Yo women end up hating dudes that rejected them

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Nothing wrong with wanting to get on your feet. I just think if someone is really into you they would want to grow with you. Dating shouldn't trump your goals just kinda coincide with them.
I just need to get over my male pride :to: Thanks
 

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Girls get mad if you don't even look at em. Particularly those girls that think they're cute and are used to dudes gawking at em.






Exactly. The wrong dude would have either tore her car up or hit her. I was just flabbergasted at the whole event. Its not like we had years of history. I just met the chick. Two months of dating. smh. She told me that her previous boyfriend put his hands on her. Most of the time you hear that you auto think the dude is a piece of shyt. But I can see how she provoked that man into doing something out of his zone and he got jail time and a record because of it.

I did not even react. . I did not call her or demand she pay for my paint job or tires. I just wanted to be done for good.

How was the p*ssy? They say those psycho bytches are the best sex:ld:
 

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I was having an argument with my best friend(female) on who rejection is harder on. She swore up and down that rejection crushes women more than it does with men, but I argued that men have to deal with rejection way more often than women, so men just adjust to it better.

But yea if you reject a women a lot of times they'll take it personal and do all type of fukk shyt like rumors or insinuate that you're gay.

I turned this girl down in middle school because of her attitude. All of sudden nikkas I'm cool with like "I heard you gotta boyfriend named Benard". I'm like wtf :dwillhuh:.
 

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Those are called outliers and have more to do with individuals in question. You can find outliers for anything on the internet

The average guy has faced hundreds more rejections than the average woman (close to none) yet the average guy isn't a murderer.


Yall don't and it isn't helping anyway. I know you're trolling tho

I had this chick back in the spring who I was poking for a bit. I'm upfront about not wanting to be in a relationship and in spite of halfway accepting it she would have an episode of "why don't you want to be in a relationship" "am I too ____?!" drama somewhat regularly. But she would still fukk :leon: so its whatever. One time I went up her way to get her and her cousin to twist my dreads (at the same damn time). So after they finish I was gonna drop them at mcdonalds to "meet up and smoke with some friends" then go on about my business. We get to the counter and start ordering when a car pulls up. shorty looks over and starts acting funny all of a sudden, apparently their friends arrived early. I peep the nervousness early and immediately start actin an ass :troll:clowning thinking it was just a nikka from her past. The dudes in the car were fried and took forever to come inside so I take my food and dip telling her I'm gonna spare her the awkward moment .

Months later I find out thats was her boyfriend the whole fukkin time:mjlol: he saw me and dumped her a week later. Didn't take long for her to find another and cheat on him before the year was out. women:francis:
Some how you'll be made out to be the badguy.
 

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There was this chick I knew through mutual friends. She seemed cool. She was decent had a really pretty face. So we start talking/texting for a while and decide to go out.

She was hella boring. No real personality or anything. So after that she keeps hitting me up asking "How come you aren't talking to me?" etc
I told her straight up that I wasn't interested. She kept asking me why and I just kept telling her that I didn't see it & just wasn't feeling it.
She refused to accept it and kept demanding I tell her. So I flat out said that she was boring.

Didn't hear from her for two days so I'm thinking it's all cool. :smugbiden:

My homeboy hits me up and says, "Bro they're are frying you on Twitter."

I get on to see what's up. This chick posted screenshots of our messages and heavily manipulated/photoshopped them :wtf:
She wanted to make me look like I was thirsting after her and she rejected me.

My female friend who also knows her pretty well is someone I am forever grateful to :blessed:
She exposed that chick and called her out for lying and posted their own conversation w/her pretty much getting pissed that I rejected her + I put up the real conversation we had :patrice:


She was forced to remove it trying to save herself by saying it wasn't me she was talking about it was some other guy :rudy:

Tell me why she hits me later talking about "Am I boring now?" trying to laugh it off and tried to ask me out again?:what:
 

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This girl must be kinda attractive or was told that she was cute. Average women take rejection just like brehs. Only if a chick is/thinks she is a dime/has a fat ass does she do that. And if the girl that you DO like is average, chubby, boney, buck tooth and some times darker, then you have a problem. Short dudes (like Kent) and gorgeous women can be monsters when you reject a date. :demonic:
As long as dude aint acting like he with a dime or becomes the breh that brings his girl everywhere, I don't see the problem.
 

