You gotta put your child's future into consideration when naming them.

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I agree. I love my name, and my future babies (I've always wanted twins :wub:) are Michael (after Archangel Michael) and Malcolm (after Malcolm X) and my future daughter I'm a name her Giada. Nothing "hoodish" and nothing too plain sounding either.
 

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or you could try to get name-blind laws on the book. other countries have experienced with these types of laws. i'm guessing instead of a name u list an ID to identify yourself on applications. Even with a white first name some surnames reveal your ethnicity (even for blacks).

also, u have to draw the line. first u erase your names to comfort them and what's next? everything about us makes them uncomfortable & studies show that creative names across races only negatively affects blacks. it's not the name that offends them its your race.
There isn't a prayer of a chance in this climate of getting name-blind laws on the book, for employment at least. Direct conflict w/ affirmative action and all of that.
I'm sure people are regularly surprised because I have a "white-sounding" name, alongside phone interviews and the like, since apparently I sound like Isaac Hayes with a Mid-Atlantic accent.
Its better to play the game while also working to change the discriminatory laws, than to name your child something ridiculous in the hope that the laws will pass.
Its also rather apparent that low-income Black parents are more likely to give their children "creative names" than middle/upper-middle class Black parents, in essence the lower income parents are cutting their kids' futures at the knees by being poor, and then stabbing them in the chest by ensuring that they'll likely be discriminated against on the basis of their name.
And creative names stemming in other languages and cultures are more difficult to discriminate against than the culture at large, because unless you speak that language and are apart of that culture, you have no idea if the name is "creative" or not.
 

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If you don't plan on setting up your own business or making proper business connections so that the only thing your child needs to thrive is common sense and a good word from their parents, then give your kid a cac name.
 

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maybe she knows bull shyt when she sees it :dame:

The very existence of this thread is bull shyt

This thread is about names black people give their children, why should she even have an opinion? When is she going to have black kids and have to name them? Maybe adoption? This is like a black issue where we can be for, against it, or whatever. Why do white people always need to interject? Their opinions are irrelevant.
 

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Or the idiots that name their kids those difficult ass African names, knowin' we aint from nobody's Africa
I remember this Tumblr post that showed varying African diaspora names that sounded similar to the more popular "creative Black names" and people were tying to claim the made-up names were of African origin, knowing damn well the parents who named their kid Shontavius or Shaniqua couldn't show you Nigeria on a map :dead:
 

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There isn't a prayer of a chance in this climate of getting name-blind laws on the book, for employment at least. Direct conflict w/ affirmative action and all of that.
I'm sure people are regularly surprised because I have a "white-sounding" name, alongside phone interviews and the like, since apparently I sound like Isaac Hayes with a Mid-Atlantic accent.
Its better to play the game while also working to change the discriminatory laws, than to name your child something ridiculous in the hope that the laws will pass..

I hear you . I benefit from this too. Not that ive ever had an issue getting or keeping a job but i have a european first name and an Indian Bangladeshi last name because my dads folks (mom side) migrated to Haiti from there. Many times ive been in interviews and was told "we thought you were indian"

Its also rather apparent that low-income Black parents are more likely to give their children "creative names" than middle/upper-middle class Black parents, in essence the lower income parents are cutting their kids' futures at the knees by being poor, and then stabbing them in the chest by ensuring that they'll likely be discriminated against on the basis of their name.
And creative names stemming in other languages and cultures are more difficult to discriminate against than the culture at large, because unless you speak that language and are apart of that culture, you have no idea if the name is "creative" or not.
It's wrong and shouldnt have to be that way but unfortunately thats the society we live in. ANd again as i explain in my first post this is not only in the United States. People everywhere will judge and discriminate against you just by seeing your name.
 

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This. Dudes actually think the name is what's stop people from succeeding :mjlol:

You can give your son the caciest name ever and it won't make a difference because he'd still be black.

Pretty much. Some of the responses in here are dumb as fukk. It doesnt matter what you name your child. At the end of the day you're black.

Folks need to stop try to accomodate racist pieces of trash. Its pointless and pathetic.
 

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To respond to the thread, I'm not big on "ghetto" names but it really doesn't matter what name you have. You can have the whitest sounding name but once you get that interview, you'll still have the same problem. A person who'd trash your application because of your name will probably still pass on you once you go to the interview because they're racist and don't want to hire black people.

Also the alternative to a ghetto name isn't a white one. There are plenty of African names and whatnot, which can still lead to not being hired.
 

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This is where black people fukk up. Most of the people giving these kids crazy names shouldn't be having kids anyway. To young, poor, stupid, so on and so on.

Then you have people rushing to defend ignorant decisions in the light of pro black.

But most of these names weren't constructed with pro black intentions. Just some young mom who thought she came up with some clever French sounding name.
 

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Pretty much. Some of the responses in here are dumb as fukk. It doesnt matter what you name your child. At the end of the day you're black.

Folks need to stop try to accomodate racist pieces of trash. Its pointless and pathetic.
It's not just accommodation, a lot of the names are incredible stupid. Its also not solely a Black issue, in fact I remember a GQ article about the same subject, for White people: The GQ Guide to Naming Your Baby
The correlation may actually be that lower-income parents are far more likely to give their children "creative" names, and the poverty is what is holding the kid back, who will be far more likely to have to apply for non-BS/BA/JD/MS required jobs. Who knows. I know a kid named LilWayne, a kid named Alize, and a kid named Abcde, there is no defense for dumb names
 

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I hear you . I benefit from this too. Not that ive ever had an issue getting or keeping a job but i have a european first name and an Indian Bangladeshi last name because my dads folks (mom side) migrated to Haiti from there. Many times ive been in interviews and was told "we thought you were indian"


It's wrong and shouldnt have to be that way but unfortunately thats the society we live in. ANd again as i explain in my first post this is not only in the United States. People everywhere will judge and discriminate against you just by seeing your name.
Yeah, it is unfortunate. While I oppose the discrimination, I'm not one of those parents who's going to do something to the detriment of my child, just to make a point.
A lot of the recent pseudo-Black Power young people are just like "fukk cacs, I'll name my kids whatever I want." And its cool that you think naming your son Hennessey is "fighting the system" but its not.
 
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