Would it be creepy if I send this girl flowers?

[Guess Who]

Spread your wings and fly playa. We in 2015 all that buying flowers and cupcaking sht dead. Especially if she's not your girlfriend already. Your hanging your heart on a Facebook status SMFH

Exactly. Doing relationship things before you have the relationship is a surefire way to ensure you will never get the relationship.

 

[Mensch Fontana]

Send the flowers breh

Spoiler

with a picture of ya dikk in the middle, to let her know what time it is

 

[John Mayer]

You know what the problem was my dude? You sat on the fence too long. You knew the girl liked you and she knew you liked her and everything was out in the open and you hung out together frequently for an entire summer and you made not one move my nikka. Not one move. THAT's why you're currently in the friend zone, overthinking a situation that will benefit more from your absence than your persistence. If you want this girl then my advice is to stop trying so damn hard. Girls hate that shyt. And they see through it and know that it means you're insecure in general or insecure about her. And to women, insecurity is what makes p*ssy dry.

You might gonna have to take this L and do better next time.

With women, especially attractive women, the window of opportunity to make something happen is generally small--I'm talking like 2 weeks to a month MAX. If you don't get it poppin in that time period then odds are that it won't be happening. Ever.

Sorry.

Trying too hard would be sending her multiple messages on facebook. I sent her one msg on fb after not talking to her in a YEAR! If she doesn't respond then

 

[DrexlersFade]

no harm in trying. You miss 100% of shots you don't take.

Don't listen to these guys saying it's simpish, the worst thing she can do is ignore it or say no. That's not a L in opinion. At least you won't have regrets and you will know where you stand.

The only L you take is if you let her take advantage of you.

 

[Guess Who]

Trying too hard would be sending her multiple messages on facebook. I sent her one msg on fb after not talking to her in a YEAR! If she doesn't respond then

You're thinking like a man right now. A woman who isn't in a relationship with you, whom you have a precarious relationship with due to your self-admitted flakiness, is most likely going to see random flower arrangements as trying too hard.

You're honestly better off just making regular conversation and rebuilding the connection with her.

 

[Amerikan Melanin]

This nikka asks for advice then dont take it and acts belligerent.

Buy the biggest bouquet of longstem roses you can find my G and walk them into her class or job and ask her out again face to face. Keep us updated on how that goes for you.

 

[MarcusDigital]

This nikka asks for advice then dont take it and acts belligerent.

Buy the biggest bouquet of longstem roses you can find my G and walk them into her class or job and ask her out again face to face. Keep us updated on how that goes for you.

Lol trust me bru. That won't end well. It'll be that awkward laugh/half smile. Where shes thinking WTF did he really spend money to say sorry what a simp

 

[EpicStoryTeller]

Most likely those messages weren't even for you lmao she already knows you lurking on her Facebook so she purposely put those there to make you think she upset over you.

Women are strategist when it comes to this and best believe it's 3 other dudes that's thinking the same thing you are.

Better leave this one alone and charge it to the game bruh. That mentality you have is going to turn her off completely and sending flowers will only show that you're desperate and she'll see that as a chance to further confuse and play with your emotions. Having you looking like

 

[MarcusDigital]

Most likely those messages weren't even for you lmao she already knows you lurking on her Facebook so she purposely put those there to make you think she upset over you.

Women are strategist when it comes to this and best believe it's 3 other dudes that's thinking the same thing you are.

Better leave this one alone and charge it to the game bruh. That mentality you have is going to turn her off completely and sending flowers will only show that you're desperate and she'll see that as a chance to further confuse and play with your emotions. Having you looking like

Yes women are great stratagist. And masters of manipulation they'll dangle pssy and have dudes killing each other

 

[jadillac]

I told this girl how I felt about her in June 2012. I told her that I liked her ever since middle school and high school. While I was telling her about this, she liked every minute of it, and told me to 'keep going.' I told her how I felt and so on, after that I didn't see her for a whole year until December 2013 because we both went to college somewhere else. We went out on a movie, and I was really nervous, I'm sure (I hope) she was too. I mean we both and a great time, but then Winter break was over and we went back to school. We didn't even talk until Summer 2014 when I came back home. We watched a lot of movies together and went to parties, nothing really happened between us, no kissing, nothing. During these times of hanging out, I didn't realize how much she liked me because I would always act like 'I'm the boss' attitude, don't get me wrong, I treated her with respect, but not like a gentleman type way to pursue a relationship, for example I left her downtown to see my friends, I realized how stupid and inconsiderate that was now.

Last time I talked to her was in October 2014, and that's when I sent her a text to hang out. She replied ' Next week sometime? I said 'sure.' But me being to prideful I didn't call. she said her day sucked on Facebook, so then I messaged her and gave her my new number seeing if she wants to hangout sometime again soon. She never replied back and it's been a week but I have a feeling she's been sending me indirect messages through her Facebook towards me like "I get nervous" and "I hope you won't hurt me again" Yep, yeah that's toward me obviously because she posted that right after I sent the message. I want to send her flowers (my mom thinks i should) and send her a message, like saying ''hey, just thinking about you, hope this brightens you day' or something like that. Should I or should I not, anyone please feel free to give any kind of suggestion. Ladies, help me out! I just feel bad now that I realized how stupid I was, I really like her too, she's fine.

Note that she was talking to other guys and she went out with other guys also. And i heard she was dating someone but her Facebook says single.

Long story short, you could send her flowers and say, "hey thanks for being such a great friend" or something to that effect, so as to not makeurself look bad if ur misreading the situation.

BUT, if you heard she's dating someone, going on dates with other guys, that's prob at least partiay true. who cares what her facebook status says.

Just a heads up, DON'T assume a woman's cryptic messages are about you. I've been there before and been 100% wrong.

 

[MarcusDigital]

CMON ON OP! WE ALL TOLD YOU WHAT TO DO. Hope you listen next time playa. Be aggressive go for what you want if she not with it CHARGE HER TO THE GAME and keep pushing

 

[BreezyH]

i've randomly sent small trinkents like a pin or a shirt to someone if it reminded me of them or i thought they'd like it - whether it's the homie, or a chick i've dealt with and we're on good terms. the chicks take it to mean something else so i fell back .


for your situation, unless it's her birthday or something, sending flowers it might look odd, but i say go for it. send em and dont text or call or nothing. wait for her to call and say thanks. take it from there. if she dont respond then all you're out is some flower money

 

[Ikwa]

 

[BigGuuwop]

Just call shorty...fukk all that messaging/sending flower shyt
If she don't pick up you know where you stand
If she does its gametime

 

[Be@t Bangerz Fan]

You clearly said she's been seeing and going out with other guys, so what makes you think the subliminal messages exclusively pertains to you? Just because she changed her FB status after you sent her a text? That don't mean shyt! Chances are, she was already in the middle of putting up a "subliminal" message as you sent her the text. You ever thought of that? To be honest, you remind me of the type of nikka that thinks a bytch want a relationship with you, just because she said, "Hey, baby" but in reality, all she was doing was saying, "Hello" (in her own way).