Would You rather feel wanted or needed in a relationship?

[Illeye buckmatic]

Wanted.
Aint no bytch gonna leech off me

 

[Ooh Marty]

I got to stop smoking!!!!

Just that quick, I forgot that I made this thread

Any who, I asked this same question on facebook last night and all but one male said they would rather feel needed than wanted..their main reason was because feeling needed by a woman makes them feel manly

All of the females of course said wanted.

 

[Sonic Boom of the South]

wanted. if someone wants you, then as time goes by, the want turns into need. natural progression....

nah i can't make that progression brah

 

[AZBeauty]

Both

 

[2Quik4UHoes]

Loved really, but between the two wanted. Being clingy ain't a good look.

 

[Ooh Marty]

Most people are going to say Want.

Why ask the question though?

I got to stop smoking!!!!

Just that quick, I forgot that I made this thread

Any who, I asked this same question on facebook last night and all but one male said they would rather feel needed than wanted..their main reason was because feeling needed by a woman makes them feel manly

All of the females of course said wanted.

 

[Torrential]

Wanted. Deff need my space and so will she, don't want an unhealthy relationship.

 

[Illeye buckmatic]

I got to stop smoking!!!!

Just that quick, I forgot that I made this thread

Any who, I asked this same question on facebook last night and all but one male said they would rather feel needed than wanted..their main reason was because feeling needed by a woman makes them feel manly

All of the females of course said wanted.

Them nikkas had low self esteem. I dont need a bytch to make me feel manly.
Or they probably engaged in a few gay acts and want the woman to feel needy towards them to negate their fakkitry.

 

[Kilgore Trout]

I totally read the thread the wrong way.

I like a bit of both. I love it when a strong woman shows me vulnerability.

 

[LOUDaffair]

Both any nothing ass bytch kould want u ya heard me but its a difference when u got a rider ..

 

[LOUDaffair]

Needing someone is usually like golddiggers

a bytch that see the money kould want u or need u tho a hoe gon b a hoe ain't no way round it bruh..

 

[bouncy]

I want to be needed, but on a small level of neediness meaning a woman who needs to have security and a healthy friendship. If someone needs you too much, chances are they are they are lacking in too many things I can't give them which will cause problems down the line.

Once you give someone what they need, you will be wanted which will turn into love, as long as what you give them comes with some sort of sincerity, and laughter. This is why a baby loves his mother. He associates food, and safety, with his mother. As he gets older he may learn about his father and learn to love him once he understands discipline, and how a man does things. The love for both parents come AFTER his needs are met which is a good thing because it shows these people can be trusted to handle their business and trust brings being wanted and love.

 

[Binary]

Wanted
I hate dependency.

 

[Steve Piffler]

nah i can't make that progression brah

i don't mean "need" as in being clingy and always wanting to be up under each other and will kill themselves if they ever break up. not that kind of need. i mean a relationship that has been going on for a number of years, and all aspects of each others lives has been intertwined (in a good way). having to change that dynamic would be devastating. you get used to living a certain way and being treated a certain way that you begin to "need" that. it becomes part of who you are, in a way. it's hard to explain. you have to be in a looooooong term relationship to understand....but it's not a bad thing...

 

[FreedS[ohh]lave]

NEEDED

I like low self esteem submissives broads who beleive in old school traditional type relationships whee they serve the Man and know their place