.

 

[cyndaquil]

This type of environment is setting up the man to fail.

If you lined up 50 men in front of 1 woman, and you secretly put her soul mate first on line guess what? She gonna pass on him with the quickness. In fact she'll pass on all 50 men because women "wanna see what's next" that's just their nature, especially the modern day woman. The whole "don't settle" nonsense.

Most of these women think they have more options than they really do, Kevin Samuels tried to explain that to these women but they didn't wanna hear it.

Ding ding we have a winner. This is the crux of the issue. The illusion of choice and unlimited options. So many brehs have stories on here of chicks tryna dog them then circle back when shyt aint work out for them. Chicks matching on apps and not responding to a simple hello. But some these hoes are also dumb a breh will make high 6 figures but because he doesn't flaunt his wealth and have a fancy job title they'll overlook him or think he is on their level or below it

 

[SNG]

Crazy that these girls can't read the room. Ain't no dude wanna go to these event when you got people filming and blaming dudes. There is a reason why dudes ain't going.

Social media has really screwed a lot of women. Its quite sad.

I'm sure if these women were easy going, nice and not trying to fukk around they would have an easier time finding a man.

I think women need to reset and get off of social media.

Not just them men too. Honestly I think the start needs to be that onlyfans should be illegal.

 

[Belize King]

They should start by advertising these singles events outside of church I'm sorry but most brehs in 2025 are just not into church like that anymore

Even on dating apps if chick is talking about Jesus or church too much I'm just saying. My Sundays are for football, videogames, and edibles.

@Jesus H. Christ
@BlackJesus

 

[DaHNIC82]

Goofy bytches created this environment. The fukk a breh gonna pay and sign up for this bullshyt and leave with a hug while the nikka who does none of that get access to the p*ssy anytime he wants?

Dudes today figured out the scheme and now they frustrated

 

[Wiseborn]

Yeah before the Kevin Samuels era and this Pop the Balloon shyt I wouldn't have believed it either but I know now

That’s all it’s about Knowledge not getting mad. Once you see it for what it is you’d understand.

There’s no problem with Black Love nor is it a gender war all it is is rather mid Black women mad that Top Tier Black handsome gang ( and ugly gang brad) is either ignoring them or fukking and chucking them.

Same chick diss Black Mid gang and no one says a word.

 

[SNG]

Goofy bytches created this environment. The fukk a breh gonna pay and sign up for this bullshyt and leave with a hug while the nikka who does none of that get access to the p*ssy anytime he wants?

Dudes today figured out the scheme and now they frustrated

This I peeped the chick at the end of the video saying that there were only two black dudes there and they went with the white women and she approached one of them and he rejected her. I’m willing to bet you there were more options of men there and that the two Brehs in there were probably the more good looking ones and had options. I know women if they are going to approach a man chances are he’s attractive to other women and has options. But I bet she didn’t want to settle for the other men that were there.

 

[Apollo Creed]

Not just them men too. Honestly I think the start needs to be that onlyfans should be illegal.

Nah the issue is we keep p*ssy footing around hoing.

Legalize Prostitution and Brothels. Let ie be a clear line if this is the life you choose fine, people who want to buy should not be punished because these women often want to make the money so we gotta quit the victim shyt. Legalizing it will cut down the real crimes of sex trafficking too.

Once it is legalized that cuts the bullshyt of nikkas tryna play boy friend when all they want is casual sex and women playing games when all they want is resources. It cuts the BS will people will legit do relationships because its what they want and not for the transaction.

 

[SNG]

Nah the issue is we keep p*ssy footing around hoing.

Legalize Prostitution and Brothels. Let ie be a clear line if this is the life you choose fine, people who want to buy should not be punished because these women often want to make the money so we gotta quit the victim shyt. Legalizing it will cut down the real crimes of sex trafficking too.

Once it is legalized that cuts the bullshyt of nikkas tryna play boy friend when all they want is casual sex and women playing games when all they want is resources. It cuts the BS will people will legit do relationships because its what they want and not for the transaction.

That still ain’t going to stop shyt when you have onlyfans around. Remember onlyfans is a low cost to entry in prostitution. All the women need to do is set up an account and post nude pictures at home and send a few messages to men that are willing to pay to be a partime penpal. Or you could be like Shannon Sharpe and put your bid in on 25,000 a cheek.

 

[Apollo Creed]

That still ain’t going to stop shyt when you have onlyfans around. Remember onlyfans is a low cost to entry in prostitution. All the women need to do is set up an account and post nude pictures at home and send a few messages to men that are willing to pay to be a partime penpal. Or you could be like Shannon Sharpe and put your bid on 25,000 a cheek.

I don't think you understand how prostituion works in places it's legal.

 

[SNG]

I don't think you understand how prostituion works in places it's legal.

nikka I’ve been to the Dominican where it is legal. Half the bytches on tinder in Dominican are selling p*ssy. I went to a whore house in Dominican and had a Dominican version of Beyonce play with her p*ssy in front of my face. Trust me I know how prostitution works legally.

 

[Wiseborn]

It comes from somewhere. Social media has given this illusion and all that don’t settle bullshyt. Plus all the dusty nikkaz in DM’s inflating a women’s ego to
the point sone think it’s reality. Also the access to celebrities and athletes through social media. Look at the Shannon Sharpe situations you got nikkaz like him all up in first year college students DM’s if she bad and got onlyfans.

It’s the perception of access to celebrities more than anything.

There IG celebrities that made a career over being a rapper’s baby moms.

 

[Wiseborn]

It’s crazy because I see these same women crying to my fiancée almost every night over the phone saying: “I’m tired of doing this on my own. I don’t want to be strong and independent.”

“I don’t need a man.” “Self love isn’t enough.”

Even my lady is getting tired of hearing their woe is me babble.

The public cope is real.

 

[SNG]

It’s the perception of access to celebrities more than anything.

There IG celebrities that made a career over being a rapper’s baby moms.

This is true I remember when my ex was excited that B.O.B was hitting her up in her DMs this was after we broke up.