yall ever wife a single mother?

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thats the funny thing in all this, hell even many single mothers wont date a guy with kids they know the drama lol its like fat women not dating fat men.

but yeah most women here caping for single mothers @Teedot, @Sunshine

would never date a single father or give him the time of day, or date a short man or a man who made less than them
I would date a single father. Interesting how u think u know I wouldn't.
 

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So it seems that the consensus is that a single divorced mother is ok? :obama: Maybe I should reconsider my stance with the latina girl then
 

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Yeah. It was terrible, but an eye opener all the same. No, I wouldn't do it again.
 

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now see your situation is the one that i want to be in. im with a single mother and i hate the fact that everytime her kids need something they ask me. im not trying to be mean but when you need something like sneakers or even money for a field trip. whats wrong with calling your dad to ask him? same thing for birthdays and christmas. i told my now wife a few months ago listen ill do what i can for the boys. but im not financially responsible for them. when its time to pay for college or buy a car. i feel that you and their dad should handle that. i can tell you that dating a single mother is a good thing. but for me, once you have your own child. its nothing like it. my wife would be real petty about stuff though. like for christmas, making sure everyone got an equal number of presents. even though when its different ages you cant do that. or she would get mad cause i would post pictures of my daughter and not her boys. i feel like i do enough man paying rent, food on the table, helping with homework, going to parent teacher conferences. all that stuff.
:damn:
 

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why?
because i care about my race and its future, its no wonder young black men are locked up, and young brehettes popping kids out of wedlock, because thats all they know the emasculation, the single mom lifestyle, the no male rolemodel, unlike y'all kewns i wont turn the other cheek to the destruction of the black race

Most criminals and sex offenders are raised in a single mother household.

The only way to stop this cancer and disease is to not help it out, every time you date a single mother or marry one you are giving hope to women out there that its ok, you can f up, pop up b*stards theres a good nygga like me at the end of the rainbow ready to raise your mistake

i say :kony:

next time your house ges robbed or one of your close friends get killed i guarantee the suspect was raised in a single parent home

so let me get this straight:

you would NEVER date single mothers because of the above. but you shyt on the men that would date single mothers and help raise their children and possibly avoid all of the scenarios that you listed above. ok, that's definitely logical....:comeon:

refuse to be the solution to the problem AND shyt on the people who step up to the plate brehs :aicmon:
 

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thats the funny thing in all this, hell even many single mothers wont date a guy with kids they know the drama lol its like fat women not dating fat men.

but yeah most women here caping for single mothers @Teedot, @Sunshine

would never date a single father or give him the time of day, or date a short man or a man who made less than them

Single mothers try to make nikkas feel bad for not taking them seriously. A "real man" would do this and that, they say. They sure do know what a "real man" is after they've been dealing with fukk ass nikkas for the longest. They need to date single fathers. Why are they out here trying to compete with childless women for childless men? This breh broke it down: http://generation-x.net/viewVideo.php?video_id=7680
 

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now see your situation is the one that i want to be in. im with a single mother and i hate the fact that everytime her kids need something they ask me. im not trying to be mean but when you need something like sneakers or even money for a field trip. whats wrong with calling your dad to ask him? same thing for birthdays and christmas. i told my now wife a few months ago listen ill do what i can for the boys. but im not financially responsible for them. when its time to pay for college or buy a car. i feel that you and their dad should handle that. i can tell you that dating a single mother is a good thing. but for me, once you have your own child. its nothing like it. my wife would be real petty about stuff though. like for christmas, making sure everyone got an equal number of presents. even though when its different ages you cant do that. or she would get mad cause i would post pictures of my daughter and not her boys. i feel like i do enough man paying rent, food on the table, helping with homework, going to parent teacher conferences. all that stuff.


