You have to be somewhat flashy in order to get women , it’s a FACT

[africngiant]

just tailor your clothes and you’ll look better than 99% of men out here.

too bad i can’t relate to bytches

 

[Will Ross]

Very spot on.. I grew up in a middle class suburb in the 80's and 90's.. Went to school with a lot of white kids and we hardly had any discussions about designer shoes and clothes.. We pretty much wore whatever.. It's not until I started interacting more with other black kids that I noticed this emphasis on name brand shoes and clothes.. I always thought it was the silliest thing lol.

That is because the kids you was around had access to the same resources. It was not one kid had Jordan’s and then other kid has on Payless

 

[Dihsarm]

I disagree, think of it like this: when all that flash comes off and it’s time for bedroom play… what will you be left with? Flash might help with some appeal, but there are other factors that weigh mucg more. Factors such as masculinity, charisma, muscle and maybe even intelligence. Trust me, I’ve seen those flashy dudes lose out to sixpack dudes who wear those clearance rack type t-shirts.

 

[Spiritual Stratocaster]

I mean I've gotten p*ssy whe being homeless living in the doorways to stores...


But I've always had some nice pair of speakers or carrying my guitar...or had decent set of clothes.


So


We counting swagger as flash?

 

[LiveFromLondon]

Thank heavens Im handsome

 

[LiveFromLondon]

The one thing I can say I've had a positive with when it comes to women is they like the way i dress. They like that I am interested in fashion and can keep up with them in a conversation. They like that I have my own style that's not influenced....but informed by influences. They like that I have an individualistic Flair like Rick. They like that I am not trying to be like every other Tom D!ck and Harry out there

moist

 

[getmoney310cpt]

This is facts. It's not even a black girl thing, it's a young chick thing. They have to see that your life is lit

Btw, for the most part they only do this shyt to black men. Other races can dress like Will Ferrell & get play

Bolded is the real
Convo that needs to be had

 

[Serious]

I disagree, think of it like this: when all that flash comes off and it’s time for bedroom play… what will you be left with? Flash might help with some appeal, but there are other factors that weigh mucg more. Factors such as masculinity, charisma, muscle and maybe even intelligence. Trust me, I’ve seen those flashy dudes lose out to sixpack dudes who wear those clearance rack type t-shirts.

I know the coli love to shyt on muscles but that primal instinct in women comes out when you’re muscular and naked with them.

If you know you know

 

[DJ Paul's Arm]

Some posters have already touched on this point, but the kind of women you want depends on your image.

You're not going to get the Insta baddy driving a Golf GTI. You are more in the territory of getting the regular girl next door, but many bruhs don't know that the girl next door is also holding out for the guy driving luxury foreign cars but she settled for the regular bruh.

But if you pull up in a Mercedes, it doesn't even have to be the amg series, a whole new league of hoes will open up to you!
Basically, Group A is FORCED TO SETTLE for a regular bruh(Shorty can't get a well-off bruh to commit) but Group B is flashy/well-off bruhs' equal and doesn't have to settle for a regular Joe.
Group A not ugly but not exceptionally attractive either

Group B is what's considered the crème de la crème and as such they get more entries lol

Are you WILLING TO PAY is what you have to ask yourself?

This nikka really took the time to make this post.

 

[Magic Mulatto]

@Magic Mulatto what guard number do you think he got on the top, sides and back??

Looks like Meeks goes for a #1 all over…

 

[Jalether]

It depends on what you mean by flashy

Expensive clothes and shoes, Most women can't tell the difference between a luxury cloth and high street brand unless it has
big gawdy logos.
But you don't need to wear expensive shyt to look good and "flashy"

 

[Jalether]

This is facts. It's not even a black girl thing, it's a young chick thing. They have to see that your life is lit

Btw, for the most part they only do this shyt to black men. Other races can dress like Will Ferrell & get play

Yep we are the democrat of the dating world. we have to do far more to get the votes

 

[colicolicoli]

Some posters have already touched on this point, but the kind of women you want depends on your image.

You're not going to get the Insta baddy driving a Golf GTI. You are more in the territory of getting the regular girl next door, but many bruhs don't know that the girl next door is also holding out for the guy driving luxury foreign cars but she settled for the regular bruh.

But if you pull up in a Mercedes, it doesn't even have to be the amg series, a whole new league of hoes will open up to you!
Basically, Group A is FORCED TO SETTLE for a regular bruh(Shorty can't get a well-off bruh to commit) but Group B is flashy/well-off bruhs' equal and doesn't have to settle for a regular Joe.
Group A not ugly but not exceptionally attractive either

Group B is what's considered the crème de la crème and as such they get more entries lol

Are you WILLING TO PAY is what you have to ask yourself?

Only difference between these groups of girls is group B is using filters.

 

[NoirDynosaur]

You have to have CHARISMA. You can be a broke charismatic nikka and still knock down bytches left and right. I was one. I know a lot of dull, boring nikkas with 401ks and mortgages who think they should have a bytch just because they're "upwardly mobile" (i.e: paying a 30 year loan and working a middle of the road job). Nah (young) bytches want adventure.

Charisma is a cheat code

Women are emotional by nature, by charming her, you nurture the emotions that makes her gravitate towards you

Most of this flashy stuff will end up attracting wolves and gold diggers that will set a dude up.

Having a muscular physique is essential though. Most attraction is primal.

 

[Loose]

Flashy? I wouldn’t say

More so have to stand out.

For instance my brother @CountryBalla ain’t work in 5 years and make major money off stocks. nikka stay with a bad chick of different race on his trail.

And that nikka dresses like he work on a farm

nikka @CountryBalla walk around in monarchs and pull bytches. So you know it's cap. Just need a lil swag