Would y’all date a girl who works a thot job?

[Piff Perkins]

How is working at a men's clothing department or restaurant that serves alcohol (ie every most restaurants) a thot job? Those are pretty basic jobs.

 

[Him]

If she works in a call center or warehouse just know a few done already passed her around. @CouldntBeMeTho

 

[Calibrated]

Don't forget ruin the night of all those tryna flirt

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"Here go Rennis again blocking me from spittin this game!"

 

[IWasntMadeToPlayTheSon]

i know you eat her out. how my nut taste?

Good one. But she's not at Blaze or Strokers lmao…shes at cheetah. In other words not a trick turning spot…They dance 5 ft away from you and charge 40-50 a song

 

[IWasntMadeToPlayTheSon]

In seriousness, do she work the VIP?

Are you cool with her getting paid to f**k men?

I had the same assumptions too. But she doesn’t do all that. Her club is more on the high end side where girls get prosecuted by the club for turning tricks etc….they are attached to a high end steakhouse. Not worth the headlines and getting shutdown for that. Plus the other girls with rat each other out if they hear about a girl doing that. They make too much to risk their job by the club getting raided.

 

[Wargames]

Define “date” and does that include all our interactions leading to sex?

 

[CodeBlaMeVi]

I had the same assumptions too. But she doesn’t do all that. Her club is more on the high end side where girls get prosecuted by the club for turning tricks etc….they are attached to a high end steakhouse. Not worth the headlines and getting shutdown for that. Plus the other girls with rat each other out if they hear about a girl doing that. They make too much to risk their job by the club getting raided.

Cool but everyone has a price. If you’re good then it’s Gucci .

 

[IWasntMadeToPlayTheSon]

Did you know in the talking/early dating stage?

Were there any specific moments or occupational standards that instigated insecurities or treated your relationship?

What did your friends and family think, and did it matter?

Her occupation is sexual, was she actually a true sexual person in private or is there a dissonance and she fell short of the idea men have about strippers in bed?

Was there a traumatic origin story that (possibly) guided her to that work?

1.Yes. I did. Never bothered me. I have a bar/club background so I’ve been around pretty bartenders, bottle girls the majority of my adult life so it didn’t bother me.

2.No. In reality the insecurities where all on her end. It’s hard for most dancers to be in serious relationships bc men are like…well shyt she sittin on a nikka lap rn so I’m gonna go out and do me…etc

3. If I’m happy they are happy. Im probably lucky in that regard.

4. She’s not hyper sexual or exhausted by her job to the point she’s a zombie or something. Like I mentioned in another response it’s a high end club with a steak house attached so she’s not defeated so to speak after every shift if that makes sense.

5. No. She’s never mentioned anything and we’re both very open with each other. And she obviously trusts me by now to tell me. But she’s upper-mid class upbringing. 2 parents, a dog, 3 siblings…etc. obviously it can happen to anyone but she’s well adjusted just likes the hustle. also in nursing school.

 

[IWasntMadeToPlayTheSon]

Cool but everyone has a price. If you’re good then it’s Gucci .

Correct. Just like the cashier at Kroger

 

[Dont@Me]

Good one. But she's not at Blaze or Strokers lmao…shes at cheetah. In other words not a trick turning spot…They dance 5 ft away from you and charge 40-50 a song

What sucka ass simp is paying for that?!?!

 

[Big Boss]

I mess with those type of women but not marrying then

 

[IWasntMadeToPlayTheSon]

What sucka ass simp is paying for that?!?!

It’s chill tho…not filled with horn dogs trying to nut off a dance lol

 

[Scustin Bieburr]

Nope.

Nggas try to date thots then get mad when they act like what they always were. They think they can change her instead of recognizing they'll never trust her. Real "I'm different and special and better than everyone else" energy. Like those dumbass women that date aggressive liars then act shocked when that man tells her to shut the fukk up and raises his hand at her after she finds out he's been cheating on her.

 

[SheWantTheD]

Add college professors to the list, they have power over and access to too many free, curious, horny young adults.

 

[SheWantTheD]

If she works in a call center or warehouse just know a few done already passed her around. @CouldntBeMeTho

Fosho.. especially if they’ve ever went for drinks or some shyt after work.

Had a married shorty at my job, shorty got some alcohol in her and was ready to risk it all