You better find a passion black man

I see a lot of young men unfulfilled by dating and their jobs. Well you better find something to love. Some shyt that other people don't control that you can do and immerse yourself in it. Study it become obsessed with it in a sense. I'm telling you this will save you. It will save your life.



I know dudes will come in saying "My passion is getting money or p*ssy ect. "

All shyt someone else controls. That means they can control you. Some of ya'll will laugh at this and so what. But for those of you that follow this, you will be happier for it.


My passion is writing and then MMA.

 

Advise brehs to find a passion when you yourself don't have a real passion brehs




Jk wit you breh. I get what you saying

 

The trick is to find something you enjoy doing and seeing how you can make money from it.

 

Came to the realization that “following your passion” means having to sacrifice everything (women, money, etc) to fall in love with it. In a sense, “dying” so that the new “passion-filled” you is born. As of today I’m dead.

 

Most black men go the gym, sports, athletics route. Some do music, some like videos games, comics, and other nikka-nerd shyt. I agree with the premises though. Gotta have something you like to do that outside forces can’t control the enjoyment you gain from it.

 

So basically you arent happy and you are warning others to do better than you? Commendable if that's what it is

 

Big fax as always breh.
Been saying this since I joined. People get miserable when they allow someone else to have complete autonomy over what brings them joy.

 

No I am happy. I have my passion. I'm advocating for it. I'm relating what an OG told me.

 

So you're happy when your passion is money and p*ssy? Nahhhh but I wont hold you

 

You should put that part in quotes.

Cuz the way the post reads, it sounds like you are saying that your passion is getting p*ssy and money and you have no control over either

 

no that's a typo my passion is writing and mma.

 

I just realized that. I was in a rush. Thanks breh.

 

Facts! and even if you’re in a loving & happy relationship with a good woman you still won’t be internally happy without doing things you’re personally passionate about.

 

Hobbies are very important in life, especially in relationships. If you can find a hobby you both share then you’re winning.

 

This is critical. Even while I was out over the weekend, three or four drinks in and surrounded by women, it hit me that all of it was fleeting. It’s like I had an epiphany that women and money come and go and the only thing that truly lasts are my craft and my passions.