Young single mom cries about needing a break

[Nicole0416_718_929_646212]

Nope cause I've seen it plenty.

Do you really think this shyt would have even had been posted if she wasn't black?

FOH with this black feminist shyt.. yall stay caping for the wrong causes. Nothing but assuming the identity of a white supremacist hack. She's wrong.. in this situation as a black mother to another black mother.. it's dead wrong.. her approach is wrong, her excuses are wrong.. her whole mindset is not focused on the RIGHT PRIORITIES. stfu with this pseudo pro black stance.. you don't even know what the fuk you're talking about. talking about "you've seen it" you haven't seen shyt, but your biased azz opinions based on the banterings of some cac influence. pick a side and stay in your lane.

 

[NinoBrown]

She should have chose better or later, too bad...

 

[TeenTitansGo]

Such a well thought out response you have.. .. and she's doing a lot more than complaining. But ok.. keep justifying wrong, then when the kids end up in a social services situation, yall will be the first one blaming the mother. puuuhhllease. if you're going to defend something.. make sure it's the right thing. I see you don't have shyt to say about how her actions and "feelings" are detrimental to the children crying in the background.

Please social services ain't shyt and never has been. They Target black families way more than white familes.

Your acting as if you know this woman personally when you don't. My cousin was raped and abused constantly by her dad and other men growing up. She was never taught this stuff my her. She now has 2 kids by two different guys who she thought really loved her. She sometimes have break downs and I come and help her out when I can. Shes mentally not there but she still does try her best. Thankfully family has stepped in cause after her last bf left she was really lost and hurt.

But to y'all she's just a dumb bytch who is a how smh.

All I'm saying is yes she shouldn't have had kids if she wasn't ready but you never know what someone has been through in there life. You don't know until you walk a day in their shoes.

 

[LurkMoar]

Man folks gotta put everything online. Better hope the laws don't get involved if you're talking about leaving young children alone for a while.


Yep, I got a relative going through the same thing. I think a lot of these young girls like the idea of having kids (baby fever) but have no idea about the responsibilities (24/7, 365) it entails.

Got a cousin that dropped out of college and got preggo with some bum. Now she moving in with him on government housing. I honestly don’t even like thinking about it, what black person decides to MOVE IN the hood???


She’s like 22



Women need to be given that real talk from an early age man. Making bad decisions can and will destroy a woman.

 

[Nicole0416_718_929_646212]

They Target black families way more than white familes.

DUHHHHH.. THAT'S ALL THE MORE REASON FOR HER NOT TO BE ON FACEBOOK LIVE, SETTING HERSELF UP FOR FAILURE. wtf are you talking about?? they want to see the degradation of the black family and she's spoon feeding them that shyt. that's sheer stupidity and shows your mentality. you just played yourself and her. yet, you don't hold her accountable. But yeah... keep talking that "if white woman did it shyt".. like it has any affect on this current situation at hand.

The rest of that shyt you write..tl/dr and don't care about your thoughts any further on this; so I will not address it.

 

[Gold]

Please social services ain't shyt and never has been. They Target black families way more than white familes.

Your acting as if you know this woman personally when you don't.

Do you know her? Do you know the circumstances that led her to this position in life? None of us know her, we are simply responding to the information she gave us in that video. And in that video she proved to show the signs of an unfit mother.

My cousin was raped and abused constantly by her dad and other men growing up. She was never taught this stuff my her. She now has 2 kids by two different guys who she thought really loved her. She sometimes have break downs and I come and help her out when I can. Shes mentally not there but she still does try her best. Thankfully family has stepped in cause after her last bf left she was really lost and hurt.

That's very sad and unfortunate that this happened to your cousin. But it sounds llike you are projecting your cousin unto this woman.
This woman is not your cousin. You don't know her anymore than we do. It seems like you have some personal issues with this that have nothing to do with us.

But to y'all she's just a dumb bytch who is a how smh.

All I'm saying is yes she shouldn't have had kids if she wasn't ready but you never know what someone has been through in there life. You don't know until you walk a day in their shoes.

A dumb bytch? No

A bad mother? Yes

She seems incapable of taking care of her children, and someone should step in and assist and or take the children from her until she is capable.
That's all there is too it.

All that other emotional stuff about your cousin is sad but wholly irrelevant.

 

[Sonic Boom of the South]

20 secs in n bih ain't saying shyt


Stopped watching

 

[blaccbeard]

Spread your legs for multiple unprotected men who will walk out on you then cry about needing a break from the repercussions

/thread.

 

[Noriega]

Do you really think she has extra money laying around to be buying outfits and an extra $200-300 laying around, period? Think about it - she has two kids back to back, on fb breaking down - bashing the fathers, venting her frustrations, never once mentions what she can do specifically to improve her issues - I don't think financial planning or family planning, rainy day funds were on her to-do list. She's so distraught that she can't even get her mind right to take care of the kids in the right way. Take a vacation?? whutttt?? plan for a break? u can't be serious. She needs to work on a life plan first.. if anything a family member needs to step in voluntarily so that she can get counseling or whatever intervention she needs to re-focus and prioritize.

Coli logic yall: Single mother should think about 401k savings and buying real estate property while caring for 4 kids under the age of 8

 

[WakandanPride]

If you're not financially or emotionally stable to have children.

WRAP THAT SHYT UP

I have no sympathy for her and fukk the deadbeat dad.

 

[Blessings]

lmaooooooooooooo

 

[Xyrax]

I'm sorry, but I don't bleed for her.

And for women who would chastise me for being callous, ask yourself this: How many broke nikkas with no/bad jobs and no money and no prospects, that are walking around in dusty clothes needing a haircut do YOU feel sorry for? You probably just look at them and chuckle at how they aren't real men, because a real man hold it down.

Well.... I have problems and struggles too, but I still get my money; I still provide for my fiance, and I do that shyt regardless. Why should I cry for her when 99% of the time no one would care about ME if I were in her shoes. Cold world, bring a coat etc etc.

She willfully fukked her way into that dead end life.

 

[Critical Distance]

What percentage of black America is financially ready to have children?

A very small percent.

 

[diggy]

Need a break from that D

 

[CoryMack]

cant see video atm. but where are the fathers?

Exactly where are the men?