Young single mom cries about needing a break

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I don’t know about the trials and tribulations of parenthood so it would be inappropriate to speak on it.

All I can say is, God bless her and I hope it works for the best.
 

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Exactly!
If this was a woman of a different race they would be in here making excuses and bring sympathetic smh!

Nobody knows what this lady has been through but they in her judging her.

bullshyt, show one example where thecoli has caped for single mothers of any race.

You really gotta stop pushing this narrative.
 

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Man, I’m so thankful I have money and can afford private nannies and daycare. I’m sure I would feel the same way if I didn’t.

I've been on both ends of the spectrum - going from more than half my check for day care expenses, then as time passed, being able to afford private school/personal caregivers - Never felt this way. at all. The main problem for me was time management and lack of organization, not complaining about how I want to "walk away" or abandon the situation because I'm tired and frustrated.
 

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bullshyt, show one example where thecoli has caped for single mothers of any race.

You really gotta stop pushing this narrative.

Nope cause I've seen it plenty.

Do you really think this shyt would have even had been posted if she wasn't black?
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Do you really think she has extra money laying around to be buying outfits and an extra $200-300 laying around, period? Think about it - she has two kids back to back, on fb breaking down - bashing the fathers, venting her frustrations, never once mentions what she can do specifically to improve her issues - I don't think financial planning or family planning, rainy day funds were on her to-do list. She's so distraught that she can't even get her mind right to take care of the kids in the right way. Take a vacation?? whutttt?? plan for a break? u can't be serious. She needs to work on a life plan first.. if anything a family member needs to step in voluntarily so that she can get counseling or whatever intervention she needs to re-focus and prioritize.

I just want her to be happy.

Not disagreeing with what you're saying, I agree.

I just want to see the sista doing better for herself and for the kids. She can't raise beautiful black kids in this mind-set
 

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Oh give me a break. All people complain doesn't make her less of a mother.

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Oh I forgot black women are supposed to have no feelings and can't be human.
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Such a well thought out response you have.. .. and she's doing a lot more than complaining. But ok.. keep justifying wrong, then when the kids end up in a social services situation, yall will be the first one blaming the mother. puuuhhllease. if you're going to defend something.. make sure it's the right thing. I see you don't have shyt to say about how her actions and "feelings" are detrimental to the children crying in the background.
 

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Nope cause I've seen it plenty.

Do you really think this shyt would have even had been posted if she wasn't black?
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you NEGGED ME for defending innocent children????and not siding with a mother threatening to abandon her kids, ignores the needs of her children and blaming the world for her problems. you got issues... mad huh? I'll take that neg.. THANKS!
 

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Nope cause I've seen it plenty.

Do you really think this shyt would have even had been posted if she wasn't black?
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If you've seen it plenty it shouldn't be hard to come up with an example.:skip:


In case you haven't noticed, thecoli does not like single mothers to begin with.
The coli also hates it when women complain (about anything really, justified or not)

If you think that thecoli is going to cape for a white woman crying about the difficulties of being a single mother, you're delusional.


But keep the agenda going, more power to you :yeshrug:
 

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you NEGGED ME for defending innocent children????and not siding with a mother threatening to abandon her kids and blaming the world for her problems. you got issues... mad huh? I'll take that...

Like I said earlier, alotta emotional people in this thread not thinking logically.

In their minds the woman in video is mother of the year status:francis:



They don't realize that justifying this and caping for it sets and incredibly low bar for what we expect of mothers:francis:
 

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Man folks gotta put everything online.:francis: Better hope the laws don't get involved if you're talking about leaving young children alone for a while.
She chose poorly :francis:

Got a niece right now, got preggo with her first daughter as a senior 2 years ago, and now she preggo again. :francis:
and of course, not the same cat. :francis:

She gonna learn.....unfortunately the hard way. My sister in law is not gonna be too keen on her dumping 2 kids off on her because she needs a "break" and wants to "have a life". Shoulda thought of that shyt especially after the first kid. :francis:

But yeah, the kids are the real losers in these situations which really infuriates me. That's why I'm in favor of government birth control pills.

Yep, I got a relative going through the same thing. I think a lot of these young girls like the idea of having kids (baby fever) but have no idea about the responsibilities (24/7, 365) it entails. :francis:
 
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