Young single mom cries about needing a break

[Bumblebreh]

She chose poorly

Got a niece right now, got preggo with her first daughter as a senior 2 years ago, and now she preggo again.
and of course, not the same cat.

She gonna learn.....unfortunately the hard way. My sister in law is not gonna be too keen on her dumping 2 kids off on her because she needs a "break" and wants to "have a life". Shoulda thought of that shyt especially after the first kid.

But yeah, the kids are the real losers in these situations which really infuriates me. That's why I'm in favor of government birth control pills.

I am more in favor of educating people about the risks and the realities of sex.The realities of single motherhood and the risks of catching an std/sti or a hpv. Giving out free condoms.
With welfare facing more and more cuts, I do struggle to see in how people can just a have a laid back mentality when it comes to having kids but I doubt they even know before it is too late.

 

[Kidd Dibiase]

Also, most women never ask men to use a condom.

Majority of women are taking raw dikk with no question.

But thats a topic for another thread.

true, i can count on one hand how many women asked me if i had a condom

 

[banner34]

Woman should not be having kids with men that live a high risk criminal lifestyle drug dealers and gangster who will not be around to take care of those kids

 

[Henri Christophe]

true, i can count on one hand how many women asked me if i had a condom

Yeah... Women dont be giving no fukks about that condom shyt.

Some do... But most women wont even ask you anything... They'll just give you the p*ssy.

Thats why I dont be blessing random hoes with the dikk like that, cause if most women arent requesting protection or asking about mens sexual history.... You see how easy it is for pregnancies to occur & STDs to spread from person to person very quickly when nobody is asking any questions or taking precautions.

Pregnancies & STDs aint no accidents.... nikkas out here going raw & blasting off & and women enjoy that shyt.

It's hard to feel sympathy for folks in certain situations

 

[TeenTitansGo]

Damn. Feel so sorry for those children.. This is mad selfish and unstable on her part- all she's talking about is walking away and how overwhelmed she is. selfish af. she has literally zero coping skills and seems to be one step away from taking their frustration out on them. Nevermind the fact that they're only 1 and 2 years old, she's got a lifetime of parenting ahead. Then, the babies didn't ask to be here and she's complaining about everything, clearly she was not prepared and has not accepted the emotional, physical or financial responsibility- either give them to relatives who are better able to take care of them or be a real mother, be strong, stop the breakdowns and figure out ways to better yourself for their benefit, stop worrying about the past and what you have no control over. Being a mother is about sacrificing, we do what we need and have to. This shyt is NOT about YOU and YOUR needs anymore.

WTF.. and then she had one baby already, then fukked around and had another back to back; knowing she wasn't ready for the first one. But now she's complaining now about the consequences and responsibilities.

Oh give me a break. All people complain doesn't make her less of a mother.



Oh I forgot black women are supposed to have no feelings and can't be human.

 

[tater]

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It may be time for you to log off

Why? I’d be willing to bet you didn’t watch the whole 17 minute video either, yet you were able to form an opinion based on the comments and the portion you did see. I did not watch, but clearly the woman is frustrated and the fact that she posted a 17 minute video crying on Facebook about being overwhelmed points me to the fact that she probably needs some therapy or help. Doesn’t take a genius or the viewing of a 17 minute video to figure that out. Also, from the amount of comments reiterating the same points one could surmise the video content.

 

[Slystallion]

parenting isn't easy...

always best to have stable income and plan to have care in place when you need to get stuff done

 

[Gold]

Why? I’d be willing to bet you didn’t watch the whole 17 minute video either, yet you were able to form an opinion based on the comments and the portion you did see. I did not watch, but clearly the woman is frustrated and the fact that she posted a 17 minute video crying on Facebook about being overwhelmed points me to the fact that she probably needs some therapy or help. Doesn’t take a genius or the viewing of a 17 minute video to figure that out. Also, from the amount of comments reiterating the same points one could surmise the video content.

Way too much emotion, relax.

You forming a strong emotional opinion over something you didn't even watch

 

[Nicole0416_718_929_646212]

This is so true.

*kids leave a plate in the sink*

Mom: "WHY ALL THESE GD DISHES IN THE SINK? I always gotta do everything around the MF house! You know what? Yall pack yall shyt and GTFO"



Kids:

.. this was my mom. Because I didn't load the dishes in the dishwasher correctly. and I didn't change my little brother's diaper when she went out - I was 8.

 

[AAKing23]

She knew the risks, I only feel sorry for widowed single mothers.

Woman up

 

[SalamiAttack]

 

[Orange cream shake]

I didn’t watch the video but I hate hearing parents say they need a break.unless I’m working, my kid with me 24-7. Me and my husband have never had a vaca without kids. I’m sure it’s hard to raise children as a single parent but you don’t get a break as a parent. Wait 18 years.

 

[AAKing23]

"Men can just leave. Its NOT FAIR. "




Yo... Seeing women complain cause they cant be men will always be COMEDY


Yes bytch.... we can do shyt that you cant. U goddamn right... We can spread seed and then dissapper... Thats why its up to you to properly choose.

bytches be choosin on bums like the shyt is a sport

If I was a woman I would prioritize at the very least being married to a man before having his children because at least he is committed to you that way.

When you have a baby out of wedlock by a dude as a woman you are basically putting all your money on that nikka sticking around to be a good father but when you do that you need to understand the risk involved and be confident with that bet , unfortunately it doesn't always work out that way so you gotta live with it.

 

[TeenTitansGo]

Y’all nikkaz hate black women and have no compassion

Exactly!
If this was a woman of a different race they would be in here making excuses and bring sympathetic smh!

Nobody knows what this lady has been through but they in her judging her.

 

[Nicole0416_718_929_646212]

Now the thing for her to maybe do is plan for this break, buy some outfits, give a family member 200-300 dollars for the kids for a weekend

Do you really think she has extra money laying around to be buying outfits and an extra $200-300 laying around, period? Think about it - she has two kids back to back, on fb breaking down - bashing the fathers, venting her frustrations, never once mentions what she can do specifically to improve her issues - I don't think financial planning or family planning, rainy day funds were on her to-do list. She's so distraught that she can't even get her mind right to take care of the kids in the right way. Take a vacation?? whutttt?? plan for a break? u can't be serious. She needs to work on a life plan first.. if anything a family member needs to step in voluntarily so that she can get counseling or whatever intervention she needs to re-focus and prioritize.