This needs more context.
Love seems like the better choice, BUT, what if your true love is ugly? Every single one of us has met a woman who may have been a good woman, but we weren’t attracted to her. The same is true for a lot of women. They meet men who would treat them like queens, but there is no physical attraction. (I have a feeling this is what a lot of y’all experience when you claim to have problems with women.)
Anyone who has seen Love Is Blind knows love is not blind. The couple can seem head over heels in the pods, but when they see each other, the chemistry is gone, because most people need physical attraction in order to be intimate. This is a person you have to look at every day of your life. Relationships are a lot of work. If the physical is not there, you are not going to put as much effort into pleasing that person.
For instance:
She chose the guy on the right. But she wasn’t into him physically. Then she saw the guy on the left, the one she didn’t choose, got with him, and he smashed immediately. They broke up too, but she has issues. You could say she should have stayed with the “good guy”, but you can tell when a woman isn’t feeling you like that. That’s not fair to him either.
So, I’m taking the money. I say this as a married man.