You can almost tell who grew up with a FATHER their home.

[Cel 510 kid ados forever]

Either way it's no perfect science

 

[Swirv]

I don't think it matters as much as people think. The guys I know with good fathers don't seem to take responsibility as serious as the ones I know without them. They fukk up often because they can lean on their parents. This is something I've seen in my experience.

 

[Apollo Creed]

My old man just had enough one day. I vaguely remember them arguing all the damn time but I was too young to realize or know what it was about at the time. Love mom dukes to death but she was and still is a handful. And I hate to use this term cuz I love my Black queens and my mother to death but ma dukes is the prototype of an angry Black woman. Just be mad for no reason. Like shyt ain't right in her mind if it ain't no drama. She wanted the finer things in life but yet complained when pops was always out on the grind. out the blue nikka was just like fukk it one day. They split up and she tried to cock block that nikka from seeing me outta spite. He one upped her and bought a spot down the street and changed his schedule up so he could take and pick me up from school everyday. Then my mom turned around and tried to move us out to Cali with her new guy. Pops was like "b***** please". Pulled up at her spot and dragged the shyt out that nikka. nikka was like this still my house. You only fukking my ex wife cuz I'm letting you. He was like I could care less about you and my ex but stop putting these dreams into her head about moving away with my son. I love my pops to death. That nikka literally my best friend

I swear when you get older and become a man, you start to understand the reasons why your pops reacted a certain way, whether right or wrong, gotta learn from their examples and mistakes.

 

[Stuntone]

My old man just had enough one day. I vaguely remember them arguing all the damn time but I was too young to realize or know what it was about at the time. Love mom dukes to death but she was and still is a handful. And I hate to use this term cuz I love my Black queens and my mother to death but ma dukes is the prototype of an angry Black woman. Just be mad for no reason. Like shyt ain't right in her mind if it ain't no drama. She wanted the finer things in life but yet complained when pops was always out on the grind. out the blue nikka was just like fukk it one day. They split up and she tried to cock block that nikka from seeing me outta spite. He one upped her and bought a spot down the street and changed his schedule up so he could take and pick me up from school everyday. Then my mom turned around and tried to move us out to Cali with her new guy. Pops was like "b***** please". Pulled up at her spot and dragged the shyt out that nikka. nikka was like this still my house. You only fukking my ex wife cuz I'm letting you. He was like I could care less about you and my ex but stop putting these dreams into her head about moving away with my son. I love my pops to death. That nikka literally my best friend

Your Dad sounds like a real one. The sounds real too, not many dudes can be honest about their mom's issues.

 

[Apollo Creed]

Your Dad sounds like a real one. The sounds real too, not many dudes can be honest about their mom's issues.

Mama cant do wrong syndrome many blacks face. Many kids are abused by their mothers whether it be physically or mentally but because their mom had them around feel they cant acknowledge the wrong doings. This abuse creates crazy women and or men who hate women.

Its easy to diss the black man who isnt around but its hard to say something about the woman who was around although tourtured you.

 

[Zero]

Way some of yall act, I can tell your father was a bigger bytch than you are now

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

I saw the difference when i moved away from home the 1st time. I joined the Navy. We are in Boot Camp and nikkas are on some.

Fatherless nikkas - man i aint marching nowhere b.

Im looking at them like...nikka we are in the military... thats what they do



Man fukk that cuz. They think they run shyt.



Me -




I swear. About 6 cats.. ATTEMPTED to buck at the slightest authority. That shyt dont work in the military. They literally own you.

They had them dudes hemmed up so fast. took away a bunch of cash. Locked them up. Then kicked them out with a dishonorable discharge.

This happened to my older brother that was raised by his mom

You literally just told the story of his life

 

[Klyk21]

Most of my close friends grew up with Dads. We all seem to be on the same page as far as working hard, being true to our word and just being stand up dudes. I dont know many dudes that had Dads in the home that lie a lot.

Think about the dudes that lied about having the Jordans in high school, but never wore them. Think about the guys that lied about passing up on a chance to go pro. Bet the where from single parent homes.

Not saying all, but seems most dudes i know that grew up with no father seem to take on a lot of bad female traits. Begging and conniving tricks to manipulate people out money or something beneficial to themselves. Borrowing money and not paying back. Or theyre kinda lazy and passive. Not really sure of themselves.


Women also, i dont any chicks with fathers in their home that grew up fighting and acting like men.

Just think about it?




There are always exceptions to the rule . Dont come in here with a story of one stand-up guy out of a million

You deserve a trophy for making such a true statement

 

[JamilALAmin]

Your Dad sounds like a real one. The sounds real too, not many dudes can be honest about their mom's issues.

Breh if anything I got women issues from my mom. That's probably why I'm not married with kids now. I love her to the end. But it is what it is I guess. I just had to realize that she was young and our parents ain't perfect. They humans and they fukk up just like us

 

[Formerly Black Trash]

This thread is false to me

 

[FSP]

Everyone act like they can tell who had fathers and who didn't but literally every one of ya'll telling different stories

Just stop profilin

 

[General Mills]

This happened to my older brother that was raised by his mom

You literally just told the story of his life

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

Seriously. Got kicked out the military and everything

Always thinking he can buck up to authority figures


I always wonder if they put hands on him when he tried to buck up in military. I always hear that they will smack the taste out your mouth (literally) in Boot camp.

I never asked him cause he doesn't like to talk about it.

 

[FSP]

Seriously. Got kicked out the military and everything

Always thinking he can buck up to authority figures


I always wonder if they put hands on him when he tried to buck up in military. I always hear that they will smack the taste out your mouth (literally) in Boot camp.

I never asked him cause he doesn't like to talk about it.

see this...is exactly why I could never join the military

 

[Ashley Banks]