Breh, when you got married, you married her and all of her debt, all of her baggage, and all of her kids. the difference between my situation and yours is that my wife doesn't EXPECT me to do anything for her son. we have been together for 15.5 years and she will STILL scrape together money to try and get something that her son wants without asking me. and when i find out, i just :childplease: and give him the money. i don't HAVE to. i'm not OBLIGATED to. but that's my family and if i have it, then they have it too. you can't look at her kids as HER kids once you married her. you have to look at it as a family UNIT.

how many kids does she have, breh? how many kids do you have? when i met my wife, i didn't have any kids and she only had 1. if it were more than one, that's when i draw the line. can't do multiple kids or multiple baby daddies. :camby:
 

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i did. dumbest thing i ever did.

if u gonna wife a single mother, make sure the daddy is dead or locked up for 20 years at least. otherwise :camby:
 

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thats the funny thing in all this, hell even many single mothers wont date a guy with kids they know the drama lol its like fat women not dating fat men.

but yeah most women here caping for single mothers @Teedot, @Sunshine

would never date a single father or give him the time of day, or date a short man or a man who made less than them
What's crazy is I had a few single mothers ask me if I had any kids, when I said no, they were like "Good!, that's a plus", I'm like wtf :wtf:
 

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so let me get this straight:

you would NEVER date single mothers because of the above. but you shyt on the men that would date single mothers and help raise their children and possibly avoid all of the scenarios that you listed above. ok, that's definitely logical....:comeon:

refuse to be the solution to the problem AND shyt on the people who step up to the plate brehs :aicmon:
He was better off just showing disdain before trying to layout that logic full of fukery
 

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Breh, when you got married, you married her and all of her debt, all of her baggage, and all of her kids. the difference between my situation and yours is that my wife doesn't EXPECT me to do anything for her son. we have been together for 15.5 years and she will STILL scrape together money to try and get something that her son wants without asking me. and when i find out, i just :childplease: and give him the money. i don't HAVE to. i'm not OBLIGATED to. but that's my family and if i have it, then they have it too. you can't look at her kids as HER kids once you married her. you have to look at it as a family UNIT.

how many kids does she have, breh? how many kids do you have? when i met my wife, i didn't have any kids and she only had 1. if it were more than one, that's when i draw the line. can't do multiple kids or multiple baby daddies. :camby:

she has 2 kids and i have 2 kids with her. my kids are 2 and 4 months. did some research and here is what i found. According to common law, stepparents do not have a direct financial responsibility for the health, education, or welfare of their stepchildren. Millions of stepparents voluntarily provide financial resources for their stepchildren. According to common law, they have a right to be reimbursed by the children's biological father. lemme give you two examples. so my stepsons are in philly for the summer. one of them was outside throwing rocks with their cousins. broke his aunts window. my wife calls to tell me. im thinking- i dont have money to fix that window. she ended up using their child support money. then for his birthday he says he wants an ipod or ipad. i told him he was too young. now see its your birthday. you should be able to ask your dad too
 

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she has 2 kids and i have 2 kids with her. my kids are 2 and 4 months. did some research and here is what i found. According to common law, stepparents do not have a direct financial responsibility for the health, education, or welfare of their stepchildren. Millions of stepparents voluntarily provide financial resources for their stepchildren. According to common law, they have a right to be reimbursed by the children's biological father. lemme give you two examples. so my stepsons are in philly for the summer. one of them was outside throwing rocks with their cousins. broke his aunts window. my wife calls to tell me. im thinking- i dont have money to fix that window. she ended up using their child support money. then for his birthday he says he wants an ipod or ipad. i told him he was too young. now see its your birthday. you should be able to ask your dad too

how old are your stepsons? How involved is their actual father outside of child support? Maybe they ask you for this and that because they see you as their dad more than their biological one, if that makes any sense, especially if you are going to parent/teacher conferences and doing homework and all that stuff.
 

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how old are your stepsons? How involved is their actual father outside of child support? Maybe they ask you for this and that because they see you as their dad more than their biological one, if that makes any sense, especially if you are going to parent/teacher conferences and doing homework and all that stuff.


11 and 8. their dad sees them during the summer. but thats because we live in minnesota now and him in jersey we are trying to move back east though. but even when we were living in philly, it wasnt like he was getting them every weekend. it was up and down. i havent seen him do anything outside of child support. but guess what, that's about to change. i got enough on my plate right now. we need a new car. we trying to move back to philly. 2 year old needs to be in daycare. the dad needs to step up
 

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my nikka eric matthews(Boy Meets World) tried
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It did not really work out. :manny:
Boy Meets World taught me to stay away from single mothers.
So should you OP.
 
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