I just need to get over my male prideNothing wrong with wanting to get on your feet. I just think if someone is really into you they would want to grow with you. Dating shouldn't trump your goals just kinda coincide with them.

I just need to get over my male prideNothing wrong with wanting to get on your feet. I just think if someone is really into you they would want to grow with you. Dating shouldn't trump your goals just kinda coincide with them.
Exactly. The wrong dude would have either tore her car up or hit her. I was just flabbergasted at the whole event. Its not like we had years of history. I just met the chick. Two months of dating. smh. She told me that her previous boyfriend put his hands on her. Most of the time you hear that you auto think the dude is a piece of shyt. But I can see how she provoked that man into doing something out of his zone and he got jail time and a record because of it.
I did not even react. . I did not call her or demand she pay for my paint job or tires. I just wanted to be done for good.
How was the p*ssy? They say those psycho bytches are the best sex![]()
I was having an argument with my best friend(female) on who rejection is harder on. She swore up and down that rejection crushes women more than it does with men, but I argued that men have to deal with rejection way more often than women, so men just adjust to it better.
But yea if you reject a women a lot of times they'll take it personal and do all type of fukk shyt like rumors or insinuate that you're gay.
Some how you'll be made out to be the badguy.Those are called outliers and have more to do with individuals in question. You can find outliers for anything on the internet
The average guy has faced hundreds more rejections than the average woman (close to none) yet the average guy isn't a murderer.
Yall don't and it isn't helping anyway. I know you're trolling tho
I had this chick back in the spring who I was poking for a bit. I'm upfront about not wanting to be in a relationship and in spite of halfway accepting it she would have an episode of "why don't you want to be in a relationship" "am I too ____?!" drama somewhat regularly. But she would still fukkso its whatever. One time I went up her way to get her and her cousin to twist my dreads (at the same damn time). So after they finish I was gonna drop them at mcdonalds to "meet up and smoke with some friends" then go on about my business. We get to the counter and start ordering when a car pulls up. shorty looks over and starts acting funny all of a sudden, apparently their friends arrived early. I peep the nervousness early and immediately start actin an ass
clowning thinking it was just a nikka from her past. The dudes in the car were fried and took forever to come inside so I take my food and dip telling her I'm gonna spare her the awkward moment .
Months later I find out thats was her boyfriend the whole fukkin timehe saw me and dumped her a week later. Didn't take long for her to find another and cheat on him before the year was out. women
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As long as dude aint acting like he with a dime or becomes the breh that brings his girl everywhere, I don't see the problem.This girl must be kinda attractive or was told that she was cute. Average women take rejection just like brehs. Only if a chick is/thinks she is a dime/has a fat ass does she do that. And if the girl that you DO like is average, chubby, boney, buck tooth and some times darker, then you have a problem. Short dudes (like Kent) and gorgeous women can be monsters when you reject a date.![]()
I turned this girl down in middle school because of her attitude. All of sudden nikkas I'm cool with like "I heard you gotta boyfriend named Benard". I'm like wtf.
LOL was she still supposed to be your friend after that? What did you want her to stick around so she can see pics of you and another chick? Were you gonna hit her up randomly and tell her all about the women you were dating that's not her? She did the right thing.
Y'all ain't built for that multiple dude life.We would handle it better if we didn't rely on just one dude.
Female cousins, homegirls....she needs to be punished.Exactly. The wrong dude would have either tore her car up or hit her. I was just flabbergasted at the whole event. Its not like we had years of history. I just met the chick. Two months of dating. smh. She told me that her previous boyfriend put his hands on her. Most of the time you hear that you auto think the dude is a piece of shyt. But I can see how she provoked that man into doing something out of his zone and he got jail time and a record because of it.
I did not even react. . I did not call her or demand she pay for my paint job or tires. I just wanted to be done for good.
Nah there is no turning back. When it's done it's done. I don't see the need in keeping contact after it's over.Y'all ain't built for that multiple dude life.
Women are drawn to men that other women are drawn to. You don't want the man nobody wants.
I know when I was single...I talked to a gang of jawns at the same time. I ranked them with a nice system...it was fair.
I also removed said women from the system when I found out they were talking to hella dudes. I'd usually peep the dudes out and my ego wouldn't allow me to share space with certain types of dude. "you have me fake competing with this goofy? lol...goodbye"...
Gotta watch that "more than one dude" thing...or playing the field if you're a female. It doesn't work the same way as it does on the other side.
To get chicks, you have to already have chicks.
Learn to deal with rejection or be mad for years and hit nikkas up biannually for that lame "checkup" y'all do. "hey stranger" "what's up big head" "I miss your face" "I miss you".
No y'all don't. You're just lonely. Otherwise they'd hit me up with regular conversation. I don't miss any of them. My girl is super cool.
Women can also hate dudes they like out of fear of rejection as well.
I've had women hate me that I didn't even reject & had minimal interaction with. They liked me, the fear of me saying no is there.