Would arranged marriages benefit the black community?

[Bushmaster69]

It's sad how many of ya'll struggle with women. I remember breh's caping for sharia law on here

If you aren't Muslim and/or understand the faith, why are you speaking on sharia law?

 

[Bushmaster69]

Arranged Marriage ain't bout being able to get p*ssy it's bout bettering the community and bringing back the family structure

The responses here tell me why it's necessary.

They are too far gone.

Leave them be.

 

[Luke Cage]

Imagine in this working in this LGBTQ society. The amount of gay people complaining about being married off to the opposite sex would cause a phenomena 10x what the metoo shyt did.

 

[NO-BadAzz]

Yes, black women need protection, guidance and structure after they leave their parents' home.

Households need men leading them.

As a breh stated, if more men were married, crime would be down in the community. I would suspect most men that commit crime against another black man or woman are not married.

I would love to see the crime stats for black men that are married vs non married black men, same with black women that are married vs non married black women

 

[ItsPeople]

at this point might as well try n see.

I don’t think we have much more to lose.

 

[the bossman]

Arranged marriages would've Benefited the black community seeing how disastrous the current setup is. Too late for this generation tho

 

[MacNCheese]

I actually do suspect that crime would go down noticeably if single men no longer felt the need to do things to impress women. But who's to say men would actually react that way to arranged marriages.

 

[NO-BadAzz]

Parents can see things in others that one may not see, you ever heard your mama or daddy, grandparents say something along the lines as such "That girl too fast, flip at the mouth or isn't right for you" etc, and they've just met them or may have been around them for a minute or so.

Black Grandparents use to always say that I know mines did.

Black men and Black women that are married should know their children well enough to know to make a good selection for them.

Fathers that have been around their children and the mother's input should do the selecting, if the grandparents are still alive, get their input too. The grandparents have to had been married though etc.

 

[cyndaquil]

no
I remember when my parents and the girl's parents tried to make me go to prom with a childhood friend who was sadly not attractive.
I ended up not going to prom just so I wouldn't take her as my date.
I'd probably move to another city if I had an arranged marriage

You do get some input. They your parents after all you can request for certain qualities that you like

 

[NO-BadAzz]

I actually do suspect that crime would go down noticeably if single men no longer felt the need to do things to impress women. But who's to say men would actually react that way to arranged marriages.

How was crime back when black families were married at an 80% before 1965

 

[get these nets]

Say we make an unmarried person in their mid 30s be looked down upon again and Say the grandparents and parents get together and choose who you was with? Yall think most people would be better off?

I say NO.
And I also humbly think that going back and retrieving elements of the cultures we formed makes more sense and is more practical than trying to adopt new customs.

Tradition families, sacrifice, discipline, having children when you are in better psychological, social, and financial position.

 

[Software]

Thread is gonna go platinum

 

[Peachstate]

No, but I think a much less structured version of it could be beneficial.

 

[Canon]

you don't have to like it but honestly probably yes

 

[Software]

No, but I think a much less structured version of it could be beneficial.

What do you mean by that?