Would You Date Someone With Multiple Kids If You Had None Yourself?

[EA]

I'm young so there's no way that I'm dating a girl with kids but if you're significantly older, ready to settle down and not bothered about raising another man's kids (I know you only said dating but eventually it would get to that point) then do you

 

[MikelArteta]

Hell if I know....Im just trying to give the nikka some real life variables to consider.

p*ssy gets many nikkas caught up, Ain't shyt me or you can say that's gone make a difference if the nikka got his mind made up.

which is why I said this nikka is just going to overlook this information and continue till its to late, this chick is a master at running game

 

[MikelArteta]

I'm young so there's no way that I'm dating a girl with kids but if you're significantly older, ready to settle down and not bothered about raising another man's kids (I know you only said dating but eventually it would get to that point) then do you

big difference between say being 38 dating a 31 year old woman with 1 child from a prior divorce (id never do that)

and dating a 24 year old woman with 3 kids

 

[EA]

big difference between say being 38 dating a 31 year old woman with 1 child from a prior divorce (id never do that)

and dating a 24 year old woman with 3 kids

I had the former situation in mind when I said that 'cause a 24 year old with three kids should be off limits...especially if you factor in how old her eldest child is

 

[*Angel*]

Honestly, unless you hate kids, I don't see what the big deal is. She clearly owns up to her decisions and is taking care of her crew, and you two actually get along well. The real question is why NOT talk to her......to follow some strict ideal??!

 

[Heafcliffe]

Truthfully, I would IF it was A child. No bunches for me.

My stepmother took my father and his 2 seeds on as a package deal. Dated 1 or 2 with kids that could've had the last name. Pay it forward.

Luckily, I married a seedless.

 

[thirdeye]

One is my limit.

 

[dap-man]

Personally I wouldn't date a single mother, because I'm not a single father. That isn't a good match in my eyes. If you are seriously considering dating a single parent then you have to evaluate your whole life, and their life as well. When you have a relationship with a single parent you aren't just entering the single parent's life, you are also entering the life of whatever child(ern) they may have. It's not the other way around if you don't have kids of your own.

 

[Illuminatos]

19 with 2 kids?

 

[Atlrocafella]

before this turns into another black woman bashing-single mothers have ruined the world thread...

I've been recently "seeing" a girl....she's awesome.....she's the very rare black nerdy chick.....very intelligent, good convo, the box is we spent yesterday watching walking dead, playing some game where you guess logos, fukking, arguing about possible endings to game of thrones (she reads the books )....she even posts at internet forums (not here and i'm not linking her )

but here it comes yall.....she's 24 with THREE kids she was engaged at 19 and had 2 babies with that guy before they fell out....then popped out another one last year from a high school friend who then preceeded to go into witness protection and has since disappeared.....

whats yall thoughts in situations like these brehs? as always with coli consensus I will look at yalls most suggested plan of action and do the exact opposite

i'm semi young with no kids and just starting to come out of my whore phase...i dont wanna settle down and the thought of children terrify me but this girl yall.... idk

I was with you until you said 3.....3 my nicca?, 1 is manageable, but 3? Nicca don't add that type of stress to your life. shyt might be sweet now until it becomes your full responsibility.

Oh and when I say a chick with 1 chick is manageable, that's assuming that she's on her shyt 100%. She can't be as basic as a chick with no kids.

 

[Marvel]

No...In this situation, it seems the girl is not stable IMO. I just cannot marry a woman that has a kid already and I have met some amazing women that had kids before but it is not for me. I have a friend that always seemed to get into relationships with woman with kids, but he had a son himself..so maybe they share that in common. I want my seed to be the first to open up the womb, not some other man.

 

[360dagod]

 

[William F. Russell]

and all this is nullified because she is a single mother with 3 kids, again this is the game they run on anyone, sex is amazing to ramp up them dophamine levels and draw you in, all logic goes out the window as you jut thtink emotionally now and fall further in the quick sand. Look at you already knowing the situation is messed up but trying to justify it with a few little things

Just like a old basketball player like kobe bryant, he can no longer rely on speed and athleticism like he did as a young player, so he has to adapt his game, work on tha tpull up jumper, coming off screens and his jumper to still stay relevant, hsa to be more crafty on d to not get blowed by a single mother works on her personality, works on teh craft of appearing great so yu think (damn ima treat her better than all those wicked men shes telling me about), basically shes a great used car salesman selling you that rusted ford pinto with the transmission failing but go in breh

I lost it at the Kobe reference.

But unlike Kobe, these single mothers aren't even relevant in the game. They're adapting their game for a minimum contract (some d*ck and attention)...they're hoping to get Elton Brand recognition in the dating game.

 

[Chris.B]

lol is this a trick question?

 

[abominable1]

before this turns into another black woman bashing-single mothers have ruined the world thread...

I've been recently "seeing" a girl....she's awesome.....she's the very rare black nerdy chick.....very intelligent, good convo, the box is we spent yesterday watching walking dead, playing some game where you guess logos, fukking, arguing about possible endings to game of thrones (she reads the books )....she even posts at internet forums (not here and i'm not linking her )

but here it comes yall.....she's 24 with THREE kids she was engaged at 19 and had 2 babies with that guy before they fell out....then popped out another one last year from a high school friend who then preceeded to go into witness protection and has since disappeared.....

whats yall thoughts in situations like these brehs? as always with coli consensus I will look at yalls most suggested plan of action and do the exact opposite

i'm semi young with no kids and just starting to come out of my whore phase...i dont wanna settle down and the thought of children terrify me but this girl yall.... idk

don't do it

a few years from now you will be sitting in front of your computer like this

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