Breh, when you got married, you married her and all of her debt, all of her baggage, and all of her kids. the difference between my situation and yours is that my wife doesn't EXPECT me to do anything for her son. we have been together for 15.5 years and she will STILL scrape together money to try and get something that her son wants without asking me. and when i find out, i just

and give him the money. i don't HAVE to. i'm not OBLIGATED to. but that's my family and if i have it, then they have it too. you can't look at her kids as HER kids once you married her. you have to look at it as a family UNIT.
how many kids does she have, breh? how many kids do you have? when i met my wife, i didn't have any kids and she only had 1. if it were more than one, that's when i draw the line. can't do multiple kids or multiple baby daddies.