Bridesmaid, 31, hanged herself after struggling to cope with seeing her friends get married...

[Cabbage Patch]

Women are egg banks waiting to be fertilized.

Does that God status get revoked once they hit menopause and stop being able to give birth?

 

[International Playa]

Female version of Kent?

 

[Cabbage Patch]

Who is this loser I'm replying to?

Someone wondering why youre in your feelings over that post. But whatever.

 

[StickStickly]

Even tho she's past her prime she'd literally rather die then date and marry an average guy


DIe for your ego brehettes

Failed suicide attempts for attention

You guys get some weird type of self gratification out of this shyt. she was depressed dude. depressed people don't think their worthy of anyone, let alone average people. Who's to say she didn't try with an average guy? Why do you all project your adventures in life on these stories lol

 

[Cynic]

The point I was getting to was that for some people, their identity is vested in their careers and/or superficial things.

Think about it from a certain perspective, I wake up every morning and go to work. I make my employer thousands upon thousands of dollars for my labor, they're definitely getting the lion's share of the rewards of my productivity but I make a very reasonable wage. Day after day, it's the same routine.. 12 hour days, on call, etc.. Something's missing, I'm happy in my career but I feel it's not enough. I see my friends.. They're marrying, they're in sustained relationships.. there's a warmth that comes from them now that is strange to me but I feel that joy, I want it for myself but how? I've been in school for so long, working so long to get to the top that I really don't know how to really establish myself within a relationship.. I'm frustrated but I am OK, I guess.

If I think about it, I've devoted myself to my work but when think about the thought of me laying in my deathbed and I think of the people I've impacted.. Will they come to comfort me in my last hours? Will the company that I've devoted years of my life to, made hundreds of thousands of dollars for..will they give a damn? Of course, my kin are always there but the thought of descending into the grave without leaving a tangible legacy would terrify me. No children, no spouse.. None to carry my memory or blood beyond my death. I'm speaking in hypotheticals but imagine getting older and wanting this but being frustrated by your inability to accomplish this for whatever reason.. Desperation can sometimes become inescapable.

This is why I ask folks what is it that you want to do on this Earth, what do you want to leave behind? Beyond a career and security.. What else is there? Money get spent, tombstones get whited to a point where names fade. Do you want to die alone or with no one (such a child, spouse, etc..) to fully cherish and/or pass off your memory to their kids?

I've found my passion and this will never be an issue....


Yeah having a child would be nice but i'm not sacrificing my self esteem,
emotional,mental and financial health for it.


If I ever have children it will be through surrogacy or in Saudia Arabia


On my terms


Mordern women are uncontrollable variables....I'd rather die alone than rely on the unreliable

 

[Gold]

You guys get some weird type of self gratification out of this shyt. she was depressed dude. depressed people don't think their worthy of anyone, let alone average people. Who's to say she didn't try with an average guy? Why do you all project your adventures in life on these stories lol

If she was depressed, she was depressed.... whatever was really going on in her head, none of us know.
But if she really killed herself over not having a man, she's not getting sympathy over here.

I don't find anything admirable about killing yourself for nonsense reasons

 

[FeloniousMonk]

I've found my passion and this will never be an issue....


Yeah having a child would be nice but i'm not sacrificing my self esteem,
emotional,mental and financial health for it.


If I ever have children it will be through surrogacy or in Saudia Arabia


On my terms


Mordern women are uncontrollable variables....I'd rather die alone than rely on the unreliable

You really live up to your screen name..dont you?

 

[Mr Hate Coffee]

It be like that sometimes. I don't think people realize the pressure you feel as a woman to "settle" down and the stigma associated with it not happening according to society's timeline. It can be very difficult because as a woman, that's really all you're expected to do in life. You could be a neurosurgeon and the first thing you'll be asked is "When are you going to settle down and have kids?"

To be honest, successful men have the same pressure. Especially if you live outside of NYC and LA. Everyone asks you why you haven't found a wife yet, the proceeds to analyze what's wrong with you or try to hook you up with their niece or some shyt

 

[Deflatedhoopdreams]

Entitlement is a horrible thing

 

[semtex]

It be like that sometimes. I don't think people realize the pressure you feel as a woman to "settle" down and the stigma associated with it not happening according to society's timeline. It can be very difficult because as a woman, that's really all you're expected to do in life. You could be a neurosurgeon and the first thing you'll be asked is "When are you going to settle down and have kids?"

My sis just got engaged to a dude that cheated on his wife to meet her she's been through all types of bs with that dude and has a 6 year old by him, now she finna marry him I think this pressure plays a big part in it because she's 34

 

[Rawtid]

My sis just got engaged to a dude that cheated on his wife to meet her she's been through all types of bs with that dude and has a 6 year old by him, now she finna marry him I think this pressure plays a big part in it because she's 34

Damn! So he divorced his wife, right?

 

[EpicStoryTeller]

You guys get some weird type of self gratification out of this shyt. she was depressed dude. depressed people don't think their worthy of anyone, let alone average people. Who's to say she didn't try with an average guy? Why do you all project your adventures in life on these stories lol

Nobody feels sorry for her because it's most likely true that she curved a lot of men while trying to hold out for a guy who was never going to come. That guy was probably her ex, and when he didn't want her back it sent her over the edge.

She should've took a chance with one of the men who actually wanted her time.

 

[semtex]

Damn! So he divorced his wife, right?

Actually I don't know. He lied about it before and ended up staying with her again at one point. Plus made my sis call their house to apologize for "wrecking their home"

 

[b_low_brown]

Wait her death was a misadventure not a suicide

They basically saying she tied the rope around her neck, kicked the chair, then a few seconds later was like "I can die from this huh."

 

[Rawtid]

Actually I don't know. He lied about it before and ended up staying with her again at one point. Plus made my sis call their house to apologize for "wrecking their home"

And you sister still like that nikka? She actually did it though?