NobleDrewAli
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Two kids. 1 and 2 years old.
Young single mom cries about needing a break
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Two kids. 1 and 2 years old.
Was she fine, or was the ass fat? Those are usually the black women who don't listen to reason.
As a mother of an 11 month old, 2 year old and 4 year old (all same father) I understand some of her frustration
There have been times all three are crying at one time with different needs and I just want to hydouken each of them
So I go to my designated quiet zone (the bathroom) and step away from the madness for a few mins and recompose myself, I applaud her for going out to vent because some evil women would take it out on the children
Where I disagree with her is her externalising her situation and blaming the man, a lot of women will use their children as a weapon over the father and turn around an cry because they can’t move like a man. I have a great support system with my partner and family and can not stress the importance making sure you pro create with a man that is ready to be a responsible father.
Even if the relationship fails, effective co-parenting is possible if chicks stops using their babies as leverage over men
There have been times all three are crying at one time with different needs and I just want to hydouken each of them
So I go to my designated quiet zone (the bathroom) and step away from the madness for a few mins and recompose myself, I applaud her for going out to vent because some evil women would take it out on the children
Where I disagree with her is her externalising her situation and blaming the man, a lot of women will use their children as a weapon over the father and turn around an cry because they can’t move like a man. I have a great support system with my partner and family and can not stress the importance making sure you pro create with a man that is ready to be a responsible father.
Even if the relationship fails, effective co-parenting is possible if chicks stops using their babies as leverage over men
letti cook
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she's frustrated and needed to vent...we all do 
i get it..i have a friend in the same exact situation and she goes through these spells but she stays down...she's a good, active mother..
BUT....ive known her since we were 12. ive seen her fukk with same aint shyt dudes and have babies by them over and over...and it does wear down my empathy...cause im sitting here telling her...this is a replica of the nikka you just got fukked over by
...
she'll ignore it and pop up with another child and another rant..
its mind blowing to me
and what's even crazier is everybody in my fam from cousins, to siblings, to uncles having kids...going through all kinds of bullshyt and depression because of it..then looking at me with the
for not wanting kids..
my bro and his girl had babies back to back years...cant do shyt...straight up miserable...but wondering why im not trying to have any...whats wrong with me
my mother ran out on me and my brother...and now asking for grandbabies
im frustrated with damn self, i dont need that headache
i get it..i have a friend in the same exact situation and she goes through these spells but she stays down...she's a good, active mother..
BUT....ive known her since we were 12. ive seen her fukk with same aint shyt dudes and have babies by them over and over...and it does wear down my empathy...cause im sitting here telling her...this is a replica of the nikka you just got fukked over by
...she'll ignore it and pop up with another child and another rant..
its mind blowing to me
and what's even crazier is everybody in my fam from cousins, to siblings, to uncles having kids...going through all kinds of bullshyt and depression because of it..then looking at me with the
for not wanting kids..my bro and his girl had babies back to back years...cant do shyt...straight up miserable...but wondering why im not trying to have any...whats wrong with me
my mother ran out on me and my brother...and now asking for grandbabies
im frustrated with damn self, i dont need that headache
Did you quote the wrong person?
KamikazePilot
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She's lightskin
NobleDrewAli
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Cel 510 kid ados forever
Veteran
Nintendough
#Kliq
She gave up her breaks when she let homie nut in her.
Agreed.
I'm not gonna go back and forth in this thread tho cuz I can already see that some people are very emotional about this subject on both ends.
All i'm going to say is that storks don't drop babies in your lap like this is a nursery rhyme.
There are so many choices that lead up to having a child with an aint shyt man.
If you make those choices, you deal with the consequences.
Sadly your children do as well.
they (or he) came through as she was making the live... that was confusing to, not like he's totally out the picture or the baby's life, if he popped up like that.
feelosofer
#ninergang
I was a single father for short while with my oldest son. She's human and she has the right to vent out her frustrations online. But having two children back to back is making bad life decisions and she needs to take more responsibility for that.