Young single mom cries about needing a break

[Nicole0416_718_929_646212]

You got me, I was fully expecting you to say don't have kids. I have kids and I get where she's coming from. I feel her pain, kids are non-stop 24/7 and some people aren't built for this life.

Why is that? I don't speak on anything unless I can relate to it personally or have experienced it, or have been around others who have provided advice on issues that I'm dealing with. I don't like to see children affected by the decisions of their "mothers", that's something that I'm passionate about.. no mother is perfect and kids can be unappreciative, so it can work both ways, but as parents we have to burden the responsibility to make sure our kids are taken care of and have resources, if we can't provide them first hand, then we figure out a way for them to obtain whatever is necessary. Not "being built for this life" is not an excuse.. kids do grow up. What are you going to tell them at 18, when you failed as a parent? - "sorry, rest of your life is on you, I wasn't built for it, I tried.... ".

 

[BruhManFromTheFifthFlo]

It's funny seeing folks in here telling her to suck it up knowing they would never trade places with her because they would be saying the same shyt. She probably was saying the same thing like ya'll and it turned out to be a lot different than what she expected. Can't judge because don't know what she's dealing with. At least she's keeping it 100 by venting. There's plenty of mothers and fathers that feel the same way but are lying through their teeth. Happy mothers day to her even though she's far from happy.

No I wouldn’t trade places with her because I’m not stupid. And I doubt she was saying the same things as me because if she was she wouldn’t be fukking without protection in the first place

There’s always abortion and adoption which she chose not to do also. Can’t feel sorry for her life choices :Umad2pac:

 

[Henri Christophe]

"Men can just leave. Its NOT FAIR. "




Yo... Seeing women complain cause they cant be men will always be COMEDY


Yes bytch.... we can do shyt that you cant. U goddamn right... We can spread seed and then dissapper... Thats why its up to you to properly choose.

bytches be choosin on bums like the shyt is a sport

 

[tater]

in the first few seconds of the video (had you watched it) she says - "i know these kids are in their crying, but I don't care.. I just can't take it" something similar to that, keep in mind the kids are ages 1 and 2. How is that taking care of her kids?

If I didn’t watch the video (which you know because you acknowledged that), how would I know her kids were crying and she didn’t attend to them?

 

[Nicole0416_718_929_646212]

So I finally watched the video, and I still have the same conclusion...homegirl has no plan and didn't give herself time to learn her kids because she had them back to back...a dumb bird.

And the bullshyt about how men get to do yadda yadda is just .

My two boys literally move heaven and Earth to get to me as soon as I walk through the door when I get home . I DON'T get to make my own moves because I have to tend to them, but that's what I'm supposed to do and I love doing it and being a part of their lives.

They love their mother too, but daddy makes the world go round for them and it's all by design and planning.

Homegirl just chose the wrong one...crying about how men get to do whatever foh . It's annoying as fukk when you got real ones doing the right thing out here.

Indeed. REP...(as soon as I am able to)

and yes.. extremely annoying when we're doing right by them as real mothers.

 

[666 ReVeNGe 666]

No kids

 

[Hiphoplives4eva]

This woman needs help before she kills her kids. She should reach out to those women that praised her endlessly when she got pregnant.

 

[ChatGPT-5]

RAW NO PULLOUT gang where you at?

Now it's "she made the choice"

Men can be some fukking a$$holes sometimes.

 

[Rawtid]

We don't have the benefit of therapy or even understanding from friends and family. She's allowed to break down, she's allowed to cry, the shyt is hard and some fathers don't do their part. Regardless of what she did, she just needs to refocus on here and now. I hope someone takes the kids for a few hours and let her get herself together. Don't have anymore kids though, bih!

 

[Nicole0416_718_929_646212]

If I didn’t watch the video (which you know because you acknowledged that), how would I know her kids were crying and she didn’t attend to them?

.ummm.. I'm not the smartest person in the world.. but, why are you commenting on this when you haven't even watched it. i'm no brain surgeon.. but ummm, didn't you just comment that you're sure she was taking care of her kids.. so why offer an opinion when you can't support it because you didn't watch the evidence laid out in front of you???

 

[damn_ese]

. . . . life choices . . . . . . . . . . i hope the best for her, she's stressed out, but im hopefull she and her babies will have a good life and most importantly those kids feel wanted and loved , she mentioned she had to step out of the house because of the screaming , which is good on her part, instead of letting her frustration lead to beating them

 

[Nicole0416_718_929_646212]

I hope someone takes the kids for a few hours and let her get herself together.

a few hours?? more like weeks... months

Don't have anymore kids though, bih!

 

[Rawtid]

"Men can just leave. Its NOT FAIR. "




Yo... Seeing women complain cause they cant be men will always be COMEDY


Yes bytch.... we can do shyt that you cant. U goddamn right... We can spread seed and then dissapper... Thats why its up to you to properly choose.

bytches be choosin on bums like the shyt is a sport

men like being bums like it's a sport.

 

[TELL ME YA CHEESIN FAM?]

Them be the breaks

 

[NaijaProdigy Redux]

Maybe people can stop acting like having a kid is a blessing — circumstances be damned.

If you’re not emotionally or financially ready for a kid, pregnancy is not a blessing

 

[Henri Christophe]

men like being bums like it's a sport.

Choose better.... Its plenty nikkas out here gettin money

There will always be winners and losers in life.

Some women understand this and roll with the winning team.


I can't generate any sympathy for women who choose up on bums


Sorry