Would You rather feel wanted or needed in a relationship?

[Rawtid]

I don't want to be either. I just want to be a compliment, just as I would want someone to compliment me.

 

[SheeBadd]

Both any nothing ass bytch kould want u ya heard me but its a difference when u got a rider ..

a bytch that see the money kould want u or need u tho a hoe gon b a hoe ain't no way round it bruh..

I want to be needed, but on a small level of neediness meaning a woman who needs to have security and a healthy friendship. If someone needs you too much, chances are they are they are lacking in too many things I can't give them which will cause problems down the line.

Once you give someone what they need, you will be wanted which will turn into love, as long as what you give them comes with some sort of sincerity, and laughter. This is why a baby loves his mother. He associates food, and safety, with his mother. As he gets older he may learn about his father and learn to love him once he understands discipline, and how a man does things. The love for both parents come AFTER his needs are met which is a good thing because it shows these people can be trusted to handle their business and trust brings being wanted and love.

Truuuu

 

[AZBeauty]

I don't understand how you'd want someone you don't need.

 

[LOUDaffair]

Truuuu

One thing the streetz taught me is to stay ahead of the game, always keep ya komposer, make more $$ than u spendin & NEVER TRUST A bytch! But still its sum females that'll ride for u more than ya nikkaz do too I seen both sides..

 

[Sonic Boom of the South]

I don't understand how you'd want someone you don't need.

don't understand needing a person

you NEED
*food
*shelter
*water
*clothing

Needing a person would be a weakness

I may want to be with her
I want things to work out
I want to make her happy
I want her to be happy with me

but need her

nah

 

[AZBeauty]

don't understand needing a person

you NEED
*food
*shelter
*water
*clothing

Needing a person would be a weakness

I may want to be with her
I want things to work out
I want to make her happy
I want her to be happy with me

but need her

nah

My idea of "need" in a relationship is different from yours. If I'm with someone, I need them to be available to me emotionally and physically. I need for that person to be my backbone and be supportive of me and my goals. Because of those things, it makes me WANT to be with them.

 

[bouncy]

don't understand needing a person

you NEED
*food
*shelter
*water
*clothing

Needing a person would be a weakness

I may want to be with her
I want things to work out
I want to make her happy
I want her to be happy with me

but need her

nah

The things you stated as needs can come through a person which means you need them.

An example would be the way you love sex. If you met a women who was as freaky as you, and put you onto to other sexual things, chances are you will need her to fulfill your sexual needs.

If you go to a square chick who just wants to do missionary do you think you would need the freaky chick or just want her?

You can be content with the square chick because at least you're getting sex, but you won't be happy because to be happy means you need the freaky chick to satisfy your wants and desires. You can try to change those wants & desires, but that is a another topic.

 

[Sonic Boom of the South]

My idea of "need" in a relationship is different from yours. If I'm with someone, I need them to be available to me emotionally and physically. I need for that person to be my backbone and be supportive of me and my goals. Because of those things, it makes me WANT to be with them.

Yeah those are things I "want" or "like" not need
So if you need that what happens when it is gone

The things you stated as needs can come through a person which means you need them.

An example would be the way you love sex. If you met a women who was as freaky as you, and put you onto to other sexual things, chances are you will need her to fulfill your sexual needs.

If you go to a square chick who just wants to do missionary do you think you would need the freaky chick or just want her?

You can be content with the square chick because at least you're getting sex, but you won't be happy because to be happy means you need the freaky chick to satisfy your wants and desires.

That is not a need but a desire/want

 

[AZBeauty]

Yeah those are things I "want" or "like" not need
So if you need that what happens when it is gone

If I'm not getting what I need than I would not want to be with that person anymore.

 

[bouncy]

Yeah those are things I "want" or "like" not need
So if you need that what happens when it is gone

That is not a need but a desire/want

So you would stay with her, and have sex just to bust a nut?.

To me good sex is important as much as food, clothing, and shelter because it is something that keeps my body and mind, healthy, as well as keeping our relationship strong. This is a scientific fact.

A child doesn't need sexual intercourse, but a grown man, and woman, does. Good sex is what keeps you connected through the skin contact & powerful orgasms releasing oxytocin and keeping you both, wanting & NEEDING, each other to repeat those experiences.

