Women Say Men Not Showing Up to the Single Events

[ThrobbingHood]

shyt like this will have ramifications. But at the same time it’s all full circle. Men are willing to pay for it so how can you blame women.

Who decided to make relationships solely transactional? Because paying for a woman’s nails, hair etc was done out of courtesy in a relationship when I was growing up, not an entry level requirement just to date.

 

[SNG]

Who decided to make relationships solely transactional? Because paying for a woman’s nails, hair etc was done out of courtesy in a relationship when I was growing up, not an entry level requirement just to date.

It comes from somewhere. Social media has given this illusion and all that don’t settle bullshyt. Plus all the dusty nikkaz in DM’s inflating a women’s ego to
the point some think it’s reality. Also the access to celebrities and athletes through social media. Look at the Shannon Sharpe situation you got nikkaz like him all up in first year college students DM’s if she bad and got onlyfans.

 

[yseJ]

Just having money isn’t enough… clout is the new sexual currency. It’s insane. These women are looking for attention more than their bills being paid.

thats cuz clout is a cash cow that you can reinvest into until it dries up. ppl stop caring you have a 150k job when they see influencers or youtube randos shooting shyt and getting fame AND more money via social media. even if they aint getting money now, they might have avenues to milk it a 150k job breh will not


look at the hawk tua girl. one second of meme fame, she got a podcast out, youtube channels and her own scam cryptocoin

 

[ThrobbingHood]

It comes from somewhere. Social media has given this illusion and all that don’t settle bullshyt. Plus all the dusty nikkaz in DM’s inflating a women’s ego to
the point sone think it’s reality.

It’s crazy because I see these same women crying to my fiancée almost every night over the phone saying: “I’m tired of doing this on my own. I don’t want to be strong and independent.”

“I don’t need a man.” “Self love isn’t enough.”

Even my lady is getting tired of hearing their woe is me babble.

 

[blues_funk_reggae]

This type of environment is setting up the man to fail.

If you lined up 50 men in front of 1 woman, and you secretly put her soul mate first on line guess what? She gonna pass on him with the quickness. In fact she'll pass on all 50 men because women "wanna see what's next" that's just their nature, especially the modern day woman. The whole "don't settle" nonsense.

Most of these women think they have more options than they really do, Kevin Samuels tried to explain that to these women but they didn't wanna hear it.

Imagine being a man, going to these events, putting in time, effort and in some cases money. Just to go from table to table getting passed on because she don't like the color of your shirt.

 

[Vodun]

The word of the Lord in Isaiah

And in that day seven women shall take hold of one man, saying, We will eat our own bread, and wear our own apparel: only let us be called by thy name, to take away our reproach.

Yo this shyt is really happening too

 

[Brolic]

This sounds pretty standard. People have to mesh personality wise as well. So you went out with a few people once or twice, it didn’t go anywhere, and then you met your fiancé. I’ve never done online dating but this is how most people seem to describe it. And many people never find a serious match at all.

I thought we were. They’d laugh and we had good conversations. Maybe they were just good at pretending.

I’m just saying that they’re good marriage minded men out there.

 

[SNG]

It’s crazy because I see these same women crying to my fiancée almost every night over the phone saying: “I’m tired of doing this on my own. I don’t want to be strong and independent.”

“I don’t need a man.” “Self love isn’t enough.”

Even my lady is getting tired of hearing their woe is me babble.

Nah it’s bad out there. I hear from both the men and the women. Especially the women that are scorned from relationships that are just looking at men as licks. A lot of women that were dealing with men that they loved and got burnt are using the pain and taking it out on dating men with resources and money.

 

[Apollo Creed]

Who decided to make relationships solely transactional? Because paying for a woman’s nails, hair etc was done out of courtesy in a relationship when I was growing up, not an entry level requirement just to date.

prostutition has infiltrated black culture which essentially sets the social culture for the rest ofd the country (when we have pneumonia the rest of the country catches a cold which is what we see now with all groups starting to complain about shyt we been talking about for a while, or how dudes like Kevin Samuels impacted people globally).

 

[yseJ]

prostutition has infiltrated black culture which essentially sets the social culture for the rest ofd the country (when we have pneumonia the rest of the country catches a cold which is what we see now with all groups starting to complain about shyt we been talking about for a while, or how dudes like Kevin Samuels impacted people globally).

prostitution is imo in every culture nowadays (aside from very strict ones outside of US) and it stems from instant gratification...

people have a lot of convenience nowadays, you can shop, get food, laundry, dry cleaning etc done without leaving your house just using services off your phone.

so its like that if you just want a piece of ass too...like time = money so it makes sense.


dating and things beyond dating becoming transactional is definitely an issue tho

 

[O.T.I.S.]

Men can get rejected from the comfort of their home without all that extra hubbub.

Modern women can’t even read the room… making vids like this is EXACTLY the reason why black men aren’t showing up to these events like thar.


And I didn’t even know “black men” go to these things anyway… Or even know about them. I thought that this was just some shyt you see in black romance comedies.




Complain about black men to millions of people and wonder why black men are not participating in your dating olympics, brehettes


And most single black men aren’t at church…

 

[10bandz]

Who decided to make relationships solely transactional? Because paying for a woman’s nails, hair etc was done out of courtesy in a relationship when I was growing up, not an entry level requirement just to date.

People underestimate how much the scam era plays a part in a lot of this....

 

[Apollo Creed]

prostitution is imo in every culture nowadays (aside from very strict ones outside of US) and it stems from instant gratification...

people have a lot of convenience nowadays, you can shop, get food, laundry, dry cleaning etc done without leaving your house just using services off your phone.

so its like that if you just want a piece of ass too...like time = money so it makes sense.


dating and things beyond dating becoming transactional is definitely an issue tho

The issue is when Prostitution is ILLEGAL it is coded. In other countries where it is legal there is a fine line, thus you don't see it blend into Square Dating because if I want to pay for sex I will just go to a brothel. If the USA had legalized prostituion we wouldn't see the current dynamic to this degree.

 

[JamesJabdi]

I never heard a beautiful woman talk about not being able to find men.....its always the medium ugly to average broads who are the loudest out here because they think they better then guy who are their equal in terms of looks.

If men showed up they would complain about it being "low quality men", if the men that are top 10% showed up they would complain that they didn't show them attention.....they always complain and find issues with everything which is the exact reason why they are single

 

[yseJ]

The issue is when Prostitution is ILLEGAL it is coded. In other countries where it is legal there is a fine line, thus you don't see it blend into Square Dating because if I want to pay for sex I will just go to a brothel. If the USA had legalized prostituion we wouldn't see the current dynamic to this degree.

Oh yeah for sure