Young single mom cries about needing a break

[Ronnie Lott]

I didn't watch the video, but , Keep your legs closed.

Why do people act like they can't NOT sleep with other people?

You do know you don't have to have sex if you're not ready for the consequences right?

Don't feel sorry for her failures at all, she didn't get raped, she was the one who laid on her back and took a hot one, twice. She could have been in birth control, took the morning after pill and gotten an abortion. She had three failsafes to not end up how she is and she failed all three.

Y’all nikkaz hate black women and have no compassion

 

[Mowgli]

The struggle of a woman who wears animal print who is forced to accept responsibility.

Take notice

 

[Mr. Glass]

You are what your record says you are.

 

[King Poetic]

this is what happens when you let dirty dikk rodney and no good treach who u thought was sexy as fukk because he had a body full of tats and a life as a criminal tossed u around raw with no regards for human life...

but she isn't the only one in the hood going through this shyt..... i be around a lot of single moms and they put that i'm a strong black woman and don't need a man face on in public, but behind close doors they are just like this chick...

she has strong mental issues

 

[Actually6Foot3]

Y’all nikkaz hate black women and have no compassion

Always some clown ass simp talking bout HaLl HaTe BlAcK WoMeNzZz. All dude said was SHE put herself in this predicament and there's really no reason to feel sorry for anyone but the kids in this situation. This shyt has NOTHING to do with the fact that she's black you just wanted to turn it into that FOH

 

[Black Nate Grey]

I do feel sorry for her, I don't like seeing people breakdown, stress or struggle like this.
Really should be making better decisions on her part.

For the most part its obvious who is or isn't suitable to birth and rear children. This society and its obsession with casual sex and no forethought interferes with decision making.

 

[Ronnie Lott]

Always some clown ass simp talking bout HaLl HaTe BlAcK WoMeNzZz. All dude said was SHE put herself in this predicament and there's really no reason to feel sorry for anyone but the kids in this situation. This shyt has NOTHING to do with the fact that she's black you just wanted to turn it into that FOH

A lot of emotion and typing you just did

 

[Actually6Foot3]

A lot of emotion and typing you just did

A whole three sentences worth of typing. Took me 30 minutes to complete. I was furious

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

Damn. Feel so sorry for those children.. This is mad selfish and unstable on her part- all she's talking about is walking away and how overwhelmed she is. selfish af. she has literally zero coping skills and seems to be one step away from taking their frustration out on them. Nevermind the fact that they're only 1 and 2 years old, she's got a lifetime of parenting ahead. Then, the babies didn't ask to be here and she's complaining about everything, clearly she was not prepared and has not accepted the emotional, physical or financial responsibility- either give them to relatives who are better able to take care of them or be a real mother, be strong, stop the breakdowns and figure out ways to better yourself for their benefit, stop worrying about the past and what you have no control over. Being a mother is about sacrificing, we do what we need and have to. This shyt is NOT about YOU and YOUR needs anymore.

WTF.. and then she had one baby already, then fukked around and had another back to back; knowing she wasn't ready for the first one. But now she's complaining now about the consequences and responsibilities.

You are right but I'm wondering if you have kids of your own

shyt is different... you need all the help you can get, especially when they are young.

Everyone here loves to shyt all over single moms, but I feel for them. shyt is not easy at all.

 

[NobleDrewAli]

When they get older it's a wrap

She gonna be frustrated and yelling all the time over small shyt taking it on the kids.

Brehs raised by a single mom can relate

This is so true.

*kids leave a plate in the sink*

Mom: "WHY ALL THESE GD DISHES IN THE SINK? I always gotta do everything around the MF house! You know what? Yall pack yall shyt and GTFO"



Kids:

 

[Clay Puppington]

Being raised in a single mother household I feel for her but at the same time she made those choices.

When my mother would complain about how ain't shyt my pops is I had to remind her that she CHOSE to lay up with him. And have TWO kids at that

She put herself in this situation. She needs to take her ass back inside and tend to those innocent babies.

I feel you breh. My moms used to be on the same shyt with my pops but she admitted he wasn't who he was when she first got with him - he did a 180 basically
Don't kill me #HOH narcissists are good at what they do

 

[Max.]

She said she wants a month off okay for what?
..to get drunk at the club n get fukked again? Baby number 5

 

[datnigDASTARDLY]

Y’all nikkaz hate black women and have no compassion

It's not about compassion. We waaay past the point of coddling folk who don't learn. We've had years, both men and women, to have a simple conversation of economics and planning to have children.

If you still running up raw in women, or u spreading ass for cool dikk Willie down the street, then you get what you deserve .

At this point it's no different than not buying white folk ignorance about racism, or how weed is a gateway drug .

We need to be beyond that by now

 

[NO-BadAzz]

Didn't watch the video, but everybody needs a break from something at some point. Regardless of the situation, you can't be around something all the time.

Now the thing for her to maybe do is plan for this break, buy some outfits, give a family member 200-300 dollars for the kids for a weekend to spend with the grand-parents or her family members, friend, so while she's breaking her kids are getting a break (in a sense) too. They are not just being dropped off so that she can party it up or whatever. Preparation for a break is what makes your break more of a break, the mind-set, the mental drain of being a parent. Once all of this is in place, your break can be more enjoyable.

It takes a village to raise kids

 

[Rocket Scientist]

You make your bed lay in it