Remember a child needs his parents to provide basic necessities for him, and through hugging and doing things together he develops need and love for them. Once you get grown, you can provide for yourself, but you need some type of companionship, and that is the goal of quality sex. To provide that connection, that you once had as a child towards your parents, but instead of food, clothing, and shelter, it's to feel skin on skin, enjoy each other, and have a strong orgasm. Everything else comes after(as long as the safety factor is their, especially for women which is why having your shyt together plays a major part for them). This is probably why the bible states you leave your father & mother to be with your wife, she continues that connection you lost as you got older.

 

[Sonic Boom of the South]

So you would stay with her, and have sex just to bust a nut?.

To me good sex is important as much as food, clothing, and shelter because it is something that keeps my body and mind, healthy, as well as keeping our relationship strong. This is a scientific fact.

A child doesn't need sexual intercourse, but a grown man, and woman, does. Good sex is what keeps you connected through the skin contact & powerful orgasms releasing oxytocin and keeping you both, wanting & NEEDING, each other to repeat those experiences.

Remember a child needs his parents to provide basic necessities for him, and through hugging and doing things together he develops need and love for them. Once you get grown, you can provide for yourself, but you need some type of companionship, and that is the goal of quality sex. To provide that connection, that you once had as a child towards your parents, but instead of food, clothing, and shelter, it's to feel skin on skin, enjoy each other, and have a strong orgasm. Everything else comes after(as long as the safety factor is their, especially for women which is why having your shyt together plays a major part for them). This is probably why the bible states you leave your father & mother to be with your wife, she continues that connection you lost as you got older.

i wouldnt be with her in the 1st place

i decide to be with the female i "want"

who fits what i "want"
and does what I "want" sexually

 

[bouncy]

i wouldnt be with her in the 1st place

i decide to be with the female i "want"

who fits what i "want"
and does what I "want" sexually

In essence you're saying you would only get with someone who satisfies your sexual NEEDS. You just proved my point.

A want is something you can do without, albeit life would be harder, but other things will keep you doing what you need while not having what you want. The fact that you won't even get with a girl who doesn't satisfy you sexually, even if she is the shyt in other areas, shows sex is a strong need for you.

You know how many women get with men who don't have good sex, and won't even cheat on him, because their need for having a comfortable life is more important, are out there?.

Sex is so strong, people masturbate when they don't have it, even when they have it, if it is wack they daydream about something better. Priest molest kids because they don't have it. Sex is real, and I think it's the reason people sleep around, they are looking for that trusting companion which they had in their parents or guardian growing up, but they mask it with other things which sex easily brings, although with a lot of bullshyt if you aren't honest with yourself.

 

[Sonic Boom of the South]

In essence you're saying you would only get with someone who satisfies your sexual NEEDS. You just proved my point.

A want is something you can do without, albeit life would be harder, but other things will keep you doing what you need while not having what you want. The fact that you won't even get with a girl who doesn't satisfy you sexually, even if she is the shyt in other areas, shows sex is a strong need for you.

You know how many women get with men who don't have good sex, and won't even cheat on him, because their need for having a comfortable life is more important, are out there?.

Sex is so strong, people masturbate when they don't have it, even when they have it, if it is wack they daydream about something better. Priest molest kids because they don't have it. Sex is real, and I think it's the reason people sleep around, they are looking for that trusting companion which they had in their parents or guardian growing up, but they mask it with other things which sex easily brings, although with a lot of bullshyt if you aren't honest with yourself.

i can get any woman I "Want" to fulfill my sexual "needs"
I still don't "need" that one particular woman to do so

 

[bouncy]

i can get any woman I "Want" to fulfill my sexual "needs"
I still don't "need" that one particular woman to do so

Which means you NEED certain women to fulfill your sexual NEEDS. Once that certain woman goes away, you will look for another woman, which means you need a woman to fulfill you sexual needs. It can be different women each time, but for a certain point in time, it was one woman who fulfilled your need so you NEEDED her. If you wanted her, you could take or leave the sex, and do something else with her, then when the sex came, you just had missionary, regular sex because the sex wasn't a need. From your post, you NEED a certain type of woman to fulfill your sexual needs. People look different, but really all the same because it is our characters that make us who we are not how we look. So you see it as one person, I see it as you going for the same type of person to fulfill your need, even though they all look different. I hope that wasn't confusing.

If you don't get it. Life will teach you.

 

[opulence]

Wanted....I don't need any man...

I love my mom more than the air I breathe...until I have my first child I doubt I will need another person...