Sucks to be impacted. Obviously it frames your stance. Why did you stick around for 10 years with a perfect track record instead of taking your talent elsewhere?Yes it has. My last three managers were all married or divorced. After 10 years, they finally offering me, the guy who been there the longest, the job. And with a perfect track record, HR already on my boss back like “are you sure?”
Realize women also work in HR and have influence on hiring. They also see married men as better candidates.
But that’s just me. Unless everyone who ever was promoted over you was a single man, you’ve also experienced it. Tell us what the marriage status is of your chain of command
Chain of command. Three of the four in the vertical aren’t married.
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