Would it be creepy if I send this girl flowers?

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I told this girl how I felt about her in June 2012. I told her that I liked her ever since middle school and high school. While I was telling her about this, she liked every minute of it, and told me to 'keep going.' I told her how I felt and so on, after that I didn't see her for a whole year until December 2013 because we both went to college somewhere else. We went out on a movie, and I was really nervous, I'm sure (I hope) she was too. I mean we both and a great time, but then Winter break was over and we went back to school. We didn't even talk until Summer 2014 when I came back home. We watched a lot of movies together and went to parties, nothing really happened between us, no kissing, nothing. During these times of hanging out, I didn't realize how much she liked me because I would always act like 'I'm the boss' attitude, don't get me wrong, I treated her with respect, but not like a gentleman type way to pursue a relationship, for example I left her downtown to see my friends, I realized how stupid and inconsiderate that was now.

Last time I talked to her was in October 2014, and that's when I sent her a text to hang out. She replied ' Next week sometime? I said 'sure.' But me being to prideful I didn't call. she said her day sucked on Facebook, so then I messaged her and gave her my new number seeing if she wants to hangout sometime again soon. She never replied back and it's been a week but I have a feeling she's been sending me indirect messages through her Facebook towards me like "I get nervous" and "I hope you won't hurt me again" Yep, yeah that's toward me obviously because she posted that right after I sent the message. I want to send her flowers (my mom thinks i should) and send her a message, like saying ''hey, just thinking about you, hope this brightens you day' or something like that. Should I or should I not, anyone please feel free to give any kind of suggestion. Ladies, help me out! I just feel bad now that I realized how stupid I was, I really like her too, she's fine.

Note that she was talking to other guys and she went out with other guys also. And i heard she was dating someone but her Facebook says single.
 
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It would be simpish for you to do that bro. Also it would show her your hanging all your hopes on her.
 

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I already smashed that basic... her head game was trash. Sorry. :mjlol:
 

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nikka you plays games like you're the one with the p*ssy. :scust:
 

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:manny: no harm in trying. You miss 100% of shots you don't take.

Don't listen to these guys saying it's simpish, the worst thing she can do is ignore it or say no. That's not a L in opinion. At least you won't have regrets and you will know where you stand.

The only L you take is if you let her take advantage of you.
 

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Find another chick bro. You are finished over there she has 0 interest and you gonna send flowers she will look at while another dude is bending her over the sofa.

Did you not read where I said she was posting subliminal messages on facebook? If she didn't have any interest why would she post those?
 

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I told this girl how I felt about her in June 2013. I told her that I liked her ever since middle school and high school. While I was telling her about this, she liked every minute of it, and told me to 'keep going.' I told her how I felt and so on, after that I didn't see her for a whole year until December 2013 because we both went to college somewhere else. We went out on a movie, and I was really nervous, I'm sure (I hope) she was too. I mean we both and a great time, but then Winter break was over and we went back to school. We didn't even talk until Summer 2014 when I came back home. We watched a lot of movies together and went to parties, nothing really happened between us, no kissing, nothing. During these times of hanging out, I didn't realize how much she liked me because I would always act like 'I'm the boss' attitude, don't get me wrong, I treated her with respect, but not like a gentleman type way to pursue a relationship, for example I left her downtown to see my friends, I realized how stupid and inconsiderate that was now.

Last time I talked to her was in October 2014, and that's when I sent her a text to hang out. She replied ' Next week sometime? I said 'sure.' But me being to prideful I didn't call. she said her day sucked on Facebook, so then I messaged her and gave her my new number seeing if she wants to hangout sometime again soon. She never replied back and it's been a week but I have a feeling she's been sending me indirect messages through her Facebook towards me like "I get nervous" and "I hope you won't hurt me again" Yep, yeah that's toward me obviously because she posted that right after I sent the message. I want to send her flowers (my mom thinks i should) and send her a message, like saying ''hey, just thinking about you, hope this brightens you day' or something like that. Should I or should I not, anyone please feel free to give any kind of suggestion. Ladies, help me out! I just feel bad now that I realized how stupid I was, I really like her too, she's fine.

Note that she was talking to other guys and she went out with other guys also. And i heard she was dating someone but her Facebook says single
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The box worn out, dont do it
 

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:manny: no harm in trying. You miss 100% of shots you don't take.

Don't listen to these guys saying it's simpish, the worst thing she can do is ignore it or say no. That's not a L in opinion. At least you won't have regrets and you will know where you stand.

The only L you take is if you let her take advantage of you.

:snoop:
 

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I told this girl how I felt about her in June 2013. I told her that I liked her ever since middle school and high school. While I was telling her about this, she liked every minute of it, and told me to 'keep going.' I told her how I felt and so on, after that I didn't see her for a whole year until December 2013 because we both went to college somewhere else. We went out on a movie, and I was really nervous, I'm sure (I hope) she was too. I mean we both and a great time, but then Winter break was over and we went back to school. We didn't even talk until Summer 2014 when I came back home. We watched a lot of movies together and went to parties, nothing really happened between us, no kissing, nothing. During these times of hanging out, I didn't realize how much she liked me because I would always act like 'I'm the boss' attitude, don't get me wrong, I treated her with respect, but not like a gentleman type way to pursue a relationship, for example I left her downtown to see my friends, I realized how stupid and inconsiderate that was now.

Last time I talked to her was in October 2014, and that's when I sent her a text to hang out. She replied ' Next week sometime? I said 'sure.' But me being to prideful I didn't call. she said her day sucked on Facebook, so then I messaged her and gave her my new number seeing if she wants to hangout sometime again soon. She never replied back and it's been a week but I have a feeling she's been sending me indirect messages through her Facebook towards me like "I get nervous" and "I hope you won't hurt me again" Yep, yeah that's toward me obviously because she posted that right after I sent the message. I want to send her flowers (my mom thinks i should) and send her a message, like saying ''hey, just thinking about you, hope this brightens you day' or something like that. Should I or should I not, anyone please feel free to give any kind of suggestion. Ladies, help me out! I just feel bad now that I realized how stupid I was, I really like her too, she's fine.

Note that she was talking to other guys and she went out with other guys also. And i heard she was dating someone but her Facebook says single.

Stop simping i repeat STOP SIMPING

you want to buy her flowers in the hopes of hey look im a nice guy simp azz nikka here are flowers. Not on some this is a genuine peace offering.

already trying to weasel your way into a girl liking you, heres the thing a woman likes you or they don't. You can't force it, she made it clear she's not into you, all this money and simp tactics trying to change her mind will just leave you frustrated, angry and out of money.

You the type of nikka to buy a box of chocolate and treyvathian and markel be the ones who are eating it.
 
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