Young single mom cries about needing a break

[Matt504]

that was a rough watch.

 

[Easy-E]

shyt is hard, sometimes people need to vent

This does not mean she's going to throw her kids out

Her moment of venting now becomes a permanent part of the zeitgeist, now.

This is the downside of instant contact to the world.

I understand, but, don't act she said this in privacy.

 

[Maxine Shaw]

Vasectomies and tubal ligations.

You'd be amazed at how hard it is for a woman to get a tubal. Four different doctors turned me down for being too young. Even married women hit bumps.

The Hardest Part of Getting My Tubes Tied Was Making Doctors Take Me Seriously

 

[Mr swag]

Only thing I want to talk about is all the “nice” guys she passed up

 

[Mr swag]

This is what happens when you’d don’t use your brain to think ahead in the future. Use that big human brain that you born with and make the right decisions.

This bytch got TWO kids. This has nothing to do with not thinking ahead

 

[drugxglory]

bytches love having babies by nikkas that don’t want no babies.

This.

 

[KENNY DA COOKER]

its not FAIR cause you feel you don't have the option of abandoning your kids like the dudes in your life...

STFU BYATCH.............back to back pregnancies YOU CHOSE THAT LIFE..AND YOU KNEW THE CONSEQUENCES

NOW BACK IN THE FUKKING HOUSE AND "MAN DA FUKK UP" AND RAISE THOSE BABIES THAT YOU CREATED!!!!!!!

 

[Mr swag]

Posts like this crack me up. We created a giant rigged monopoly game as a species, then make a statement that says we shouldn't reproduce unless we are on the winning end of the monopoly game.

Base your survival as a species on a rigged monopoly game run by psycopathic elites brehs...

Most of the stuff we have we don't really need to survive anyway, it's just conditioning

I agree, she can go hunting for squirrels in the woods. We don’t need no damn grocery stores. Just conditioning

 

[luciddreamer]

I'm selling humble pies in this thread, seems like a few of you may need some..

She needs to visit a therapist, the internet is the wrong place for these kind of breakdowns...

 

[Reign_Of_The_Most_High]

Damn. Feel so sorry for those children.. This is mad selfish and unstable on her part- all she's talking about is walking away and how overwhelmed she is. selfish af. she has literally zero coping skills and seems to be one step away from taking their frustration out on them. Nevermind the fact that they're only 1 and 2 years old, she's got a lifetime of parenting ahead. Then, the babies didn't ask to be here and she's complaining about everything, clearly she was not prepared and has not accepted the emotional, physical or financial responsibility- either give them to relatives who are better able to take care of them or be a real mother, be strong, stop the breakdowns and figure out ways to better yourself for their benefit, stop worrying about the past and what you have no control over. Being a mother is about sacrificing, we do what we need and have to. This shyt is NOT about YOU and YOUR needs anymore.

WTF.. and then she had one baby already, then fukked around and had another back to back; knowing she wasn't ready for the first one. But now she's complaining now about the consequences and responsibilities.

This is the type of attitude that is permeating on social media platform from irresponsible people looking for an echo chambers of fake "supporters" to help them lie to themselves about their state in life. We see this with women and their soap box ranting and railing from "ain't shyt men" to "black men ain't shyt" (while secretly and sometimes openly pining for white men) to trying to prop up single motherhood like a badge of honor. Social media, its misuse in amplifying small and specific issues into these seemingly epidemic level situations is one of my biggest pet peeves about the platform.

 

[Rekkapryde]

I am more in favor of educating people about the risks and the realities of sex.The realities of single motherhood and the risks of catching an std/sti or a hpv. Giving out free condoms.
With welfare facing more and more cuts, I do struggle to see in how people can just a have a laid back mentality when it comes to having kids but I doubt they even know before it is too late.

It's not gonna stop people from fukkin. And it's cheaper to have birth control pills than paying for kids in the system

 

[O.Red]

Everybody needs to vent at some point

But DAMN put the phone down

Am I crazy for thinking this?????

 

[SunGod]

Damn. Feel so sorry for those children.. This is mad selfish and unstable on her part- all she's talking about is walking away and how overwhelmed she is. selfish af. she has literally zero coping skills and seems to be one step away from taking their frustration out on them. Nevermind the fact that they're only 1 and 2 years old, she's got a lifetime of parenting ahead. Then, the babies didn't ask to be here and she's complaining about everything, clearly she was not prepared and has not accepted the emotional, physical or financial responsibility- either give them to relatives who are better able to take care of them or be a real mother, be strong, stop the breakdowns and figure out ways to better yourself for their benefit, stop worrying about the past and what you have no control over. Being a mother is about sacrificing, we do what we need and have to. This shyt is NOT about YOU and YOUR needs anymore.

WTF.. and then she had one baby already, then fukked around and had another back to back; knowing she wasn't ready for the first one. But now she's complaining now about the consequences and responsibilities.

Are you @agnosticlady?

 

[tsuki2]

I watched the whole thing and Jesus I can appreciate her honesty because this is the side of motherhood people really don’t like to talk about or show because “all babies are blessings”. I mean I’m ready to jump out the window when I gotta deal with my niece and nephews (or any children) after awhile so I can’t even imagine what parents go though, let alone a single mother.

With that said though my sympathy is low too many birth control, family planning options available out here today. But people tend to ingnore that to follow some lifescript regardless of their financial situation, mental & emtional health. Having back to back kids on top of already having 2 kids was very careless on her part and now she has to take responsibility for those kids.

 

[street heat]

i get it.... my daughters mom says she needs a break sometime. i can understand, but this heaux here..... seems to me she had kids by a man or men she knew were not going to stick around. you obviously wanted those kids or they wouldn't be here.

1. why are you not on birth control ?
2. why are you lettin dudes nut in you when you're not on birth control ?
3. why didn't you take a plan b ?
4. why didnt you get an abortion ?

not once, but multiple times failed in these processes knowing the consequences. the first kid was hard and yet you still decided to pop out another one back to back. its hard to feel bad for women who do this. you knew damn well those dudes didnt want to be a part of that. they probably felt like she tried to trap them anyway. a kid has never made a man stick around. if a dude isnt getting down on one knee proposing, its safe to assume he is not interested in starting a family with you, so if you don't want to be a single mom just take the damn birth control until you are on your honeymoon. its that simple