Young single mom cries about needing a break

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Agreed.I'm not gonna go back and forth in this thread tho cuz I can already see that some people are very emotional about this subject on both ends.All i'm going to say is that storks don't drop babies in your lap like this is a nursery rhyme.There are so many choices that lead up to having a child with an aint shyt man.If you make those choices, you deal with the consequences.Sadly your children do as well.

What does she even have to offer to the streets if she had no kids? The Answer = NOTHING.
 

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See? I ain't really feeling all this.

I'm sure parents (good and bad ones) get sick and tired of their kids (and they still love them), I'm sure mines got sick of my sibling and I but to post it for the world to hear/see is stupid and selfish.

Nobody said don't think that, or hell, say it to close friends and fam, most understand the sentiment...but it sounds stupid and irresponsible to post it for the world to interpret.


They like laying down and making the babies (hell, we all do)
They like being showered with attention and gifts when they're pregnant
Oh it's so fun when they're small and cute. Not talking much or learning how and you can dress em up like an accessory.
But it sucks severely when they develop personalities and habits and overall getting on ya damn nerves (:whew: thank God I don't have kids a the moment)

This like people complaining that marriage is harder than they thought. Folk think that the party (wedding) you throw for everybody else is how life is going to be moving forward.
Nah fam, it's gonna be the same as it was before, pretty much, except now you with/stuck with another person you gotta look out for and care about almost as much as yourself (goes for men and women)

She shouldn't have posted the video. What did she think she was gonna get? Sympathy? :mjlol::camby:
 

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I'm not a parent. On purpose. I like my freedom. I haven't found the one to make those decisions with yet. I personally don't feel my current financial situation would provide for me and my (hypothetical) child. So I don't fault this woman for being half way out of her mind, crying, or even being on FBL. She's right (again, only watched up to 3:20) though. Men do run out. Men do have more freedom to move about even with a child. Women are expected to take care of that child regardless of what the father does. Which is why men keep telling women stop being hoes. Stop being loose. Make far better decisions with your vagina. This (brand of) equality shyt white women keep pushing gonna get you all in more trouble then you realize. Men can be hoes, women can't. That FBL should be enough to show you why.
 

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And I've never been asked to use protection:yeshrug:

And I've asked homies as well... None of us have ever been asked to use protection... Women just be taking raw dikk .... I noticed a trend :mjgrin:



But I dont go around blessing just any bytch with my time :takedat:


When I get a bytch, I plan to have her on my team for an extended period of time.


No one-night stands with me.


Someone should make a thread on why women don't request men use protection
 

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Doesn’t mean she’s not taking care of her kids (don’t know for sure, didn’t watch).

in the first few seconds of the video (had you watched it) she says - "i know these kids are in their crying, but I don't care.. I just can't take it" something similar to that, keep in mind the kids are ages 1 and 2. How is that taking care of her kids?
 

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Damn. Feel so sorry for those children.. This is mad selfish and unstable on her part- all she's talking about is walking away and how overwhelmed she is. selfish af. she has literally zero coping skills and seems to be one step away from taking their frustration out on them. Nevermind the fact that they're only 1 and 2 years old, she's got a lifetime of parenting ahead. Then, the babies didn't ask to be here and she's complaining about everything, clearly she was not prepared and has not accepted the emotional, physical or financial responsibility- either give them to relatives who are better able to take care of them or be a real mother, be strong, stop the breakdowns and figure out ways to better yourself for their benefit, stop worrying about the past and what you have no control over. Being a mother is about sacrificing, we do what we need and have to. This shyt is NOT about YOU and YOUR needs anymore.

WTF.. and then she had one baby already, then fukked around and had another back to back; knowing she wasn't ready for the first one. But now she's complaining now about the consequences and responsibilities.
When they get older it's a wrap :mjcry:

She gonna be frustrated and yelling all the time over small shyt taking it on the kids.

Brehs raised by a single mom can relate :mjgrin:
 

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Aye. That chick in that other thread was popping on Twitter that women are the prize that men need to fight for, so they can’t get mad when we tell their ass to chose better. HOSM Hard On Single Mothers

You can tell she has no creative hobbies that she enjoys, if it doesn't involve pleasure, shyt is boring to her. She would rather be on the streets with her crazy friends seeking attention and causing havoc.
 

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So I finally watched the video, and I still have the same conclusion...homegirl has no plan and didn't give herself time to learn her kids because she had them back to back...a dumb bird.

And the bullshyt about how men get to do yadda yadda is just :snoop:.

My two boys literally move heaven and Earth to get to me as soon as I walk through the door when I get home :mjcry:. I DON'T get to make my own moves because I have to tend to them, but that's what I'm supposed to do :wow:and I love doing it and being a part of their lives.

They love their mother too, but daddy makes the world go round for them and it's all by design and planning.

Homegirl just chose the wrong one...crying about how men get to do whatever foh :stopitslime:. It's annoying as fukk when you got real ones doing the right thing out here.
 
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