Y'all REALLY don't wanna get married brehs?

[Remote]

I'll have a child before I get married and I hate children

Hate children?

 

[Doodle]

I am not against the concept of it but marriage in it's current state is a joke.

 

[CouldntBeMeTho]

I challenge you to name one legal contract that's worse to sign for a man. Marriage pioneered the 360 deal

 

[you're NOT "n!ggas"]

Don't get married if your goal isn't to build something..

I was just about to say, marriage is taking on leadership.



And I'm not married yet but I at least understand that. Idk wtf these "brehs" are on, and it's been that way for a long time I NEED a legacy

 

[Wildhundreds]

I was just about to say, marriage is taking on leadership.



And I'm not married yet but I at least understand that. Idk wtf these "brehs" are on, and it's been that way for a long time I NEED a legacy

You got to build a legacy..

Thats actually a good conversation piece for a woman youre dating..

And if youre really in tune, you dont even have to go through the formalities of marriage..

You two can draw up your own legal contract also..

 

[CouldntBeMeTho]

I was just about to say, marriage is taking on leadership.



And I'm not married yet but I at least understand that. Idk wtf these "brehs" are on, and it's been that way for a long time I NEED a legacy

I really wish I could see what you think 20 years in to a bid. I mean marriage

 

[badboys11]

Ive fukked way too many married women to believe in this image people try to portray. Real marriages/long term relationships learn to accept infidelity and try and grow and learn from it. Im good i dont need that level of corruption in my life

 

[you're NOT "n!ggas"]

Marriage is just not worth it. Literally nothing changes about your relationship if you get married. You dont become any happier, if anything you become more unhappy because now the LAW is involved in your relationship and if things go south there are so many hoops you will need to jump through to get some semblance of your original self back.

It simply ain't for everyone. Commitment is possible without expensive jewelry, a party and a certificate.

Okay, lets explore that. Cuz that's a point I dont see often enough and I get it. Honestly, I think--fukk that, I KNOW America and it's concept/culture of marriage has fukked with ours .... I could easily slip off into some deeper shyt but ultimately, we seriously need to start [keyword] CULTIVATING our own exclusive culture and norms in this mess called America.

You're NOT "n!ggas"
They're NOT "hoes"

 

[Field Marshall Bradley]

Marriage is just not worth it. Literally nothing changes about your relationship if you get married. You dont become any happier, if anything you become more unhappy because now the LAW is involved in your relationship and if things go south there are so many hoops you will need to jump through to get some semblance of your original self back.

It simply ain't for everyone. Commitment is possible without expensive jewelry, a party and a certificate.

You married?

 

[⠀X ⠀]

I don’t really want to, but it’s probably gonna happen eventually.

 

[Vandelay]

The stipulations of marriage are horrendous for a man in the US. That being said, I want to eventually get married and have a family. Those are the best circumstances to do it under.

I'll be 36 in less than a month. If it doesn't happen when I'm 40, I won't do it.

 

[BaggerofTea]

Hate children?

They are expensive

I like my money

 

[Straw Hat Luffy]

I’m a have kids and get married in my late 30s after I did everything

 

[WaveMolecules]

marriage is amazing. best day of my life. she completes me.

 

[number21]

Nah. No real benefits for me.