Would arranged marriages benefit the black community?

Would it be better?


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i'd let my grandparents pick before i let my parents pick.

parents would pick a poor paul wall. grandparents would pick someone well-employed, childless, respectable, good leader n traditional. but...they are also pretty colorist.


maybe instead of arranged marriage, the person just needs approval from at least 2 elders
 

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Don't arranged marriages have lower divorce rates or some shyt?
Even if that true, what's attributing to that? The culture or the type of marriage.

Divorce is a business in America. Its socially and financially beneficial in some cases. Arranged marriages only work if the couple is forced to stick through...be it legal, economic and/or social reasons. There's nothing stopped an arranged marriage from calling it quits a few months later.
 

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Even if that true, what's attributing to that? The culture or the type of marriage.

Divorce is a business in America. Its socially and financially beneficial in some cases. Arranged marriages only work if the couple is forced to stick through...be it legal, economic and/or social reasons. There's nothing stopped an arranged marriage from calling it quits a few months later.
Probably they parents choose better lol :troll:
 

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Only if both parties come from money and legacy. Don't say people don't do that in 2022.
 

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Incels who come from money gonna be like
what is this from?
 

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Is it too much for people to exercise common sense and sexual discipline until marriage?


Nope I've done it. I also know several brehs and other dudes about their business who do it. Let the internet YouTube etc and a message board tell you all brehs got 10 felonies, 12 kids and come from a single parent home.

The dysfunctional among us gets the most press. Men, women everyone loves and craves the screw up
 
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-I can already see with my mentality my arranged marriage would be doomed. My mom/grandma would most likely pick some churchgoing girl & I'm not about that life. I'm also not about that "Happy wife, happy life" shyt so I wouldn't be going along with it to please anyone.
 

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Some of yall ain't being honest and answering the question about would it better the black community. Idgaf what yall like or want. Would it make the community better is the question
 
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