WTF is passive rejection?

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

bytch please, it aint about entitlement. Just dont be wasting my time. We go out if u not intrested just let it be known.

bytch pleaee ya self. That's entitlement. No one cares about your feelings especially when they are trying to ditch yo ass.

 

[Virtuous_Brotha]

Females get rejected just as much as men though just in a different way. If a dude has a Netflix and chill and smashes same night and then the girl tries to cuff him and doesn't. She got rejected and he got what he wanted just keeping it trill.

Exactly, only difference is men actually have sex with the women they reject

 

[yardman]

I do this all the time. The first whiff of fukkry I'm gone. And I especially don't say shyt so she can't use any slick manuevers to open the door again.

 

[IWunD3r]

bytch pleaee ya self. That's entitlement. No one cares about your feelings especially when they are trying to ditch yo ass.

Its not about feelings. Its about time.
If u not interested just let it be known, instead of acting interested and wasting time.

 

[Neuromancer]

No one really owes anyone anything.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Its not about feelings. Its about time.
If u not interested just let it be known, instead of acting interested and wasting time.

Ok. You can say it as many times as you want but pepole gonna do what they want. You might as well get over it now.

 

[Blackout]

If you are ok with lack of decency then dont be a hypocrite and complain when you are on the receiving end.

 

[Neuromancer]

Ok. You can say it as many times as you want but pepole gonna do what they want. You might as well get over it now.

Gonna agree with you, sis. They will we just gotta try and find quality folks who will be decent.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Gonna agree with you, sis. They will we just gotta try and find quality folks who will be decent.

Well I don't think "passive rejection" makes you a bad person. Most people do it to avoid confrontation. Why go through the drama or "the talk" with someone who you really don't want to spend any more energy on?

Most of the time "passive rejection" in the beggining of a relationship. The only reason the rejected get all in their feelings is b/c the have already put too much stock into the "relationship". People make wedding plans in their head after the first date. Then when their little fantasy is crushed they're now a victim when the truth is the rejected is just really lonely, desperate, and/or has no life.

If some random nobody got (general) you waiting by the phone you need to get ya weight up.

 

[Ohene]

Well I don't think "passive rejection" makes you a bad person. Most people do it to avoid confrontation. Why go through the drama or "the talk" with someone who you really don't want to spend any more energy on?

Most of the time "passive rejection" in the beggining of a relationship. The only reason the rejected get all in their feelings is b/c the have already put too much stock into the "relationship". People make wedding plans in their head after the first date. Then when their little fantasy is crushed they're now a victim when the truth is the rejected is just really lonely, desperate, and/or has no life.

If some random nobody got (general) you waiting by the phone you need to get ya weight up.

truth hurts

 

[The M.I.C.]

Ok. You can say it as many times as you want but pepole gonna do what they want. You might as well get over it now.

No one really owes anyone anything.

It's wise, in a time of uncertainty and darkness, to bide in the wisdom of discretion.

You never know what manifests in a man's/woman's heart and for some, time is a serious investment. Why risk a potential confrontation? If you're not willing to respect my time, I'll eventually force the issue. A darkened mind breeds many things that can entangle you physically and spiritually.

 

[全能の神]

I think Im being passively rejected right now

 

[unit321]

I write for a fabulous dating blog called...

I stopped reading at the triple dots.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

It's wise, in a time of uncertainty and darkness, to bide in the wisdom of discretion.

You never know what manifests in a man's/woman's heart and for some, time is a serious investment. Why risk a potential confrontation? If you're not willing to respect my time, I'll eventually force the issue. A darkened mind breeds many things that can entangle you physically and spiritually.

Seems to be more of a risk to "talk" about it than not. If someone is "crazy" it will probably come out due to the rejection regardless of the method.

Besides I didn't say it was right. It just is what it is. It's common and seems like part of the game. And like I said in a previous post, if you're (general) really that upset about someone who you just met not want you you're probably desperate and need to get a life.

 

[Neuromancer]

It's wise, in a time of uncertainty and darkness, to bide in the wisdom of discretion.

You never know what manifests in a man's/woman's heart and for some, time is a serious investment. Why risk a potential confrontation? If you're not willing to respect my time, I'll eventually force the issue. A darkened mind breeds many things that can entangle you physically and spiritually.

Oh I do confront the person or make sure to be up front. I once told a young woman mid date that I wasn’t enjoying myself. No offense to her but I just wasn't feeling her or the vibe. I'm talking about other people. I don't take offense to people avoiding the confrontation. They're not mature enough to deal with the situation.