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Haha man, I have so many stories about women turning from super nice to super angry in 2 sec after I told them I wasn't interested. I rejected some half drunk girl at a party once(she was fine, but I wasn't about to catch a rape charge :whoa:) who was THROWING herself at me, and she went OFF. Calling me this and that, and I'm there lik :umad::russ:

I turned this girl down in middle school because of her attitude. All of sudden nikkas I'm cool with like "I heard you gotta boyfriend named Benard". I'm like wtf :dwillhuh:.

lmao Bernard :russ::russ:
 

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LOL was she still supposed to be your friend after that? What did you want her to stick around so she can see pics of you and another chick? Were you gonna hit her up randomly and tell her all about the women you were dating that's not her? She did the right thing.

This! She did the right thing. It would've been awkward. Especially if you told your friends what happened. They would make fun of her for it. Dudes are harsh sometimes. I remember I asked out a guy at my job, in a Facebook PM, he said no. Despite the rejection we both agreed to keep it cool at work. But I still tried to avoid him, but he made sure he greeted me (which we always did before). So I was like oh he's gonna be cool like he said. So I started back to greeting him and making small talk. He took it wrong and started to not speak to me and try to avoid anything more than small talk. Which I was like "ok" and stopped talking to him unless he spoke first,unfriended him on Facebook and ended getting another job and hadn't spoke to him sense then. To make a long story short, sometimes its better to just cut the person off so it won't be awkward.
 
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We would handle it better if we didn't rely on just one dude.
Y'all ain't built for that multiple dude life.
Women are drawn to men that other women are drawn to. You don't want the man nobody wants.
I know when I was single...I talked to a gang of jawns at the same time. I ranked them with a nice system...it was fair.
I also removed said women from the system when I found out they were talking to hella dudes. I'd usually peep the dudes out and my ego wouldn't allow me to share space with certain types of dude. "you have me fake competing with this goofy? lol...goodbye"...
Gotta watch that "more than one dude" thing...or playing the field if you're a female. It doesn't work the same way as it does on the other side.
To get chicks, you have to already have chicks.
Learn to deal with rejection or be mad for years and hit nikkas up biannually for that lame "checkup" y'all do. "hey stranger" "what's up big head" "I miss your face" "I miss you".
No y'all don't. You're just lonely. Otherwise they'd hit me up with regular conversation. I don't miss any of them. My girl is super cool.
 
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Exactly. The wrong dude would have either tore her car up or hit her. I was just flabbergasted at the whole event. Its not like we had years of history. I just met the chick. Two months of dating. smh. She told me that her previous boyfriend put his hands on her. Most of the time you hear that you auto think the dude is a piece of shyt. But I can see how she provoked that man into doing something out of his zone and he got jail time and a record because of it.

I did not even react. . I did not call her or demand she pay for my paint job or tires. I just wanted to be done for good.
Female cousins, homegirls....she needs to be punished.
 

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Y'all ain't built for that multiple dude life.
Women are drawn to men that other women are drawn to. You don't want the man nobody wants.
I know when I was single...I talked to a gang of jawns at the same time. I ranked them with a nice system...it was fair.
I also removed said women from the system when I found out they were talking to hella dudes. I'd usually peep the dudes out and my ego wouldn't allow me to share space with certain types of dude. "you have me fake competing with this goofy? lol...goodbye"...
Gotta watch that "more than one dude" thing...or playing the field if you're a female. It doesn't work the same way as it does on the other side.
To get chicks, you have to already have chicks.
Learn to deal with rejection or be mad for years and hit nikkas up biannually for that lame "checkup" y'all do. "hey stranger" "what's up big head" "I miss your face" "I miss you".
No y'all don't. You're just lonely. Otherwise they'd hit me up with regular conversation. I don't miss any of them. My girl is super cool.
Nah there is no turning back. When it's done it's done. I don't see the need in keeping contact after it's over.
 

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Women who start acting crazy or spread lies because you rejected them are actually doing you a favor because it proves you had a lucky escape. One minute we're undisciplined dogs with no respect for women who will fukk anything that moves, then when we prove otherwise something's "wrong" with us.

Let's face it, most guys aren't gonna be like "fukk out my face bytch" or be nearly as rude as some women are when they reject dudes, so for them to get all abusive and immature confirms they're no good.

Women can also hate dudes they like out of fear of rejection as well.

I've had women hate me that I didn't even reject & had minimal interaction with. They liked me, the fear of me saying no is there.

:ohhh: I always had a feeling that's what this really was but could never quite put a finger on it.
 
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