Would You rather feel wanted or needed in a relationship?

Would you rather feel wanted or needed in a relationship?

  • Wanted

    Votes: 26 74.3%
  • Needed

    Votes: 9 25.7%

  • Total voters
    35
  • Poll closed .

colicolicoli

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Is it even possible to truly be in love with someone and not feel like you need them? :hmmm:


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a whole lotta both?
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Nope.
Being needed implies codependency and I hate that kinda dynamic in any kind of relationship so being wanted works.
 

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Yeah, I picked need as well.
When times get tough, only the things needed ever matter.
 

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Which means you NEED certain women to fulfill your sexual NEEDS. Once that certain woman goes away, you will look for another woman, which means you need a woman to fulfill you sexual needs. It can be different women each time, but for a certain point in time, it was one woman who fulfilled your need so you NEEDED her. If you wanted her, you could take or leave the sex, and do something else with her, then when the sex came, you just had missionary, regular sex because the sex wasn't a need. From your post, you NEED a certain type of woman to fulfill your sexual needs. People look different, but really all the same because it is our characters that make us who we are not how we look. So you see it as one person, I see it as you going for the same type of person to fulfill your need, even though they all look different. I hope that wasn't confusing.

If you don't get it. Life will teach you.

:snoop: are u slow?

needing a "type" is a hell of a big difference than needing a "particular" woman:dwillhuh:

don't quote me any more kid:snoop:
 
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