This is some fake tough guy bullshyt, if the biological parents worked out visitation/joint custody, you don't have a say. There would already be a plan in place and if you deviated from that because 'it's my house, I'm the man' your wife would be held in contempt of court.
Because he isn't the child's father, it's that simple, what you're talking about has no legal basis.
Marry a single mother and look for problems brehsHe has married the mother of your child/children, they live under his roof, and these are his demands.
-It's not being triggered. This dude's literally saying they're his kids now, the dad needs to respect him & tell him where they're going. I'm saying those are the real dad's kids, he doesn't have to tell him shyt & he's under no obligation to know or respect him. You have a contract with your wife, not the dad & if she's not communicating with you both properly pulling stepdad authority shyt with the wrong man will get you hurt.
You have lost your mind breh. Me and my BM have an arrangement, I pick my son up from school on Friday and drop him off to school on Monday. Ain't no way some new nikka gone come around and start dictating when and where I'm allowed to see my son.Ok, so you dont like the language he used because you feel its disrespectful, ok i can agree there. But the premise of what he is stating is not wrong.
And yes, if the kids live with me, then you do need permission to see them or take them somewhere.
You think someone should be able to just show up at your house any time they want to see the kids? So you and the family chilling watching a movie at 8pm and this nikka can just show up and join in unannounced?
Now that I think about it, step dad moving like this would be a 100% sure fire way to get custody flipped. The mom would be held responsible for creating a hostile environment for the childs father and the child by proxy and they'd take the kid from her. You cannot under any circumstances do that.
I see my kid every week, not every other week. I also have all independent rights to my son, mama can't tell me shyt whenever it's my time with my son, and step dad DAMN SURE can't. This is why the judge ordered our drop offs and pick ups to be at school or daycare, because my ex wife is ignorant enough to try some stupid shyt like what y'all are saying.The kids are living in HIS house, eating HIS food and staying with him the majority of the time. Why shouldn't the stepfather have this authority? Those are his kids for most of the year.
Men will cry up and down all day about not wanting to be stepfathers because they're scared of the child and bio father not "respecting them", but folks are mad at this.
I wasn't talking about folks like you. Sounds like you're on point when it comes to time with your kids.
