“ You’re a nice guy but I don’t think there’s a connection”

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Let's be real this a common thing g for both genders
I didn’t say it wasn’t but it’s immature and insecure/bitter as hell.

People feel hella entitled out here and it’s not that serious.

Why focus on someone who doesn’t want you? When I’m sure you’ve done the same to someone else?
 

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I didn’t say it wasn’t but it’s immature and insecure/bitter as hell.

People feel hella entitled out here and it’s not that serious.

Why focus on someone who doesn’t want you? When I’m sure you’ve done the same to someone else?
There's some successful people out here who got their drive to be where they are now because they got rejected by someone and wanted to prove them wrong. For some people it motivates them.

The problem other people run into is when they already feel like the shyt and someone they view as not on their level rejects them then it hits the ego. For OP it was her being 34 and living in a small apartment with all her siblings. Many people wanna maintain a feeling of superiority over others. :yeshrug:
 

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This is why for a first meet I suggest a walk or you grab a coffee.

If you and her got chemistry then a walk or a coffee will reveal that. If she's not interested in that then she's not excited about you. And that's a non starter for me.

Taking broads out to the cinema or to eat blinds us as they can enjoy food and drink and entertainment then bounce.

A walk or a coffee focuses and strips down your interactions to you and her and no distraction.
 

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There's some successful people out here who got their drive to be where they are now because they got rejected by someone and wanted to prove them wrong. For some people it motivates them.

The problem other people run into is when they already feel like the shyt and someone they view as not on their level rejects them then it hits the ego. For OP it was her being 34 and living in a small apartment with all her siblings. Many people wanna maintain a feeling of superiority over others. :yeshrug:



i didnt find out about the amount of siblings till after the date…didnt know about the daddy issues till the date…i try not to judge someone hard…even tho i basically got told im not attractive enough to date(aka nice guy)…while im doing good in life…shes 35 and still stays in that apartment complaining about men at and creeping towards that 40 year old cat lady level…
 

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i didnt find out about the amount of siblings till after the date…didnt know about the daddy issues till the date…i try not to judge someone hard…even tho i basically got told im not attractive enough to date(aka nice guy)…while im doing good in life…shes 35 and still stays in that apartment complaining about men at and creeping towards that 40 year old cat lady level…
Would yall be together if she didn't reject you yes or no?
 
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