Would it be creepy if I send this girl flowers?

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:yeshrug: he obviously has strong feelings for her, he should try.

he can let his case be heard without simping, he has her facebook can just send a message on some hey lets go for coffee some time next week or something

dudes who put women on the pedestal have to use simp tactics to make up for their own inadequateness.

Nikka prob didnt evne buy his mom flowers for mothers day a few weeks ago, yet is ready to go all out for a chick who at the very most will say aww thanks that was so sweet of you and thats it
 

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he can let his case be heard without simping, he has her facebook can just send a message on some hey lets go for coffee some time next week or something

dudes who put women on the pedestal have to use simp tactics to make up for their own inadequateness.

Nikka prob didnt evne buy his mom flowers for mothers day a few weeks ago, yet is ready to go all out for a chick who at the very most will say aww thanks that was so sweet of you and thats it
I agree. I'm anti simpin myself but I hate to kill dudes dreams when it comes to a chick they like.
 

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I agree. I'm anti simpin myself but I hate to kill dudes dreams when it comes to a chick they like.

I never said don't go for it, but you don't have to spend money to do it.

I'm not even saying don't spend money if its truly genuine from the heart with no ulterior motives.

but dude has ulterior motives
 

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Stop simping i repeat STOP SIMPING

you want to buy her flowers in the hopes of hey look im a nice guy simp azz nikka here are flowers. Not on some this is a genuine peace offering.

already trying to weasel your way into a girl liking you, heres the thing a woman likes you or they don't. You can't force it, she made it clear she's not into you, all this money and simp tactics trying to change her mind will just leave you frustrated, angry and out of money.

You the type of nikka to buy a box of chocolate and treyvathian and markel be the ones who are eating it.

he can let his case be heard without simping, he has her facebook can just send a message on some hey lets go for coffee some time next week or something

dudes who put women on the pedestal have to use simp tactics to make up for their own inadequateness.

Nikka prob didnt evne buy his mom flowers for mothers day a few weeks ago, yet is ready to go all out for a chick who at the very most will say aww thanks that was so sweet of you and thats it

I am not simping the point of buying the flowers is to make for being jerk and for standing her up all those times. How do you know she's not into me? Like I said RIGHT after I sent that text she started posting all those subliminal messages on facebook. If she wasn't into me why do that? Who could she possibly be thinking about at that moment?
 

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BTW the indirect msgs aren't to you, if a woman wants to talk to you she will.

And who cares what your mom thinks, women always think what they would want. Of course a woman would want flowers, hell if a ugly fat chick bought me Madden 16 you think IMA be like :kony: ? I'll be aww thanks that was so kind of you
 

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I told this girl how I felt about her in June 2012. I told her that I liked her ever since middle school and high school. While I was telling her about this, she liked every minute of it, and told me to 'keep going.' I told her how I felt and so on, after that I didn't see her for a whole year until December 2013 because we both went to college somewhere else. We went out on a movie, and I was really nervous, I'm sure (I hope) she was too. I mean we both and a great time, but then Winter break was over and we went back to school. We didn't even talk until Summer 2014 when I came back home. We watched a lot of movies together and went to parties, nothing really happened between us, no kissing, nothing. During these times of hanging out, I didn't realize how much she liked me because I would always act like 'I'm the boss' attitude, don't get me wrong, I treated her with respect, but not like a gentleman type way to pursue a relationship, for example I left her downtown to see my friends, I realized how stupid and inconsiderate that was now.

Last time I talked to her was in October 2014, and that's when I sent her a text to hang out. She replied ' Next week sometime? I said 'sure.' But me being to prideful I didn't call. she said her day sucked on Facebook, so then I messaged her and gave her my new number seeing if she wants to hangout sometime again soon. She never replied back and it's been a week but I have a feeling she's been sending me indirect messages through her Facebook towards me like "I get nervous" and "I hope you won't hurt me again" Yep, yeah that's toward me obviously because she posted that right after I sent the message. I want to send her flowers (my mom thinks i should) and send her a message, like saying ''hey, just thinking about you, hope this brightens you day' or something like that. Should I or should I not, anyone please feel free to give any kind of suggestion. Ladies, help me out! I just feel bad now that I realized how stupid I was, I really like her too, she's fine.

Note that she was talking to other guys and she went out with other guys also. And i heard she was dating someone but her Facebook says single.

:dahell:
 

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Lol how were you a jerk when she friendzoned you


And shes Not thinking of you. You don't have a emotional bond, nor a sexual bond.

When a woman is into you. Your phone is going off the hook she wants to hang out with you.

I am not simping the point of buying the flowers is to make for being jerk and for standing her up all those times. How do you know she's not into me? Like I said RIGHT after I sent that text she started posting all those subliminal messages on facebook. If she wasn't into me why do that? Who could she possibly be thinking about at that moment?
 

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You know what the problem was my dude? You sat on the fence too long. You knew the girl liked you and she knew you liked her and everything was out in the open and you hung out together frequently for an entire summer and you made not one move my nikka. Not one move. THAT's why you're currently in the friend zone, overthinking a situation that will benefit more from your absence than your persistence. If you want this girl then my advice is to stop trying so damn hard. Girls hate that shyt. And they see through it and know that it means you're insecure in general or insecure about her. And to women, insecurity is what makes p*ssy dry.

You might gonna have to take this L and do better next time.

With women, especially attractive women, the window of opportunity to make something happen is generally small--I'm talking like 2 weeks to a month MAX. If you don't get it poppin in that time period then odds are that it won't be happening. Ever.

Sorry.
 

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BTW the indirect msgs aren't to you, if a woman wants to talk to you she will.

And who cares what your mom thinks, women always think what they would want. Of course a woman would want flowers, hell if a ugly fat chick bought me Madden 16 you think IMA be like :kony: ? I'll be aww thanks that was so kind of you

Who are they for then? How come she didn't tell the person instead of posting on Facebook? Do you honestly think it's a coincidence that 5 min after I send her a text she posts those indirect msgs? If she wasn't interested why would she take down my new number? Obviously she didn't respond back to my text because 1. we haven't talked since oct 2014 and 2. I've been known to stand her up.
 
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I am not simping the point of buying the flowers is to make for being jerk and for standing her up all those times. How do you know she's not into me? Like I said RIGHT after I sent that text she started posting all those subliminal messages on facebook. If she wasn't into me why do that? Who could she possibly be thinking about at that moment?
Spread your wings and fly playa. We in 2015 all that buying flowers and cupcaking sht dead. Especially if she's not your girlfriend already. Your hanging your heart on a Facebook status SMFH
 

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Who are they for then? How come she didn't tell the person instead of posting on Facebook? Do you honestly think it's a coincidence that 5 min after I send her a text she posts those indirect msgs? If she wasn't interested why would she take down my new number? Obviously she didn't respond back to my text because 1. we haven't talked since oct 2014 and 2. I've been known to stand her up.
Life on this planet is a coincidence. Unfortunately, coincidences happen.

Even if it's not a coincidence (and it honestly might not be), what have you done about it?
 
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