You better find a passion black man

[Cape Town JHB]

It took me 15 years for my music collection to become really incredible, from Fela Kuti to Bill Withers.
Knowing what a great bass sounds like, great guitar riffs, chord arrangements, drums, etc etc

Had I not started at a young age to hone my musical ear It wouldn't have been possible.
Most people who don't have a passion have simply missed the boat, you're not cultivating any new passions in your 30s and if you do, it might take till your late 40s for you to really see the fruits of it.

That's why i suggest you give your children an eclectic range of hobbies at a young age.

Even the sports that I know really well, I've spent so many years watching everything and anything on them for decades, even eras from before I was born.

It takes years, I say 10 years minimum.

Whther it's comedy, art, music, history, Game (women) it all takes so many years and you gotta start early

 

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I just want to say something that all the “experts” here fail to mention

It may take time for you to truly enjoy something if you haven’t been doing it for a long time. That time can be months to years. The key is to keep at it even during the hard parts.

People here love to talk passion and leave it at that, not mentioning that before you enjoy it it’s going to be “work.”

 

[Neuromancer]

So you're happy when your passion is money and p*ssy? Nahhhh but I wont hold you

Re read the OP. I had to put that in quotes. My passion is Writing and MMA.

 

[Sad Bunny]

Travel and exercise is my passion.

 

[Neuromancer]

I just want to say something that all the “experts” here fail to mention

It may take time for you to truly enjoy something if you haven’t been doing it for a long time. That time can be months to years. The key is to keep at it even during the hard parts.

People here love to talk passion and leave it at that, not mentioning that before you enjoy it it’s going to be “work.”

Oh of course. But there is something about what you love. It never feels truly like work. Sure there is a bit of heavy lifting but it is always love.

 

[Neuromancer]

@The Realist Perspective @Turk

 

[Morose Polymath]

no that's a typo my passion is writing and mma.

 

[King Poetic]

Mines is basketball outside

especially being older and no kids , while my friends have families and constantly busy

I have to stay active either at the gym, playing basketball or the shooting range

 

[Hijo de luna]

Health, wealth, relationships

 

[GreenGhxst]

It took me 15 years for my music collection to become really incredible, from Fela Kuti to Bill Withers.
Knowing what a great bass sounds like, great guitar riffs, chord arrangements, drums, etc etc

Had I not started at a young age to hone my musical ear It wouldn't have been possible.
Most people who don't have a passion have simply missed the boat, you're not cultivating any new passions in your 30s and if you do, it might take till your late 40s for you to really see the fruits of it.

That's why i suggest you give your children an eclectic range of hobbies at a young age.

Even the sports that I know really well, I've spent so many years watching everything and anything on them for decades, even eras from before I was born.

It takes years, I say 10 years minimum.

Whther it's comedy, art, music, history, Game (women) it all takes so many years and you gotta start early

Nah breh, strongly disagree

Passions dont have to be something deeply artistic

You can be into rc cars, mountain biking... traveling... diving.. climbing

It doesn't take 10 years

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

hobbies+passion=happiness

 

[Neuromancer]

You can check my other threads or my IG if you don't believe me.

 

[Guile]

 

[Neuromancer]

Health, wealth, relationships

The last two are controlled by other people.

 

[Morose Polymath]

You can check my other threads or my IG if you don't believe me.

Not that serious just clowning fam