Young single mom cries about needing a break

[Brolic Scholar]

Are you comparing having kids 4 days a week to having kids 7 days a week

Yeah... that’s what I meant. Here’s your dap.

 

[RhymesWell]

Gotta plan better, bottom line

 

[EndDomination]

Yeah... that’s what I meant. Here’s your dap.

Not even at your neck, I teach kids 5-6 days a week, I see most of them more than their parents do.
And I have them 20-30 at a time.
I can see why she'd be under massive duress.

 

[kayslay]

Did y’all even look at the vid? At some point the father showed up to get the kid

I know that.
I’m speaking in the fact that damn near none of the comments except two asked about him.

 

[kayslay]

This is anecdotal. I just gave a rule of thumb. One thing I'll agree with is that not everyone is cool with being a parent. A lot of people are unfortunately selfish and only want to deal with things on their terms.

I know few cases where mothers werent shyt to their kids well. Heck my grandmother was barely in my mom's life because she was too busy having a life of her own. Sure she helped out financially and made sure my mom was always taken care of, but as far physically being there she just wasnt. And to this day my grandmother exhibits those selfish characteristics of only considering her needs first. Matter of fact, i'll take it a step further my grandfather tried to be in my mom's life, but grandmother pushed him away. Literally she ran him off. Wanted to raise my mom on her own. Theres multiple accounts of this in my family.

The point is the warning signs are usually there is subtle ways. And it's not solely a "black male" problem, sure from your perspective it is, but my brother deals with roughly the same shyt. And ex wife is an absolute parasite incapable of taking her self or even the kids...

When did I say it was?

The truth is there is a rampant culture of men being left off the hook when it comes to parenting and fatherhood in the Black community this is Fact!

So much so people will talk shyt about this woman for pages and pages and only like 1-3 people even mentioned the fathers and what role they play in the situation.

Luckily the dad saw her cry for help and stepped in to give her a much needed break.

And it corny that we can never seem to have the conversation with out a tit for tat “Black women do it too” argument.

I acknowledged that in my earlier post women are just as capable of being bad parents.

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

@Booksnrain don't dap posts about me, bytch I don't fukk with you. At all.

I do whatever I want and ain't shyt ur c00ning impotent ass can do to stop it. Go choke on another white man's dikk and shuck and jive for more white wimminz, while soft toe justifying more pedophiles. Don't think I don't get ur dumb ass agenda bytch.

 

[Nicole0416_718_929_646212]

Not even at your neck, I teach kids 5-6 days a week, I see most of them more than their parents do.
And I have them 20-30 at a time.
I can see why she'd be under massive duress.

Are you, yourself a parent?? No way that you can compare teaching a child to actually parenting a child/children. That’s a false equivalent. Massive duress??? It’s called being a parent, shytz not supposed to be stress free

 

[Nicole0416_718_929_646212]

That's basic frustration, but of course I didn't watch the whole video. I'd bet a lot of single mothers who kids fathers aint in their lives feel the same way.

No, I don’t . That’s wayyyy more than basic frustration she’s sounding off on.

 

[EndDomination]

Are you, yourself a parent?? No way that you can compare teaching a child to actually parenting a child/children. That’s a false equivalent. Massive duress??? It’s called being a parent, shytz not supposed to be stress free

Neither does having them a few days a week.
My post clearly alluded to teaching only being a fraction of the stress of raising a child.
And yes, being a parent becomes more and more stressful the harder you go.
A parent in a bad situation with incredibly high goals will be far more anxious and under stress, I know I would be.

 

[kickz]

Play stupid games, win stupid ass prizes..

Don't have kids until your life is in order brehs/brehettes.

Its fukking cruel and traumatic to these kids to have to deal with a fukking parent who is clueless