Anothergirl
Goat ™
...and sure dating out the race is an option, but we know what you really wanna bring home to the fam
nah some of us smartened up and beat the game. (before it even started)
"You made me settle." - her
- Thread starter Mr Hate Coffee
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nah some of us smartened up and beat the game. (before it even started)
ltheghost
Payin Debts.... N40
"After dealing with you I've come to the conclusion that all men who are a 'catch' will never be ready to be serious any time soon. A guy with a good career and drive, no kids, etc. is gonna continue to play the field. Because of that I only deal with a certain type of guy from now on."
:wow2:
How is this my fault tho?
Its not your fault. If this is her logic she has a lot of growing up to do. She did you a favor so you don't have to deal with this bullshyt anymore. You should have said okay and I value your friendship..then proceed to get on her friends....
Field Marshall Bradley
Veteran
"I dont want love. when I was young, some women told me they loved me for my long eyelashes. I accepted. Later it was for my wit. Then for my power and money. Then for my talent. Then for my minddeep. ok, I can handle all of it. The only woman who scares me is the one who loves me for myself alone"
Mario Puzo da gawd
The bolded is sig worthy and puts a tear in a nikka eye .
Its almost like true love is some type of unattainable prize that we chase in futility nowadays .
I keep saying to myself this can't be life, but unfortunately, this may very well be the case
Its funny that every lady is looking for a guy like this....but never really stopped to think if they deserve that, can they even keep a guy like that happy and content? They're not honest with themselves regarding these questions.
By all means aim for the stars, but unless you're an astronaut expect to go home empty handed.
By all means aim for the stars, but unless you're an astronaut expect to go home empty handed.
keep telling yourself that. the marriage rates as compared by races don't lie.
I believe if you check those marriage rates by income you would see that the black men who aren't about shyt are the ones not married not the other way around. The well off black men are generally the ones with the well to do families a lot of times they just get married later in life. ALL Women of all races crave success in a man around the mid 20's and so on. Unlike the other races however the disparity between successful black men and women is huge in comparison to other races. That means a black man with his stuff together is most likely going to have a lot of options. With a lot of viable options throughout your Hyundai paperwork 20's and 30's it's easy to see why a man would forgo marriage at least until they get older. It's just the game
You don't honestly think white or asian men wouldn't do the same thing if the ratio of successful women to men in the workplace was 3 to 1?
Mr.bocario
Superstar
I can't lie the coli has a nikka motivated to do well in school.
Just see if women are more cooperative when your successful
Just see if women are more cooperative when your successful
they are. Everyone is
Anothergirl
Goat ™
You don't honestly think white or asian men wouldn't do the same thing if the ratio of successful women to men in the workplace was 3 to 1?
speaking on what i see everyday in the environment i live and grew up in ...no i don't. but the familial value system they're taught from a young age also tends to be very culturally different. esp w/ asians.
Lucky_Lefty
Dreams Are Colder Than Death...
Typically if a black man is successful they would more than likely also have been raised with similar morals and principles. I think you're giving the men of other races too much credit when they simply don't have as many options in comparison to black men in the corporate world.
Anothergirl
Goat ™
perhaps. we'll agree to disagree for now i suppose...