You can almost tell who grew up with a FATHER their home.

[Ol’Otis]

growing up, I use to beat up kids who had fathers cuz I was so jealous

 

[GoldCoastSaint]

The ones I know and have observed don't tolerate as much bullshyt from women. I used to be crazy and they weren't as lenient with my ass as the fatherless. But both have good/bad qualities that have more to do with who they are as a man than anything else.

 

[Stuntone]

Or you grew up with your dad and saw him drop your mom cold fukking turkey when she got on that crazy shyt. That goes both ways homie. Your folks don't have to be married for your pops to be a stand up guy. My dad dropped my mom like a bad habit but was still there for me as much as any other nikka who parents stayed together. Being a good father doesn't always equal being in a good marriage. I really think uncoupled couples are worse a lot of times than divorced parents. shyt is hell growing up in a house with parents who hate each other but they too scared to leave each other.

Real talk.

 

[General Mills]

that's the whole point of the military

Breh i was


I called my dad in boot camp and apologized. I used to HATE my dad. Because i could not do what i wanted and i saw all my friends partying and having fun.


Ita a good thing my dad was on me because i know i was not mature enough to not get in trouble.

So i apologized to my pops. Called him from bootcamp. He truly was not my friend growing up. He couldnt be. Everytime he tried to be on some friend dad shyt i took advantage. so he said fukk it and turned into a tyrant


Its what i needed.

 

[Rhapscallion Démone]

Some times men who grew up without a father or with a father who was rarely around turn out to be great fathers themselves. They acknowledged what they were missing in their lives so when they have children they make sure that those kids will never be lacking in the fatherhood department,

 

[GoldCoastSaint]

There are different types of dads. My dad ran shyt, mom was, is very submissive. We're from the old south Louisiana. Seen my dad beat my PE teacher's azz. My dad was on some Joe Jackson, ike shyt. His father was worse.

I notice a lot of simps and lost dude have been tricked into thinking a submissive woman is a bad thing.




Good luck taming a woman simp. A rebellious woman is a sign of disrespect.

This is so true unfortunately our society is moving away from this and submission is viewed as a weakness when it definitely doesn't have to be.

 

[Sunalmighty]

Having 2 parents in the home is divine. My pops not being there has effected me in some ways, and I'm 37 and I still notice a few things. Nicca been out of my life as a full time dad since I was 12. He divorced my mom's and split the family up over a broad. Then she ended up doing him the same way he did my mom's. Fukk any man or woman that would not care for his own seeds.

 

[Ol’Otis]

A rebellious woman is a sign of disrespect.

i wouldn't even fukk with a broad with more than 3 tattoos

 

[Yakno1]

yeah no knocking but

dudes I know without fathers : are kind of spoiled ; you kinda see where they missed that man to give them discipline so are more reckless

women I know without father: more of the independent women type ; more of the "I don't need no nikka" type",
just don't fully understand nor respect the man's role

 

[El Poyo Loco]

It seems everyone I know who grew up with a father especially a father in the house turned out ok. But those that didn't are now entitled, simping, fakkits.

One of the best lessons I've learned from my pops was how to cook. His philosophy was there's going to come a time when you will have to cook on your own and grill on your own when you're on your own.

One thing I want to teach my kids is to know how to do and fix the little things around the house. I've seen fatherless dudess not know the difference between a phillips and a flat-head. Not saying every guy has to be Bob Vila but at least know some basics.

 

[Apollo Creed]

Or you grew up with your dad and saw him drop your mom cold fukking turkey when she got on that crazy shyt. That goes both ways homie. Your folks don't have to be married for your pops to be a stand up guy. My dad dropped my mom like a bad habit but was still there for me as much as any other nikka who parents stayed together. Being a good father doesn't always equal being in a good marriage. I really think uncoupled couples are worse a lot of times than divorced parents. shyt is hell growing up in a house with parents who hate each other but they too scared to leave each other.

Pops told me he was going away to school


Lying ass nikka

My folks were together like 15 yrs then split, my pops fathered children with side chicks that he surprsingly supported.

 

[AintNoCrampInYaMouthTho]

All depends on parenting. Folks can have the whole nine yards for family structure and still end up fukked up.

 

[JamilALAmin]

Pops told me he was going away to school


Lying ass nikka

My folks were together like 15 yrs then split, my pops fathered children with side chicks that he surprsingly supported.

My old man just had enough one day. I vaguely remember them arguing all the damn time but I was too young to realize or know what it was about at the time. Love mom dukes to death but she was and still is a handful. And I hate to use this term cuz I love my Black queens and my mother to death but ma dukes is the prototype of an angry Black woman. Just be mad for no reason. Like shyt ain't right in her mind if it ain't no drama. She wanted the finer things in life but yet complained when pops was always out on the grind. out the blue nikka was just like fukk it one day. They split up and she tried to cock block that nikka from seeing me outta spite. He one upped her and bought a spot down the street and changed his schedule up so he could take and pick me up from school everyday. Then my mom turned around and tried to move us out to Cali with her new guy. Pops was like "b***** please". Pulled up at her spot and dragged the shyt out that nikka. nikka was like this still my house. You only fukking my ex wife cuz I'm letting you. He was like I could care less about you and my ex but stop putting these dreams into her head about moving away with my son. I love my pops to death. That nikka literally my best friend

 

[NoChillJones]

Everyone else seems to comprehend the topic, what dont u understand?

And your absolutely serious? Aye.......nikkas that don't have daddies lie more then nikkas who do. Its cause their fathers weren't in the home........ And the audacity to get offended. Dumb nikkas brehs......

 

[BigMan]

All depends on parenting. Folks can have the whole nine yards for family structure and still end up fukked up.

thats me