You Are Pregnant And The Bro Asks For DNA Tests

[MayQueen]

fukk outta here. The DNA test is needed so that the male has proof it is his child. Only weak and naive males trust women, y'all are snakes 100% of the time.

Get your dumb ass out of the women's section then, loser.

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

Because that would assume that it's not your child and infidelity occurred on my part.

nobody knows anything for sure.
I know women want to feel trusted but men don't wanna waste years of their life dealing with a child they dont 100% know is theirs.

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

you need to grow up. do you understand the world we live in today ? any man would be a fool not to have paternity test. dont take it personal. every man has the right to know for a FACT the child is theirs.

I'm saying.
its crazy how they want us to assume the baby is ours just because she said so.
if that's the case, then when that crazy ex comes along just tell your baby momma, "hey, Tasha said the baby she had awhile ago is mine. I guess I got two kids now Bae".

I bet ya chick want you to take a DNA test then.

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

I would start getting my affairs in order for the very likely event of our future divorce. He is probably cheating. He should have just used the kit from walgreens without telling me

so you want him to be sneaky and do something behind your back?

 

[Rocket Scientist]

Brothas better start hiring private investigators

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

Id submit 4 testing....iknow my history of scandal. But id have the last laugh cuz paternity tests cost a grip to find out ur child is indeed ur child.

and if you don't ask for the test and stay raising a child that's not yours it'll cost even more of a grip

 

[Ashley Banks]

you need to grow up. do you understand the world we live in today ? any man would be a fool not to have paternity test. dont take it personal. every man has the right to know for a FACT the child is theirs.

I guess we shouldn't take it personally when the man you're married to thinks you're a hoe that would not only cheat on him but make him raise a child that isn't his and lie to your child about who his/her father is.

I definitely want to be married to someone that thinks so low of me. Especially when I'm faithful and good to him.

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

Right...just do it behind my back because as soon as I know you don't trust me, that gives me reason not to trust you. All of my experiences tell me that the most suspicious guys are typically those you should be suspicious of.

That's where yall let ya emotions take over.
its not about "lemme get this test,I don't trust her". Its about "lemme get this test so I know for sure the child I'm about to raise is mine and I won't be spending 18years on child support"

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

I guess we shouldn't take it personally when the man you're married to thinks you're a hoe that would not only cheat on him but make him raise a child that isn't his and lie to your child about who his/her father is.

I definitely want to be married to someone that thinks so low of me. Especially when I'm faithful and good to him.

yall making the DNA test about yall.
its about him!

 

[SouthernBelle]

That's where yall let ya emotions take over.
its not about "lemme get this test,I don't trust her". Its about "lemme get this test so I know for sure the child I'm about to raise is mine and I won't be spending 18years on child support"

Lol that's the same thing as I don't trust her...which is fine. I would take the test because I'm not a cheater, but it would let me know I can't trust him (he's probably suspicious because he is a cheater). Therefore, I wouldn't have sex with him again until he takes an STD test and goes to marriage counseling. Even then I would still use a condom since I don't want to spend the rest of my life taking medication for an incurable disease.

 

[Ashley Banks]

yall making the DNA test about yall.
its about him!

No matter how you try to spin it, it's about the woman. If you didn't think she was a shytty person, you wouldn't ask for a DNA test. I don't want to be married to someone that thinks I'm such a horrible person that would lie to someone and make them raise a kid that isn't theirs. God I can't imagine how embarrassing that is, you're married but you're DNA testing your child because your husband wants to "make sure". what the fukk.

 

[Silkk]

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No matter how you try to spin it, it's about the woman. If you didn't think she was a shytty person, you wouldn't ask for a DNA test. I don't want to be married to someone that thinks I'm such a horrible person that would lie to someone and make them raise a kid that isn't theirs. God I can't imagine how embarrassing that is, you're married but you're DNA testing your child because your husband wants to "make sure". what the fukk.

Has nothing to do with being a shytty person or trust. This is life & mistakes happen

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

Lol that's the same thing as I don't trust her...which is fine. I would take the test because I'm not a cheater, but it would let me know I can't trust him (he's probably suspicious because he is a cheater). Therefore, I wouldn't have sex with him again until he takes an STD test and goes to marriage counseling. Even then I would still use a condom since I don't want to spend the rest of my life taking medication for an incurable disease.

that's not the same.
Nobody knows for a 100% fact that their partner is telling the truth .

Yall want a dude to just believe something yall say without 100% proof and then when we go to get proof yall turn us to the bad guy.

shyt yall should be happy he even wants a test and is not running off on yall. Atleast a test shows he cares.

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

No matter how you try to spin it, it's about the woman. If you didn't think she was a shytty person, you wouldn't ask for a DNA test. I don't want to be married to someone that thinks I'm such a horrible person that would lie to someone and make them raise a kid that isn't theirs. God I can't imagine how embarrassing that is, you're married but you're DNA testing your child because your husband wants to "make sure". what the fukk.

good luck to you.
we just have two different philosophies.

I like for things to be proven, instead of assumptions.
if I buy something at the store, I want a receipt to prove I've been charged the right price. Not just trust (assume) the cashier was right, throw away my receipt, then wait til I get way home and pull out my change and realize I got charged extra.

 

[SouthernBelle]

that's not the same.
Nobody knows for a 100% fact that their partner is telling the truth .

Yall want a dude to just believe something yall say without 100% proof and then when we go to get proof yall turn us to the bad guy.

shyt yall should be happy he even wants a test and is not running off on yall. Atleast a test shows he cares.

He can have his test, but there are consequences for sowing seeds of distrust in a relationship. I don't trust anyone who doesn't trust me (in any circumstance because there NO telling what they are doing behind your back). Since I don't know what he is doing behind my back, if he ever wants sex with me again, he has to take an STD test and start wearing condoms again.