Young single mom cries about needing a break

[Lesfilles]

Damn. Feel so sorry for those children.. This is mad selfish and unstable on her part- all she's talking about is walking away and how overwhelmed she is. selfish af. she has literally zero coping skills and seems to be one step away from taking their frustration out on them. Nevermind the fact that they're only 1 and 2 years old, she's got a lifetime of parenting ahead. Then, the babies didn't ask to be here and she's complaining about everything, clearly she was not prepared and has not accepted the emotional, physical or financial responsibility- either give them to relatives who are better able to take care of them or be a real mother, be strong, stop the breakdowns and figure out ways to better yourself for their benefit, stop worrying about the past and what you have no control over. Being a mother is about sacrificing, we do what we need and have to. This shyt is NOT about YOU and YOUR needs anymore.

WTF.. and then she had one baby already, then fukked around and had another back to back; knowing she wasn't ready for the first one. But now she's complaining now about the consequences and responsibilities.

This is true, but I'm sure it's overwhelming doing it alone with two kids. If she's not in a good financial state it can only add to her stress. Most people aren't prepared to have kids and a lot of women break-down. I remember my cousin crying in the delivery room after she gave birth to her first child (a son) cause it meant it was real, she was really a parent now and responsible for someone else and she freaked out, didn't want to hold the baby for a moment there or anything...We were worried she'd have postpartum depression cause of that episode but she turned it around and now she's a great mom. She has her parents and ofc her husband to help her out, but it can still be over whelming. Not absolving this woman of her poor decision making, but I can have a bit of sympathy for her. We live and learn, unfortunately some of us learn the hard way.

 

[im_sleep]

We broken as hell as a people. Ain’t shyt funny about this. I pray the best for everyone in the video. If her and the kids father can make it work or something God Bless em.

Real talk, I been here before. Not to this extreme, but it took me along time to understand what my girl(now wife) meant when we weren’t together and I was running the streets thinking my weekly visits, milk, and diapers was enough while she wasn’t getting any breaks.

A lot of assuming going on in this thread too about her and the child’s father.


This dysfunction we have as a people ain’t just relegated to ain’t shyt nikka’s and hood rats. It’s square ass folks out here going through this same shyt too, this shyt deeper than that.

 

[Lord_nikon]

hold up did she say 1,2,3 and 6

 

[AkilinaArina]

She's suffering from post pardum depression many mothers go through this after giving birth it's completely normal and it's encouraged to let it all out instead of lashing on the child. Every mother has cried and begged a little toddler to stop crying or locked herself in the bathroom to break down, it's happens. My good friend has twins and she's had many nights where she's cried and begged them to just go to sleep, it's frustrating. They don't call it terrible 2's for nothing. Hopefully her boyfriend or baby father can help her out a little more so that she doesn't reach her breaking point.

 

[AkilinaArina]

Women being emotional: Volume 16252622



I been raw dawging for years...... I've never used protection ever in life.

And one thing I realized.... If you get a bytch pregnant.... You deserve that shyt.

Babies arent accidents.

I know too many nikkas that brag about bustin in their girl like its some fly shyt to do

And I know plenty chicks that crack jokes about gettin nutted in.... Motherfukkas think shyt is all fun and games... No sympathy for them.

Its actually extremely easy to have raw sex and avoid pregnancy.

But anyways.... Grandparents are a blessing.

I barely seen or spent time with my parents until I was almost an adult because they were too busy on the grind working.


I was raised by my grandmother

Many women get abortions without saying anything to the guy who got them pregnant. I've heard too many stories. Try to use protection if you don't want kids, guys.

 

[ItzRailT]

Nope don't feel sorry why these women don't think when they're out screwing all these dope boys and bums oh well if she would've picked a good brother she wouldn't be going through it.

 

[Dzali OG]

I want to beat this bytch ass...

SHE GOT 4 fukkIN KIDS...KNOWING SHE HAS FEW OPTIONS.

And we wonder where the bottom of society comes from! We wonder why kids grow up fukked up. Who the kids are who get abused and become monsters.

I'm just disgusted...

And in pain for the kids...

 

[Guile]

She could of chose better

Used protection

Used morning after pill

Got an abortion

I mean....

 

[LoStranger]

She could of chose better

Used protection

Used morning after pill

Got an abortion

I mean....

Exactly all those birth control options and she utilises none of them. fukk these single mothers and fukk their b*stard children too they annoy the fukk out of me. I would drop a fukking bomb on them all if I could, selfish b*stards

 

[TaxCollector13459]

Have two kids you aint ready to take care of brehs and brehettes and when shyt get rough , run to social media

 

[151_Pr00f]

What percentage of black America is financially ready to have children?

At least wait until marriage. shyt is not rocket science. Women should use every measure available to avoid pregnancy until a suitor has made a lifetime commitment to them.

shyt boils down to women thinking emotionally. They think the child will fill an immediate void or the child will lock down a man who will fill some void. They don't approach it from a strategic angle in terms of legacy building and long term consequences.

 

[thekingsmen]

She was emotionally unstable from the get go. She is extremely dangerous.

 

[mamba]

Before she had children, perhaps her mind should have been checked for any signs of underdevelopment.

 

[mamba]

What percentage of black America is financially ready to have children?

Very few.

 

[mamba]

at the end of the day I feel sorry for no single mothers, i mean all you have to do is live by the rule do not have kids for any man unless you are married to him.

Yes divorce happens but most men that get married and start a fmaily with you the odds are he's not going to abandon his kids

You'd think women would find that simple rule easy to follow!