Black men are the only race of men that ask me to smile

[NZA]

to be honest, other races of men generally dont talk to black women they dont already know from work unless they are trying to trick off some money on you, so you are not privy to their usual interactions with women. women around the world have gripes about random men overstepping their bounds, but it is typically intraracial.

 

[Macon Dead III]

Back in college I had to read a long essay by a white feminist about random (white) men telling her to smile. This is not something unique with Black men.

 

[13473]

to be honest, other races of men generally dont talk to black women they dont already know from work unless they are trying to trick off some money on you

how would u know

 

[KOOL-AID]

You gonna learn the hard way.

I have faith in her, there will be no hard way bro

 

[godkiller]

This is good.


It means black men like you and aren't afraid to say it. If you're mad that black men hit on you and ask you to smile (in order to show you like them and that they are free to hit on you further), you need to find a bridge and get over it quickly. @Marty Kaan

Appreciate that black men ask you to smile because someday they won't ask you. And when that day comes, you'll bemoan it.

 

[NZA]

how would u know

all my life i have worked around arizona cacs and did all my years of college with them. i know them in multiple settings, breh. many will outright say that they usually are not attracted to black girls, but there's this one...etc. and they usually just want debauchery with her, not to see them smile.

i dont know if you have been around lots of cacs for an extended period of time, but often they try to "slum" with blacks or dont really deal with us at all unless they have to.

 

[Spatial Paradox]

Y'all let this thread get pass 30 posts

I swear people secretly enjoy these types of threads

 

[Elle Driver]

When they ask me to smile I just give them a dirty ass look.

 

[Anerdyblackguy]

This is not a bash thread nor a gender bait thread but can a black man answer this question tho:

Why do yall feel the need to ask a woman to smile?

Sometimes I may be in deep thought and dont realize that Im muggin hard af like

Case in point:

I went on lunch break earlier today (yes I tried something healthy for a change ............crispy chicken salad with balsamic vinaigrette and a bottle of that nasty ass dasani water )

Im in line waiting to order when this tall, lanky ass construction worker ass nikka approach me with the face ready to fukk with me.


I hit him with the :dafukc:


Him: "Why cant u smile at least one time for me "

Me: ":dafukc:"

Him: "U use more muscles to frown sweetie "

Me:" "

Him: "I'm not going to leave u alone until u smile and show ur teeth "

Me:

Him: "So now u cant talk "

Me:" *steaming* "


Me: "Buy my food then ill give u a smile "



Him: "Black women "*proceeds to grab his kids meal and leave*

we all know nikkas hate spending money got rid of his ass real quick :mlaff:

It sounded like he was trying to start a conversation. Black women usually have good smiles, so he was using it as a talking point.

 

[kittenheels]

This is not a bash thread nor a gender bait thread but can a black man answer this question tho:

Why do yall feel the need to ask a woman to smile?

Sometimes I may be in deep thought and dont realize that Im muggin hard af like

Case in point:

I went on lunch break earlier today (yes I tried something healthy for a change ............crispy chicken salad with balsamic vinaigrette and a bottle of that nasty ass dasani water )

Im in line waiting to order when this tall, lanky ass construction worker ass nikka approach me with the face ready to fukk with me.


I hit him with the :dafukc:


Him: "Why cant u smile at least one time for me "

Me: ":dafukc:"

Him: "U use more muscles to frown sweetie "

Me:" "

Him: "I'm not going to leave u alone until u smile and show ur teeth "

Me:

Him: "So now u cant talk "

Me:" *steaming* "


Me: "Buy my food then ill give u a smile "



Him: "Black women "*proceeds to grab his kids meal and leave*

we all know nikkas hate spending money got rid of his ass real quick :mlaff:

lol. I get that all the time. " Smile sunshine." But then again, I have a resting bytch face most of the time. I'll smirk before I smile. The only time I smile is when I see my parents, siblings and payday.

 

[Biscayne]

they love blk women like no other

FettyMjpls

LMAO

 

[Dreadknox77]

I'll agree. that shyt is corny.matter of fact he is corny. He could of at least hit u with a

Me:"in deep thought huh?"
You :Excuse me?

Me: u just seem really focus up there, about something.. that's all.

Now u off guard for a second, not knowing if im tryna holla or just concern. Then i hit with the

Me: cause i was about to skip yo ass, im hungry ...
Then ill hit u with a lil flirty



Strange nikkas just wanna come out the blue, and demand and dictate that a women smile.
He aint know what u was going through. Nor did his ass care. But Tupac does.

And most times, when a women is not giving me eye contact, and other signs .i just give them their space. Unless i already know them, then ill ask them how they feel.

This ...

Dudes out here just be asking chicks to smile , no imagination, no thinking outside the box .


At the same time tho, don't ask me to buy u shyt when I literally just met u.

 

[Cynic]

It's because we care about you and your health.......

You are already slovenly in appearance so those brothers are actually helping you out....


There was a 32 year study done on the "duchenne smile" and it's effects on happiness and relationships for women

Expressions of Positive Emotion in Women's College Yearbook Pictures and Their Relationship to Personality and Life Outcomes Across Adulthood

The Psychological Study of Smiling

 

[thekingsmen]

When they ask me to smile I just give them a dirty ass look.

Smile for me...

 

[thekingsmen]

Is a smile reserved for a paying customer? I have some bitter ass black women at work who have this chip on their shoulders but I guess they rather have that brother making the white girl smile instead. At least there are a few sistas who actually are a joy to see everyday that creates a better environment and morale goes up.