It's not that serious. Just give the chick the vibe that you are non-judgmental. She will open up on her own. Whether u a bf or side dude or whatever
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For some reason, I've often been that guy with a lot of ladies some I was smashing a few I wasn't smashing.
I remember smashing this young lady right in her house in the bed her and the husband shared while he was working off shores. I remember she'd tell me about how she hated how he worked so much. I remember thinking the whole time some shyt like this could get me killed. That shyt went on for probably over a year between us. Good times.
If a woman trusts you and gets comfortable she'll spill all her secrets, desires, and hedonistic behaviors. Most women are just as scandalous as we are as men.
The only difference women are much more cunning and deceptive, and women are much more selective and disciplined in selecting their marks. A lot men will fukk anything with a vagina that moves.
Women aren't like that and in a lot of cases they will pass over situations that they actually wanted to do something in.